What's the best thing about being a submissive?

[si****]

What drives you on being the best submissive possible? Does it give you purpose ? Fulfillment?

[Deleted Member]

It gives me routine and structure and a support system that my brain needs and craves. It makes me feel whole. I think about it 95% of my day.

[Da****]

Well be here to read lots of comment...

[Deleted Member]

when is innate and natural in a person it drives pride, perfectionism, unconditional love to the fullest

[Ia****]

It's my duty to please. My Dom !

[Deleted Member]

The pride in service for a loving, caring Domme. Wanting to always be at my best, not just in the household, but at work & when i'm out & about. Everything i do is a reflection on my Miss & how i'm expected to act & behave. My decisions are in consideration of WWMT. (What Would Miss Think)

[Se****]

The best thing about being a submissive is the deep emotional and psychological connection it creates. I thrive on meaningful relationships built on trust, care, and mutual respect, and submission gives me a framework where vulnerability isn’t a weakness—it’s a strength. It’s a space where I can be completely myself, letting go of the walls I sometimes feel I have to build, and lean into the kind of connection that feels intentional and profound.

What drives me to be the best submissive possible is my empathy and devotion. I naturally want to give my all to the people I care about. It’s not just about obedience or meeting someone’s desires—it’s about creating an environment where we both thrive. Building trust is sacred to me, and I know that being a great submissive is about cultivating honesty, vulnerability, and reliability, not just for my partner but for myself, too.

And then there’s the joy in mutual fulfillment. It drives me to dig deeper, to truly understand what my partner needs while making sure I’m honoring my own needs, too. That balance is so important to me.

Being a submissive gives me a sense of purpose and fulfillment in so many ways. It gives me a safe space for vulnerability—where I can lean into my softer side and know that it’s celebrated, not judged. Surrendering control is empowering for me because I know it takes real strength and self-awareness to let go in a way that builds something meaningful and respectful.

I love being a part of something larger than myself—creating harmony and balance within a relationship, a family, or even just a shared vision. That’s where I find my sense of purpose, knowing that my role is meaningful and that I’m valued and cherished for who I am.

Submission also gives me focus and intentionality. There’s something grounding about having clarity and structure, about knowing what’s expected and leaning into it wholeheartedly. It makes me feel centered, like I have direction and purpose not just in my role but in my life as a whole.

At the end of the day, being a submissive feels like it’s a reflection of who I am at my core. I’m strong yet yielding, giving yet cherished, *** yet deeply valued. I want to be a safe place for someone just as much as I want someone to be that for me. Submission isn’t about perfection for me—it’s about connection, growth, and finding beauty in shared purpose.

That’s where I find myself, my fulfillment, and my joy.

[Da****]

20 minutes ago, SecretHarmony said:

The best thing about being a submissive is the deep emotional and psychological connection it creates. I thrive on meaningful relationships built on trust, care, and mutual respect, and submission gives me a framework where vulnerability isn’t a weakness—it’s a strength. It’s a space where I can be completely myself, letting go of the walls I sometimes feel I have to build, and lean into the kind of connection that feels intentional and profound.

What drives me to be the best submissive possible is my empathy and devotion. I naturally want to give my all to the people I care about. It’s not just about obedience or meeting someone’s desires—it’s about creating an environment where we both thrive. Building trust is sacred to me, and I know that being a great submissive is about cultivating honesty, vulnerability, and reliability, not just for my partner but for myself, too.

And then there’s the joy in mutual fulfillment. It drives me to dig deeper, to truly understand what my partner needs while making sure I’m honoring my own needs, too. That balance is so important to me.

Being a submissive gives me a sense of purpose and fulfillment in so many ways. It gives me a safe space for vulnerability—where I can lean into my softer side and know that it’s celebrated, not judged. Surrendering control is empowering for me because I know it takes real strength and self-awareness to let go in a way that builds something meaningful and respectful.

I love being a part of something larger than myself—creating harmony and balance within a relationship, a family, or even just a shared vision. That’s where I find my sense of purpose, knowing that my role is meaningful and that I’m valued and cherished for who I am.

