Watersports | A Quick Guide to Golden Showers and Piss Play

Wanna get down and dirty with piss play? We encourage all of that, but just how dirty is watersports? We asked Victoria Blisse to serve up this quick and easy guide to having the fun you're bursting for! 

What is watersports?

Watersports in kink and fetish circles have very little to do with actual water and there's not a boat or canoe in sight! Watersports (also known as piss play), involves urination in various forms. Some people like to use piss play in a D/s dynamic, where one person pees on the other. Some kinksters are more into it as voyeurs, watching someone going to the toilet or wetting their clothes – and of course, some love to be watched too. 
 

Is watersports safe?

Urine itself is sterile as long as the person you're playing with is in good health. If a person isn't, then it's possible to transmit diseases such as viral, bacterial and fungal infections – this happens most frequently if someone has an open wound or someone pees directly into your mouth. 
 

To indulge in safe golden showers, you need to know the health status of your partner. If you're not sure, ask them to aim away from your mouth and also be sure you have no cuts, scratches or other wounds on your body that the urine can get into. 

Of course, you need to get consent for any kind of urine play before you go ahead. Make sure everyone is happy with what's going to happen and have a safe word in place. It might also be useful to have a safe action too, in case the person's mouth is full. A tap of hand or foot, a shake of the head or something similar could be used. 
 

Are there any special preparations for piss play?

If you're the person who is urinating, be sure you're well-hydrated and have drunk plenty of liquid before you play. You want to feel the urge to go before you set the scene in motion, so you're ready for action. 
 

Also, think about where you're going to enjoy your golden showers scene. Maybe you can take it outdoors, so you don't have to worry about the cleanup. In the bath or shower are also natural places for piss play to happen. Otherwise, you may want to have some sort of waterproof sheet to put on your bed or floor to protect it during your watersports scene. 


Piss pig. Image by Istolethetv via Flickr Creative Commons Attribution 2.0 Generic (CC BY 2.0)

How does watersports work?

You can enjoy piss play whichever way you like, but here are a few suggestions for you:

• Golden shower - The top is over the bottom, who could be lying down or on their knees, and pisses over them. The golden shower could involve both face and mouth, or it could miss certain areas and focus on other parts of the body.
   
• Consensual piss play peeping - The voyeur hides and watches the exhibitionist piss, either indoors or outdoors, and maybe they wet themselves, which then could lead to a D/s scene involving humiliation - but that's up to you. Perhaps you don't want to hide away, and you want to watch in plain view. Maybe you could command your sub to wet themselves for your pleasure. 
   
• Drink it all down - This part of piss play involves drinking urine either straight from the source (before or after sex or as part of oral sex) or through a funnel gag. 
   

What if the flow just can't go?

Do you experience a shy bladder? If you, really, really want to piss all over someone but it just won't come, don't panic. The more pressure you put on yourself, the less likely it is that you'll be able to manage it. Accept that this is a natural thing. Peeing on someone or for someone is very different to just going to the toilet like you usually do. 
 

Take the pressure off yourself by doing something else. If it doesn't quite work out, have a plan-B ready to go so you can enjoy your scene still, even if the piss play doesn't happen. Drink some more water. Maybe you just aren't feeling the urge to empty your golden showers if your bladder isn’t full enough. 
 

Curious about watersports but not sure?

If you want to get into watersports, do some online research, watch videos of others doing it, chat to others and ask questions to other kinksters so you can be ready for your watersports experience—research before trying it yourself.
 

So now you're all ready to go and release your golden showers all over your favourite someone! Enjoy your consensual watersports and have lots of wet and messy fun. 
 

Victoria Blisse was an erotic author and sex-positive Reverend. She helped shape fetish.com and FET from the very beginning and we're eternally grateful for her passion and creativity. Sadly, she passed away in January 2024. We hope that whenever her articles are read, she'll be honored.



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