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Ladies, should single guys post pics with women?


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12 hours ago, KingMufasaLV9507 said:

Is this cuz of intimadation or insecurities? Females in a photo could be ***, cousin, lesbian coworker, best friends s/o, etc. People who assume, aren't worth your time anyway, and likely drama. Besides being a massive double standard, men have female friends because they got friendzoned, women are more likely to get smash and ghosted than friendzoned

Why would a man want pictures of himself with family and coworkers on a fetish site? That sends all kinds of red flags (not posting recent pictures. Posting pictures of women that are unaware. Not caring about consent. And the whole issue of family 🤢)

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Typo

Not wanting to hijack the thread, but I also find it weird people posing with ani***s here. While simultanously writing they don't want stuff with ani***s. Why posting them then? For the cutesy factor?
Especially irritating when you see the occasional creep look out for the bad kind of ani*** stuff that somehow does not get detected (and yes, I notify those immediately).

30 minutes ago, TaliX said:

Not wanting to hijack the thread, but I also find it weird people posing with ani***s here. While simultanously writing they don't want stuff with ani***s. Why posting them then? For the cutesy factor?
Especially irritating when you see the occasional creep look out for the bad kind of ani*** stuff that somehow does not get detected (and yes, I notify those immediately).

I don't see a contradiction here, I can love my pet but not want anything sexual with it or any other.  Same way I can love my child*en and not want them as part of my kink.

4 hours ago, urnewDD69 said:
U got some toxic responses, probably not the right place to ask that question 🤣

Lol, no kidding. It was just a hypothetical question to stimulate discussion, which it has, but what I find wild is how many people decided to change the question in order to be more outraged by it. "How DARE you post pictures of women without their consent! Red flag!" Yeah, except I didn't, and the question clearly states in the first sentence that consent was given in this hypothetical. I wanted to remove the aspect of consent from the question because if there's a second person in a couples profile it's assumed that consent was given, even though we don't know that it was, so I wanted to apply that assumption to a singles profile and just get women's response to the picture.

I realize we all have different brains and ways of interpreting text but I was kind of surprised when a few people just decided to ignore the prompt and answer a question that wasn't asked.

You mean on the dating apps? It’s a huge turn off. You want to meet a woman and post picture with the women or multiple people so we should guess how you like like 😁 here also the picture of the ***. I won’t mind, but it’s about security. They can mention they have kids.
I'm very curious about this as well. It seems like men that have a play partner or has pictures with play partners garner the most attention.
It's a huge turnoff to see pics of men with other women. Many of those women are unaware that their pics have been placed on these sites. Revenge porn is real. Also, after they breakup, men usually don't take their trophies down. I avoid profiles like that. Represent yourself today, not what you did in the past with someone else.
Women like men who are already wanted by other women. This phenomena is called pre-selection.
Would say turn off. If the women don’t have your look then I would pass it by as they wouldn’t be interested in me as this is their type maybe
Thursday at 12:58 PM, silvis162462 said:
Can't stand it; if we become "friends" and I allow NSFW photos in my inbox then I just want to see you, not what someone else is doing to you or what you can do. It's not an advertisement; I'd rather be shown in person anyway.

There is an " ad category" for this site. Id like to think all of us here are open minded and interested in sex. on FB or IG or POF dont show a naked partners photo.

Yesterday at 04:16 PM, lake-forest60607 said:
Women like men who are already wanted by other women. This phenomena is called pre-selection.

Yeah, but maybe we are also capable of rational thought, learning from experience and reflecting on our pre-selection.
So we might see through cheap attempts to "play the game".
Personally, I don't care about monogamy, but I dislike men who try too hard. I find it mostly distasteful and cheap.

On 4/27/2025 at 1:46 AM, lake-forest60607 said:

Women like men who are already wanted by other women. This phenomena is called pre-selection.

Myself and most women I know are turned off by f**k bois.

56 minutes ago, lake-forest60607 said:
Anecdotal

You yourself are making a mistake in believing this pre-selection ist everything. It's one factor.

I’m not really interested in seeing sexual photos with women. I’ve had guys send me that stuff, and it really turns me off.
Sb****
No. It’s not something I want to see and I will pass on them.
Complete turn off. 🤢
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Oh i guess im the odd one... I wanna see what Im getting into.. let me look.but im also not interested in having a monogamous relationship
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