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Difference between a kink and a fetish?


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I’m sure that someone has posted this already but kink is something that you like that is arousing that’s usually within the BDSM realm. A fetish is actually listed in the DSM and one cannot obtain an orgasm without that fetish being present either physically or mentally.
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It also has a non-sexual connotation in a way that Kink doesn't. The Cambridge dictionary has two definitions, and the more familiar one to me is that someone can have an intense interest that leads to a lot of time thinking about or doing it similar to a fixation or hobby - further to this, I can sat I've heard people can also describe enjoying wearing certain types of clothing and clothing styles too, without an explicitly sexual intention behind it. It's a little reductive to say that someone would wear PVC or leather purely when they want to get off. So Kink is explicitly sexual, but a fetish? Not so much 😄
February 9, meramera said:
Kink is a "sphere" that refers to a broad focus on desires or practices. Fetish is a specific focus on a body part, an object or activity. A fetish a type of kink but not all kinks are fetishes.

Based on what I've posted just before, I remember thinking to myself that it was possibly the other way around?; "All kinks are a fetish, but not all fetishes are kinks". This is down to a fetish not explicitly having to be sexual and kinks, almost entirely, are.
There's always the exception to the rule and that's probably because non-sexual ddlg and abdl are still accepted as part of kink, but that's genuinely it

Easy way I remember is Kink is your verb and Fetish is your noun. One is the action and the other is the attraction to a person place or thing
1 hour ago, NOLAFetishBae said:
Easy way I remember is Kink is your verb and Fetish is your noun. One is the action and the other is the attraction to a person place or thing

Hmm ok that's a good shout ty 😄

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A kink is a preference, a fetish is necessary to achieve orgasm...
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