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Rub Me the Right Way: Tribbing and Tribadism

What is tribbing and how is it different from scissoring? Victoria Blisse rubs her hands together in glee to give you all the juicy details on

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How BDSM Can Help You Find Self-Acceptance

After growing up in a household where sex was shamed, discovering BDSM helped Sienna Saint-Cyr to find self-acceptance and enjoyment when it came to

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BDSM and Mental Health: Using Kink to Beat the Blues

While there's many causes and treatments of depression and mental health issues, some have found solace in what may appear to be an unlikely place:

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Rub Me the Right Way: Tribbing and Tribadism

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What is tribbing and how is it different from scissoring? Victoria Blisse rubs her hands together in glee to give you all the juicy details on tribbing and tribadism...
 
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How BDSM Can Help You Find Self-Acceptance

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After growing up in a household where sex was shamed, discovering BDSM helped Sienna Saint-Cyr to find self-acceptance and enjoyment when it came to her sexual life. 
 
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BDSM and Mental Health: Using Kink to Beat the Blues

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While there's many causes and treatments of depression and mental health issues, some have found solace in what may appear to be an unlikely place: BDSM play. As someone living with chronic

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Odaxelagnia: Sink Your Teeth Into a Kink for Biting!

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A nibble on the neck or ear can be incredibly erotic. But what if your partner wants to go further and really sink their teeth in? Then they may be displaying a biting kink, AKA odaxelagnia. Victoria

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Wrapped in Desire: The Allure of Mummification Bondage

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Mummification bondage is the ultimate BDSM restriction kink, but it can also be a high-risk activity. So, how can you practise it both sexily and safely? Get your plastic wrap ready and let Victoria

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Lovin' Large! What is Giantess Fetish and Macrophilia?

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Does size really matter? Well, if you're into macrophilia, then the answer is: hell, yeah! Members of our FET community with a fetish for giantess sex tell our very own dirtybird why it's a turn-on,

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Molly's BDSM tips | Why You Shouldn't Be Drunk During A BDSM Play Session

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A glass of wine never hurts... or does it? Our BDSM advice guru Molly explains why it's particularly important to remain sober and fully conscious during BDSM play sessions.
 
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Molly’s BDSM Tips: Navigating Your CNC Kink

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Do you like the idea of being kidnapped and used by your partner? Or maybe it's a burglar breaking into your home and holding you against your will? Whatever consensual non-consent (CNC) kink turns

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Hair Fetish: the Many Strands of Trichophilia

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Most of us have some level of body hair, be it on our heads or other places. And while some of us hate hair on ourselves or others, other kinksters are real fans of fur! Victoria Blisse cuts to the

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Outdoor Bondage: What to Consider During Public BDSM Play

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Blindfolded, ball-gagged and bound to a bench, or cuffed to a swing overlooking a sedate lake? Outdoor bondage is all about being restrained in public. Alex Hopkins discusses prepping for public BDSM

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Muscle Worship: a Kink With Mass Appeal!

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Got a fetish for mammoth muscle? Discover more about the dynamics of muscle worship – or sthenolagnia to give it its proper name. And while gay muscle worship is clearly a big thing among males,

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BDSM Old Guard: What Exactly is it?

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Spend any amount of time in the kink community, and eventually someone will refer to 'Old Guard' when talking about BDSM, and specifically Dominance and submission. But what does BDSM Old Guard mean?

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Outdoor Masturbation and Public Self-Pleasure

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If the idea of wanking in the woods or jerking off in public turns you on, you’re not alone. Indeed, outdoor masturbation is a common fantasy that many kinksters indulge in. But, as Victoria

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Outdoor Sex: Let's Go Outside...

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Whether it's roughing it in the woods or banging on the beach, outdoors sex stirs up something primordial. But while outside sex is horny, it can be risky – legally. Fetish.com member DirtyBird

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Mindful Masturbation: 7 Benefits

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Masturbation doesn’t have to be repetitive. Combining meditation and tantric touch into your self-pleasure sessions can wake up your wanking. So, from reducing anxiety to discovering new erogenous

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How to Have Multiple Orgasms: 5 Tips for Women

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Orgasms. Who doesn't want more of them or even have multiple orgasms? Some people with vulvas have no problem coming, but others find it impossible. Victoria Blisse explores the secrets to ultimate

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The Best Female Masturbation Techniques and Positions

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This month our BDSM advice guru Molly helps out one woman kinkster who is new to self-pleasure. From props to positions, discover some great female masturbation techniques and tips with our winning

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Exploring Anal Masturbation, Fingering, and Anal Orgasm

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Butt stuff is brilliant and pegging is fun, but sometimes you want to experience that same booty-loving pleasure alone. So, how do you get down with fingering your own asshole during anal

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Balloon Fetish? Discover What Makes Looners Squeak!

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Are you loony for balloons? Does the thought of popping balloons or rubbing yourself with them turn you on? If so, you could be a looner: a kinkster with a balloon fetish. But is looning all about

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Belly Button Fetish? 6 Ways to Explore Navel Play

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Do belly buttons turn you on? If the idea of licking or playing with an innie or outtie during sex presses your buttons, these tips from Victoria Blisse will help you enjoy navel play or a belly

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Molly's BDSM Tips | What is Sensual Domination? 

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Within the kink community, the concept of Dom/me and sub are well understood, but there's also a vast diversity of what those words mean to us. This week, our resident advice columnist explains

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Female Sounding: Open Up to a Hole New Kink!

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Do you like the sound of sounding? Urethral sounding is often associated with penis play, but if you have a vulva, you can also enjoy it. Wanna know more? Victoria Blisse explains all about vaginal

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Omorashi: worth the wait? Exploring pee desperation kink!

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Victoria Blisse explores the fetish of omorashi and finds out why so many kinksters are desperate to try pee desperation! Discover more about the pain and pleasure involved in this curious

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Molly's BDSM tips | Dealing With Premature Ejaculation

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Premature ejaculation can be an embarrassing – and distressing – condition that many men face at some point in their lives. However, there are techniques to combat it. Our resident advice guru

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Male Chastity Kink: a Beginner's Guide

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What is the ultimate act of control and domination? Some say that it is being in chastity. Many male subs enjoy the submission of being locked up in a male chastity cage; their orgasms controlled by

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