Kinky Dating | Total Fantasy Dating Review

Continuing our review of fetish dating websites, we look at Total Fantasy Dating. But does this website turn kinksters' dreams into reality?

Editor's note: as of May 2019, it seems that Total Fantasy Dating is no longer in operation, but we've left our review published, below.

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Total Fantasy Dating Overview

The main page of Total Fantasy Dating immediately hits the user with high impact images and promises of a 'hot chat room' and the chance to 'share private images and video'. However, it doesn't help when the two stunningly attractive women are let down by the sight of a clearly bored looking man who would look less out of place serving customers in a bank.

Total Fantasy Dating Visual Appeal | Messy Layout

Scrolling down Total Fantasy Dating, there is the opportunity to click a wide range of boxes. These reveal some of the BDSM and fetish activities that people can and do indulge in. Unfortunately, the boxes are not correctly formatted, and so this looks like a random mix of frames and different words.

Like other fantasy dating websites, there's a 'teaser' of things to come at the bottom. These depict images of supposed members also looking for a bit of fetish themed fun. Sadly, this appears to be a stock photo as the members look incredibly normal. Indeed, it looks like the only fantasy they'd be interested in is Dungeons and Dragons - and not those sort of dungeons.

Rules to obey...

Is Total Fantasy Dating free?

Notwithstanding the poorly placed stock fetish photos on the front page of Total Fantasy Dating, the signup process is a little smoother. It appears that fetish dating websites are also now offering memberships to those with a tighter wallet, albeit with more limitations.

However, a quick review of the two plans shows that it is virtually impossible to do anything of value with the free plan. A limit of one photo and no message functionality means that the £15 per month membership really is the only way the user is going to be able to play out their fantasy. There's a comprehensive list of fetish scenarios, ensuring that any BSDM enthusiast can separate their ritual humiliators from their sugar daddies.

A fruitless less?

Safety on Total Fantasy Dating

Total Fantasy Dating provides safety pointers, along with encouragements to report any inappropriate behaviour - fantasy themed or otherwise. But quite how anyone would be able to report such behaviour is a bit of mystery. The 'contact page' merely offers a web form with no phone number, *** or postal address - hardly a great confidence booster. There is an *** address thrown at the side of one page, but it is only a Hotmail address, further lowering the impression of a professionally run site.

Clicking on the Twitter and Facebook pages in the far right-hand corner of Total Fantasy Dating does nothing to help the administrators push this site. The Twitter feed is a personal page awash with spam and advertising posts. Additionally, a quick review of the Facebook feed gives us an insight into the life of the administrator, but no news or offers about the website itself.

Total Fantasy Dating Final Thoughts

To conclude, Total Fantasy Dating comes across as a 'fetish light' site, with a token effort at appealing to the BDSM market. There are far better competitors that will give a more rewarding experience for the same fee.