Alternative Collars

[Ha****]

25 minutes ago, GuessMyName12345 said:

I absolutely loved reading this. I am happy for you. I know that sounds insane to say. But I genuinely am. I had something similar. For reasons I’ll leave out- mine didn’t work out. But he called me “his butterfly”; told me he was building a safe space for me to morph into the woman I had kept hidden for so long and my wings were absolutely beautiful. We did lots of discrete things that only had meaning for us… but my favorite was wearing a tortoise shell colored hair clip in the shape of a butterfly. So discreet no one would have any idea it meant anything at all. But I wore it for him all the time. Still have it and am now actually feeling that sadness of it not working out. But something in me made me want to share. Hold him tight and appreciate what you have. ❤️

Thank you for sharing!❤️ And thank you for the kind words… yes, I do appreciate what I have and know it’s not the same for everyone. I hope by posting, others will understand that dynamics can truly be what you make it. It’s not cookie cutter. And you do what works for you and those involved—high trust, high rewards.

Even though it didn’t work out, it sounds like you’re in a good place 💕

[NO****]

Ive always loved small pet collars around the ankle they can always stay on are easy to conceal if needed n never need to come off

[Deleted Member]

Beautifully written with depth and authenticity! Thank you! I distinguish between “day collars” and “play collars”. The former is for nearly wearing 24/7 and very much has the form of a traditional ***r or snug necklace with a pendant which has deep meaning for both of us.

[Le****]

May 5, HappyFatLady said:

Aww, I’m glad! Truly. I definitely had my own doubts and I remember telling him that I wasn’t the collaring type… but the more we talked about it, somehow it ended up being my idea 🤔 One day I have to figure out how he did that 😂 but it was never ***d; very much a collaboration like you said

It's pretty easy to do once you win someone's heart. The more someone cares for you, the easier it is to start thinking alike and desiring similar things. You both ended up wanting a permanent piece that symbolized your connection and unity. You guys made it and we are all proud of both of you. To you I say we'll done and good job darlin. To him I say cheers 🍻 nicely handled

[Le****]

May 5, kinkypsycos said:

My pet has one of my dog tags on her Keychain. Which is on a lanyard. It means the world to her.

Might I suggest a stronger medium than the lanyard. Perhaps a stainless steel or titanium Cuban bracelet. A bit sturdier and less risk of losing her valuable totem

[Le****]

Omg! I apologize! I didn't notice this was for subs and their inputs. I did not intend to intrude on a collective subspace and I apologize once again. If my responses are leaning too hard into dom territory, please feel free to remove them as I want to respect the space. Best to all!

[Timcornbread]

 As a Dom I have her in a "working collar" for play time. I have gifted her several necklaces with custom pendants with Mine, Thief, Kitten, Baby Girl, ect. My rule is that she is to be wearing a necklace or working collar at all times.

  I have for her a custom-made leather collar for our more formal occasions that she will be gifted when I feel the time is right.

She is free to choose the collar/necklace of her choice unless I lay out something for her.

[Timcornbread]

 As a Dom I have her in a "working collar" for play time. I have gifted her several necklaces with custom pendants with Mine, Thief, Kitten, Baby Girl, ect. My rule is that she is to be wearing a necklace or working collar at all times.

  I have for her a custom-made leather collar for our more formal occasions that she will be gifted when I feel the time is right.

She is free to choose the collar/necklace of her choice unless I lay out something for her.

[du****]

What kind of collar do u get her to wear