Submission also gives me focus and intentionality. There’s something grounding about having clarity and structure, about knowing what’s expected and leaning into it wholeheartedly. It makes me feel centered, like I have direction and purpose not just in my role but in my life as a whole.

At the end of the day, being a submissive feels like it’s a reflection of who I am at my core. I’m strong yet yielding, giving yet cherished, *** yet deeply valued. I want to be a safe place for someone just as much as I want someone to be that for me. Submission isn’t about perfection for me—it’s about connection, growth, and finding beauty in shared purpose.

That’s where I find myself, my fulfillment, and my joy.

Wow... 👏🏽

[Deleted Member]

Yes it really Fulfills me. I can have everything a person might want in life but unless I am serving a Mistress i feel empty. And i can have nothing at all and things going bad but if i serving a Mistress i feel like I have everything i need. Because i've been on both sides of this. To give somebody total control.
To be able to trust someone and careful them it's amazing feeling

[Ac****]

For me, it’s about empowering my partner, I’m a 6ft3 athletic, confident guy, dominant in my everyday life and a provider. It’s only sexually I have a submissive side so allowing my partner to control that aspect of our relationship empowers her.

[Puppy-K]

1 hour ago, Daddiejhay said:

Wow... 👏🏽

Took the words right out of my soul with this 💜

[Pr****]

The best part of being a submissive is definitely not having to make all the decisions all the time. It’s hard when you have to choose everything for yourself and sometimes you just want a break. It nice to have someone take care of you and you just serve them with everything you have in you. The praise from your dominant as they rub your head or press little kisses all over your face cooing how much of a good girl you are.

Gives me butterflies heh

[Deleted Member]

The reassurance a dom can give when the world is too loud. Or the joy when you complete a task and they are proud.

[Sh****]

I'm a switch with 2 different sub styles. If I'm being dominated it's about feeling desired, that hunger in their eyes. If I'm submitting it's comfort and structure.

[Coupable]

The power that comes from submission...

[Ba****]

Watching Him relax. Nothing gives me more peace than knowing he feels loved and tended to and safe enough in my presence to completely let go and just breathe. I’d do anything to help Him find peace

[Lo****]

Release of obligation and control, as someone who tries too hard to control her life

[No****]

I’m such a naturally giving person and I just love having someone to purposefully seek/receive/take/have and hold my gifts, and even sometimes demand more in exchange the dominance and care they give me … it creates like an eternal well spring of energy and connection.. . It just makes me want to pour even more of my self into it

[Mu****]

I love being in subspace! I love giving over control to someone else! It is so freeing 🖤

[Ha****]

I like a very particular form if being a sub. It is very empowering to give your body to someone else to hurt. People usually think that the dom has all the power but the sub usually has a lot of power too. As they are regulating and letting these things happen.

[ke****]

The satisfaction part of watching my Dom fully release while I fully relax is intoxicating. My mind and energy is more clear when I’m in service. I’ve learned that if I don’t have that piece in my love relationship I will tear it apart on a micro level because ultimately being a sub is the safe space I need. Life Light bulb moment when I learned that 🤣

[Se****]

I love the fact that giving over control brings out the light of my doms eyes when he knows that he has control. My body just reacts to his direction, and I get a religious experience from freely giving control to him.

[1a****]

4 hours ago, keauhou444 said:

The satisfaction part of watching my Dom fully release while I fully relax is intoxicating. My mind and energy is more clear when I’m in service. I’ve learned that if I don’t have that piece in my love relationship I will tear it apart on a micro level because ultimately being a sub is the safe space I need. Life Light bulb moment when I learned that 🤣

Lol definitely noticed

[Deleted Member]

At this point nothing, since I can’t even find Dom worth sh*t

[Cu****]

10 hours ago, InnocentBrat said:

At this point nothing, since I can’t even find Dom worth sh*t

That’s because these people are out there claiming a role but don’t have a clue what they are doing.