Ladies, should single guys post pics with women?

[Ni****]

Ladies, assuming they have consent, do you find it more or less appealing to see pictures of men on here while they are in physical, likely sexual, contact with a previous relationships or flings?

If you came across a profile where a woman was worshipping the man's c*ck, would that make you more interested in talking to him, or is that an immediate no?

If you do like to see pictures of men with other women on here, what sort of pictures do you find the most exciting?

[li****]

In my opinion it’s less attractive to me cuz if your single then you should show you and only u that your ready for someone new :)

[FE****]

A good time to remind people of the site guidelines on images for profiles

"You are allowed to upload photos of yourself that also show other people, but only if the photo is very clearly SFW (Safe for work). Any photos that don't fall in this category that show anyone other than the profile owner(s) will be deleted.

If you find that someone has uploaded images or videos to the site where you appear without your consent, we can, of course, remove them for you. The same goes for any content that belongs to you that you did not consent to anyone else uploading."

[Sa****]

It's a no for me. I dislike when they send videos of themselves "in action" as well

[Mi****]

There’s nothing wrong with it

[Ni****]

5 minutes ago, FETMod-RG said:

A good time to remind people of the site guidelines on images for profiles

"You are allowed to upload photos of yourself that also show other people, but only if the photo is very clearly SFW (Safe for work). Any photos that don't fall in this category that show anyone other than the profile owner(s) will be deleted.

If you find that someone has uploaded images or videos to the site where you appear without your consent, we can, of course, remove them for you. The same goes for any content that belongs to you that you did not consent to anyone else uploading."

I come across a lot of profiles where one half of a couple has their own separate account, but they also have some photos of their partner. So would you recommend people report those photos? It sounds like the only time a person should be posting NSFW images with another person is on a couple's account? And that would complely eliminate any NSFW poly relationships as accounts currently can only be for singles or couples. Would this be accurate?

[Deleted Member]

If I see a picture of a men getting a blowjob it's not a turn on for me nor it makes me want to talk to him. I'm fully aware he got them or is getting them, i don't need to see the proof of that. If I was into pic exchange, cuckold or found pics like that exciting then yes. I think it's all individual.

[FE****]

2 minutes ago, NimbleSorcery said:

I come across a lot of profiles where one half of a couple has their own separate account, but they also have some photos of their partner. So would you recommend people report those photos? It sounds like the only time a person should be posting NSFW images with another person is on a couple's account? And that would complely eliminate any NSFW poly relationships as accounts currently can only be for singles or couples. Would this be accurate?

SFW photos of their other half are fine.

[su****]

no, if I’m not looking to date her, and if she’s not involved then why would she want you posting her pic on here? even if she was okay with it what’s your angle?

Personally when I see two people in a profile picture on here I assume it’s a couple looking for a unicorn…. immediate pass I’m not a relationship necromancer.

Do you think women love to think about your body count? or like that makes them competitive for you? or think you’re a good guy cus you have a picture with a woman? just curious what the motive is?

it’s like people posting pics with their kids like dude….If anything that comes off a bit red flag imo like you should be telling all about you, not low key trying to seem a type of way using a person you treating like a prop for a picture.

[Du****]

I would not engage with anyone who posted pics of themselves with another partner. They won’t be my type, and I won’t be theirs. But of course it’s fine if they want to post pics of that type, it saves us from wasting each other’s time.

[Deleted Member]

If a guy is a single and I see a majority of his pictures with various women, it's an instant turn off for me.

[FE****]

18 minutes ago, sugarblunt said:

it’s like people posting pics with their kids like dude….If anything that comes off a bit red flag imo like you should be telling all about you, not low key trying to seem a type of way using a person you treating like a prop for a picture.

If you see any pictures of *** on people's profiles please report them, they should never appear.

[Deleted Member]

Totally agree with all said. It's a no for me as well if they're single, posting with other women

[Ty****]

I personally don't think anyone else should be in the picture at all. Otherwise there could be confusion as to who the profile belongs to

[Jo****]

Post what makes you happy… you should be yourself, post what turns you on. You’ll attract people with a similar kinks. Instead of being somebody or not trying to pull people in it’s disingenuous. If being yourself is a problem then finding relationships and encounters shouldn’t be at your top priority and working on yourself should be.

[DemonCandy]

I don't understand why everyone here has such a high sense of superiority and are so uptight. Like chill. People have a life and it doesn't revolve around you, a new person, likely a complete stranger. If you are so insecure about someone having a life and not obsessing over you before even knowing you then you are the problem.

[La****]

1 hour ago, DuchessFeuille said:

I would not engage with anyone who posted pics of themselves with another partner. They won’t be my type, and I won’t be theirs. But of course it’s fine if they want to post pics of that type, it saves us from wasting each other’s time.

I agree with this. Play to me is private and intimate, so if you feel it's something you want to put up, go for it. But it would put me off from engaging with you.

[Deleted Member]

Immediate nope.

[Al****]

Personally I don't like seeing my playthings being used,before I get a chance to..not to say I wouldn't still be intrigued with the person...but I guess it would make me lose a little interest...seeing it

[Ro****]

Well if she's hot. I noticed certain women will automatically be interested in you(social proof) especially if she's hotter than them. Other times they say no, or think you're still with her.

[si****]

Can't stand it; if we become "friends" and I allow NSFW photos in my inbox then I just want to see you, not what someone else is doing to you or what you can do. It's not an advertisement; I'd rather be shown in person anyway.

[Al****]

No, for me too, its not an image I want to carry with me. I immediately assume it's a couple. Otherwise, play should be private.

[pr****]

This is actually a really good question

[Lu****]

Not interested. Even on regular sites, I don't like seeing group photos on profiles.

[La****]

No! I automatically move on.