Do you find balloons and inflatables a turn-on? If so, you're part of a community known as looners. The looner community embraces those who find balloons and inflatables of all shapes, sizes, and materials alluring – even if their fetish includes having a fear of balloons. If you've been thinking about squeaking in a bit of looner time, or your partner has expressed a balloon fetish, here's everything you need to know.
For nearly everything in life, there is a fetish. Why do some of us find knives or ropes a turn on? Why do some people feel incredibly gratified by bruises after impact play? Because human sexuality is hugely complex, we cannot explain the birth of certain fetishes. Being a looner is no exception. Some people with a balloon fetish can trace the origins back to an event, often in childhood, where something happened with a balloon that they found exciting or arousing. For others, though, there's little explanation for their kink.
There is no looner playbook. If you have a partner who has expressed an interest in a balloon kink, the most important thing is to encourage them to share exactly how that manifests for them. Create a judgment-free environment where they can talk to you about their balloon fetish and what works for them. You can also encourage them to share looner porn with you, as visual depictions can be a beneficial insight into what gets them hot under the collar. For example, maybe they want to do the popping, or they'd prefer you to do it.
Well, no! In fact, for some looners, popping the balloons is an absolute no-no. These kinksters are called non-poppers. Then there are the poppers, and those who like a bit of both and are known as semi-poppers.
If you are new to balloon fetish and want to try it, you can buy balloons from a supermarket or party shop. However, these types of balloons usually do not have the structural integrity to withstand a lot of play, often bursting very quickly. You can try specialist balloon shops online, and some looners have even turned their kink into a business and sell a wide variety of balloons and inflatables online.
There are still stigmas attached to many fetishes, looners included. The taboo surrounding balloon fetishes are often due to a lack of knowledge and understanding about this particular kink. Just as people get a rush of adrenalin from spanking or being tied up, playing with balloons can create similar responses in many kinksters.
There is no 'normal' in human sexuality, and having a balloon kink is just another fun and playful way to get off!
Molly is a BDSM enthusiast and writer of 'Molly's BDSM tips' on Fetish.com. If you want Molly to help you out with a kink-related issue, contact her via her profile.
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