Ladies, should single guys post pics with women?

[Deleted Member]

2 hours ago, DemonCandy said:

I don't understand why everyone here has such a high sense of superiority and are so uptight. Like chill. People have a life and it doesn't revolve around you, a new person, likely a complete stranger. If you are so insecure about someone having a life and not obsessing over you before even knowing you then you are the problem.

My biggest issue is I bet they don't have consent to post pictures and why is he saving pictures of people he has fucked? There is also a high possibility that he would post pictures of me without my consent or knowledge 

[Yi****]

I posted some non face pics of 'blondie' because she asked me. Maybe it's an exhibitionist thing.

[Ni****]

30 minutes ago, TheMacabreBrat said:

My biggest issue is I bet they don't have consent to post pictures and why is he saving pictures of people he has fucked? There is also a high possibility that he would post pictures of me without my consent or knowledge 

So your biggest issue with the premise of the question is literally something the question states isn't happening? That's like if I asked if you would date a man with a sportscar and you said, no, because he doesn't own a car. Wtf? The question says he has a car.

I can respect the answers which say they would immediately pass, or they don't want to see images like that, but why do you have to change the question in order to answer it?

[wp****]

I would never post a photo of another person without asking for their consent.

[DemonCandy]

35 minutes ago, TheMacabreBrat said:

My biggest issue is I bet they don't have consent to post pictures and why is he saving pictures of people he has fucked? There is also a high possibility that he would post pictures of me without my consent or knowledge 

And how do you know that? And how do you even know it is people that guy fucked. And if that guy really fucked that person, why does it matter? Is fucking is all that matters? Why is it not possible that those two people had a quality connection and those pictures are a memory, or those are that person's best pictures?

[DemonCandy]

1 hour ago, silvis162462 said:

Can't stand it; if we become "friends" and I allow NSFW photos in my inbox then I just want to see you, not what someone else is doing to you or what you can do. It's not an advertisement; I'd rather be shown in person anyway.

It is not about inbox. It is about what is being posted in the images on profile.

[sl****]

I try to take pictures or post pictures of just myself. I try not to add my friends to my personal/dating life.

[DemonCandy]

2 hours ago, Romeo0718 said:

Well if she's hot. I noticed certain women will automatically be interested in you(social proof) especially if she's hotter than them. Other times they say no, or think you're still with her.

Yup, it is important to maintain clarity to avoid misunderstandings, and part of it is to make sure the picture with other person is not your main profile picture and that person is either hidden or at least not the center of the picture.

[My****]

This is a great discussion opener!

Imho, I don't want to see other partners. It comes across as "conquests" and I don't want on that list. 💁‍♀️

[Deleted Member]

21 minutes ago, DemonCandy said:

And how do you know that? And how do you even know it is people that guy fucked. And if that guy really fucked that person, why does it matter? Is fucking is all that matters? Why is it not possible that those two people had a quality connection and those pictures are a memory, or those are that person's best pictures?

If a guy's best pictures are of porn material with other women, then he isn't someone I have any interest in. In my experience, he values sex more than anything else. 

Also I keep my past in the past. Nobody needs to know about it outside of my experience and comfort level. They don't need to know what I did with specific people.

[Ki****]

Is this cuz of intimadation or insecurities? Females in a photo could be ***, cousin, lesbian coworker, best friends s/o, etc. People who assume, aren't worth your time anyway, and likely drama. Besides being a massive double standard, men have female friends because they got friendzoned, women are more likely to get smash and ghosted than friendzoned

[da****]

I think this is a great topic. I have another question.. what if you're primarily just looking for play partners, not a romantic relationship, and your pictures include shots of you doing an impact scene with another bottom, pics of your rope work on them etc?

[Deleted Member]

you likely won’t get a response from me if you have other women in your pics. That’s weird but I guess it really depends on the woman we’re all very different

[DemonCandy]

2 hours ago, TheMacabreBrat said:

If a guy's best pictures are of porn material with other women, then he isn't someone I have any interest in. In my experience, he values sex more than anything else. 

Also I keep my past in the past. Nobody needs to know about it outside of my experience and comfort level. They don't need to know what I did with specific people.

Oh... my bad. The part about being physical went out of mind. Sorry. For that part, I agree.

[Ba****]

I dont particularly care to see a guy with other partners. I'm interested in *him* not who he has had or evidence of who he has had

[Deleted Member]

I think it depends on the photo. If it’s tasteful and artistic Shibari piece or wax art I think it’s fine. It can be a lovely way to showcase your skill level. However, amateur porn pics of sex acts are quite boring and unoriginal. Dare I say it looks vanilla.

[Fl****]

Absolutely not

[Fl****]

However I grew up without phone cameras and I use both hands during sex so I don’t know how I’d hold ir

[Mo****]

Not a lady but i dont think its a good look on either end of the stick , it could very well just be family or a friend … but still it looks odd i feel like you are supposed to be promoting just yourself when trying to meet someone , of course most people’s first reactions would be Couple or Ex partner LOL

[De****]

A guy I was talking to sent me a video of him having sex with someone. I found it both weird and hot. Hot because he was hot, but weird because I liked him.

[Cu****]

If there are a bunch of different women, I get icked out. I definitely want someone competent in bed but I don’t need to see proof of that. And I suspect most of the women don’t know their a**es are being posted….

[Spankmeplz420]

Definitely a red flag for me

[1S****]

Not at all

[Ta****]

Less. Icky because consens is unclear.
Even the harmless ones where it's a dressed man and some hair and a hand from the woman next to him - dude, are you seriously using a pic with your ex or your wife that does not know you are on FET? Can't be bothered to try to snap a pic by yourself? Or is it not lazy, but boasting you indeed scored with at least one woman in the past, so you are clearly the jackpot?

[Deleted Member]

U got some toxic responses, probably not the right place to ask that question 🤣