Omorashi: worth the wait? Exploring pee desperation kink!

Victoria Blisse explores the fetish of omorashi and finds out why so many kinksters are desperate to try pee desperation! Discover more about the pain and pleasure involved in this curious kink.

 

We all know that sensation, we’ve all been there; a full bladder and that foot-to-foot shuffling dance of the person desperate for a wee. It’s all-consuming and until you get to the bathroom, it’s all that’s on your mind! Then – ahh – sweet relief!  

 

For the majority of people, getting to that painful point of pee desperation is something to avoid at all costs, but for some, it’s the height of arousal. Indeed, globally there’s a huge fascination for pee desperation, with thousands of searches for omorashi porn, both written and visual.

 

What is omorashi or pee desperation?

The word omorashi in Japanese is translated as ‘to wet oneself’, but the term itself has a much more subtle meaning in its use than that. It’s the arousal found in having a full bladder and/or the urgent need to urinate. 

Omorashi comes under the umbrella term of watersports (urolagina) but is much more about control and the loss of it, rather than the physical act of urination. The term pee desperation was often used in the West to specify this fetish, but as omorashi porn has become more prevalent and the term more understood, it has been taken on worldwide.

Wet leg? Exploring the pain and pleasure of omorashi

As with many fetishes connected to BDSM there are different roles within omorashi and different ways to be turned on by it. For some people, they want to be the one experiencing a full bladder – maybe with wetting themselves, or narrowly avoiding wetting themselves. 

 

 

However, there are also people who enjoy seeing a person experiencing pee desperation. Maybe they enjoy controlling when that person can urinate; possibly they enjoy watching someone wet themselves, or it might be the look of relief on a person’s face when they finally make it to the toilet that does it for them!

 

Why is omorashi a turn-on?

Every person’s experience of omorashi is different, but there are some connecting themes:

·         Loss of Control

·         Pee Denial

·         Feeling of relief when allowed to wee

·         Humiliation

·         Obedience

 

Some of our Fetish.com members are really into omorashi. Here are what some of them are saying in our Forum: 

 

“I like the desperation, as well as the feeling of losing control and just letting it go. It’s hard to describe what exactly I like in watching other people pee themselves, though, it’s just something I’ve found arousing for as long as I can remember.” NotMilo talks about loving the pee desperation as well as the voyeurism of watching someone wet themselves.

 

“I personally like being forced to hold my bladder, being denied the right to pee…  Genuine, involuntary leaks and accidents can be exhilarating – especially when I'm trying with everything I can to obey and hold it all in. When I'm being told that noncompliance is not an option…

 

“For the majority of people, getting to that painful point of pee desperation is something to avoid at all costs, but for some, it’s the height of arousal.”

 

There's something amazing about the mindfuck of being told I'll be punished for the smallest infraction of even a tiny leak, that losing control is not tolerated under any circumstances, while I'm being required to drink everything given to me…” Katie-8070 is very much a female pee desperation fan. She loves the control.
 

Pee desperaion fan art courtesy of omorashi.org

“I love the idea of a girl always checking in with me to see if I need to pee or how full my bladder is and demanding urine from me. It's just so hot.” Lairofdionysus is the male pee desperation on the other side of the full bladder control spectrum.

But of course, Omorashi is accessible to all genders.

 

Omorashi porn

Most people would think of porn featuring watersports as being particularly hardcore, but that isn’t usually the way with omorashi videos. That’s because their focus is usually on people wetting themselves in clothing. 

The addition of clothing layers means there isn’t that much direct sexual interaction in omorashi porn. There is often a focus on clothing, particular items that emphasize the wetting, such as grey leggings or roleplay outfits such as school girl uniforms.
 

Omorashi porn has its roots in Japanese gameshows where people would compete to hold their pee in the longest. A simple gameshow which had no connection to fetish started off the craze and some videos are similar in set-up, such as the ‘Desperation Tournament’ videos.

Furthermore, omorashi has featured a lot in Japanese erotic films as they rely heavily on fetish elements to avoid their country’s extremely strict censorship laws. The first film was released in 1973. Called Terrifying Girls' High School: Lynch Law Classroom, it depicted a school girl wetting herself on a desk after drinking gallons of water!

 

Practicing omorashi

Now you’ve read all about it and maybe taken in some omorashi porn, it’s time to get down to giving it a go. So, how do you go about discovering the erotic thrill of pee desperation?

You might not think there are any risks associated with something so common as holding in your pee. However, as with every kink activity, before starting it you need to do a Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK) check, as there are risks with omorashi kink.

 

“The word omorashi in Japanese is translated as ‘to wet oneself’, but the term itself has a much more subtle meaning. It’s the arousal found in having a full bladder and/or the urgent need to urinate.”

 

If the pain from holding in urine becomes sharp and stabbing, especially in the lower back, then go to the toilet immediately. This is a sign of potential kidney damage. It's unlikely, but it' still incredibly important to be aware of this.

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Furthermore, you could get a Urinary Tract Infection (UTI) from holding your wee too regularly. These infections are caused by a build-up of bacteria in the urinary tract, and if you’re not urinating frequently enough, this is more likely to happen. 

Lastly, there are some health conditions that mean you shouldn’t ever try and hold your pee in:

 

·         Kidney disorders

·         Urinary retention

·         Neurogenic bladder

·         Enlarged prostate

 

So, always check with your play partner that they don’t have any of these before trying any kind of bathroom denial.

You might also want to consider the possibility of clothing getting stained from concentrated urine, as well as skin rashes from the same thing. Be aware of yeast infections from wet clothing clinging to genitals (especially for vulva owners) too, and if in doubt, ask your doctor if omorashi will negatively impact your health conditions.

 

 

Once you have the risks assessed, you can practice omorashi in whatever way you want. Remember that you need the consent of everyone around you for any kinky act, so if you like the idea of omorashi in public, make sure that you won’t be subjecting unknown strangers to your kink. You can try a little bathroom control when you’re out and about, but be aware of your surroundings.

 

Keep communicating with your partners during pee desperation and it will all be fun and games. But, as always, don’t forget the aftercare. Physically, a person may need help cleaning up or applying creams to irritated skin, as well as reassurance and cuddles.

 

The Final FET: omorashi

Whether you’re controlling your own bladder, holding in your pee for your dominant, or making your submissive experience pee desperation, you’re practicing omorashi. There's no right way to do it, no rules or regulations – except those laid down by the Dominant in charge – so let go and enjoy!

Oh. Or maybe don’t let go… until you’re told to do so!   •

 

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