Soft, ##Certain words (e.g. contact details or terms we don’t allow in our community) are on our blacklist. If you use one of these, it will automatically be replaced with this message.## , sensual dom who adores role play. I am a patient teacher, supportive and encouraging.
However, I now have a new relationship and am withdrawing from playing with others.
So this means that I'm no longer meeting new people for play.
Nonetheless, I am always pleased to be a friend and assist others in any way I can, especially by listening or offering advice.
So if you need a friend, feel free to get in touch.
Hard limits: no , breath play, , heavy bruising, no needles, no , no alcohol during or immediately prior to play
Soft limits: , ***.
I'm not there yet. I began as a Dom who wanted to understand what subs got out of it. So I learned to Bottom and enjoy it very much. It's restful simply receiving. But now I have a new partner and with her I can become a sub, not merely passive, but actively wanting to please her.
At other times Read more… she is my sub and I her Dom.
For me, being a Switch is my ideal identity.
Excellent
Well said, TheMacabreBrat, agree 100%
See my earlier comment there's also the Loving Dominant and BDSM 101 . . .
Lucky man (and lucky ladies too, I hope). Books cannot replace experience, but they can explain it, enhance it and expand your understanding of your actions and the responses you've received.
Plus the authors between them have, I believe, even more experience than you.
Worth reading the New Topping Book and the New Bottoming Book by Dorothy Easton.
First rate. Can I share it? And if so how do I ensure that the poet gets the credit he undoubtedly deserves?
Thanks for these comments. I mostly Top but love 'letting go' when I bottom, yet have never been restrained. Sure now that I should be.