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Muscle Worship: a Kink With Mass Appeal!

Got a fetish for mammoth muscle? Discover more about the dynamics of muscle worship – or sthenolagnia to give it its proper name. And while gay

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BDSM Old Guard: What Exactly is it?

Spend any amount of time in the kink community, and eventually someone will refer to 'Old Guard' when talking about BDSM, and specifically Dominance

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Outdoor Masturbation and Public Self-Pleasure

If the idea of wanking in the woods or jerking off in public turns you on, you’re not alone. Indeed, outdoor masturbation is a common fantasy that

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Muscle Worship: a Kink With Mass Appeal!

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Got a fetish for mammoth muscle? Discover more about the dynamics of muscle worship – or sthenolagnia to give it its proper name. And while gay muscle worship is clearly a big thing among males,

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BDSM Old Guard: What Exactly is it?

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Spend any amount of time in the kink community, and eventually someone will refer to 'Old Guard' when talking about BDSM, and specifically Dominance and submission. But what does BDSM Old Guard mean?

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Outdoor Masturbation and Public Self-Pleasure

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If the idea of wanking in the woods or jerking off in public turns you on, you’re not alone. Indeed, outdoor masturbation is a common fantasy that many kinksters indulge in. But, as Victoria

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Outdoor Sex: Let's Go Outside...

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Whether it's roughing it in the woods or banging on the beach, outdoors sex stirs up something primordial. But while outside sex is horny, it can be risky – legally. Fetish.com member DirtyBird

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Mindful Masturbation: 7 Benefits

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Masturbation doesn’t have to be repetitive. Combining meditation and tantric touch into your self-pleasure sessions can wake up your wanking. So, from reducing anxiety to discovering new erogenous

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How to Have Multiple Orgasms: 5 Tips for Women

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Orgasms. Who doesn't want more of them or even have multiple orgasms? Some people with vulvas have no problem coming, but others find it impossible. Victoria Blisse explores the secrets to ultimate

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The Best Female Masturbation Techniques and Positions

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This month our BDSM advice guru Molly helps out one woman kinkster who is new to self-pleasure. From props to positions, discover some great female masturbation techniques and tips with our winning

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Exploring Anal Masturbation, Fingering, and Anal Orgasm

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Butt stuff is brilliant and pegging is fun, but sometimes you want to experience that same booty-loving pleasure alone. So, how do you get down with fingering your own asshole during anal

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Balloon Fetish? Discover What Makes Looners Squeak!

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Are you loony for balloons? Does the thought of popping balloons or rubbing yourself with them turn you on? If so, you could be a looner: a kinkster with a balloon fetish. But is looning all about

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Belly Button Fetish? 6 Ways to Explore Navel Play

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Do belly buttons turn you on? If the idea of licking or playing with an innie or outtie during sex presses your buttons, these tips from Victoria Blisse will help you enjoy navel play or a belly

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Molly's BDSM Tips | What is Sensual Domination? 

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Within the kink community, the concept of Dom/me and sub are well understood, but there's also a vast diversity of what those words mean to us. This week, our resident advice columnist explains

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Female Sounding: Open Up to a Hole New Kink!

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Do you like the sound of sounding? Urethral sounding is often associated with penis play, but if you have a vulva, you can also enjoy it. Wanna know more? Victoria Blisse explains all about vaginal

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Molly's BDSM tips | Why You Shouldn't Be Drunk During A BDSM Play Session

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A glass of wine never hurts... or does it? This time our BDSM advice guru Molly explains why it is particularly important to remain sober and fully conscious during BDSM play

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Omorashi: worth the wait? Exploring pee desperation kink!

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Victoria Blisse explores the fetish of omorashi and finds out why so many kinksters are desperate to try pee desperation! Discover more about the pain and pleasure involved in this curious

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Molly's BDSM tips | Dealing With Premature Ejaculation

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Premature ejaculation can be an embarrassing – and distressing – condition that many men face at some point in their lives. However, there are techniques to combat it. Our resident advice guru

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BDSM and Mental Health: Using Kink to Beat the Blues

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Depression can manifest in a variety of ways, from occasional episodes of low-level numbness or sadness to Major Depressive Disorder. While there's a diversity of causes and treatments, some have

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Male Chastity Kink: a Beginner's Guide

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What is the ultimate act of control and domination? Some say that it is being in chastity. Many male subs enjoy the submission of being locked up in a male chastity cage; their orgasms controlled by

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Sex Without an Erection: How Kink Can Combat Erectile Dysfunction

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This men's health month we take a look at erectile dysfunction. Despite the shame surrounding impotence, there are ways BDSM and kink can help combat it and offer ways to enjoy sex without an

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What is Vore? Exploring the Meaning of This Curious Kink

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Have you ever heard of vore, or – to give it its full name – vorarephilia? If so, do you know the difference between soft and hard vore? This month Molly advises one member who wants to fully

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Impact Play: How to Handle a Hard Spanking

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As a self-identified masochist, Victoria Blisse finds pleasure in the pain impact play brings. A lover of a hard spanking, here she shares a few safety tips to help set the scene for some hands-on

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Molly's BDSM for Beginners Tips: Getting Started in Kink

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New to the scene? Want to know more about BDSM for beginners? Our resident BDSM advice guru Molly is here to help. She shares her top ideas for things to try out for newbies wanting to explore kink

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Taking a Bite Out of Vampire Fetish and Vampirism

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Even within the diverse and accepting S&M culture, vampirism and people with a vampire fetish might be misunderstood. Separate fact from fiction by discovering more about the different types of

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A Brief History of Hosiery Fetish

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Lots of people have a hosiery and stocking fetish; there is just something irresistible about the look and feel of them on the legs. We asked writer Caitlin to investigate where this popular fetish

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How to Gape Your Ass: the Hole Truth About Anal Gaping

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Ever wondered how to anal gape? Fetish.com’s Victoria Blisse has looked deep into the subject! Here she explores what anal gaping is and gives five steps on how to gape sexily and

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There’s the Rub! Frotting and Frotteurism

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Frottage is a well-known kink involving rubbing genitalia against another person – often not consenting – so, what is frotting exactly, and is there any difference? Victoria Blisse reflects on the

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