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Best way to avoid awkward 1st face to face

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zi****

zi****

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I would say hello how are you looking in your eyes and grab you up and have my way with you
sp****

sp****

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A wise man once told me “I’m going to the WC if you want to continue wait for me here, if not this is your chance to leave” I thought it was genius!
pe****

pe****

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I prefer to meet and vibe check. Not a date but talk and check the chemistry. If im not putting my hands on you within 10 mins, its a no sex show
He****

He****

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Well if you guys have good communication between each other and know exactly what the other person wants before you meet, then there should be very little awkwardness and a whole lot of chemistry. It would be nice to get to know someone and talk about what each other wants so you know what to expect and when you meet for the first time you can just jump right into playing out each other's fantasies

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Walk into the face to face as if you two had already been in a relationship for a while. Role play as if this was already your partner (if you have been talking already, this should be easier).
je****

je****

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I think the main thing is truthfulness. When texting someone new it’s paramount one is 100 % truthful. I never see the point in trying to hide who you truly are.
The truth will come out in the end.
I personally live by this rule, but I know many don’t. So good communication is important.
Although the idea of meeting a stranger is hot, in this world we have to be careful. Making sure someone is verified with whatever site they are on helps to a certain extent. However, I always prefer to meet in a very public place first time.
I would also suggest making your location available to someone you trust on your phone. As well as checking in at certain times.
As far as awkwardness goes. I feel awkwardness for the first few minutes is pretty common. However, if it last longer than 5-10 minutes then someone (either him or her) probably doesn’t have much game.
That sounds harsh but most likely it’s true.
If someone is awkward at first meeting I try to slow down and talk about every day things until some kind of rapport builds.
If it just doesn’t happen then it’s most likely you’re both not compatible.
No biggie, don’t be offended or upset. Not everyone gets along with everyone.
Just because you may share the same interests in the bedroom doesn’t mean you share every interest.
It’s tough I know when the chemistry isn’t there. But you can’t fake chemistry. It is there or it isn’t. Be aware and be willing to admit it to yourself when it isn’t.
We’re all human and we all experience the same emotions.
Just be chill and it will happen if it’s supposed to
Lo****

Lo****

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Dont talk about ex's. Take turns biting each others lip too hard. If you're biting, hard enough they make the Unexpectedly Hard look. If its your lip, resist the urge to kiss them and dont be a bitch! Let them bite it as hard as you can take it!
Mi****

Mi****

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Lol well first time jitters and awkwardness overcome so thanks all for the input and likes
Sa****

Sa****

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My suggestion is on the first meet face to face. Walk into the house don't say a word to him just walk up to him and put his dick in your mouth. I promise you there won't be any awkwardness cause nobody will be talking. Since that is what you said was the goal in the first place. No need to have small talk just get to the point as fast as you can.
Sc****

Sc****

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Just let me have control of the situation... all you have to do is obey... that's the best ice breaker...
An****

An****

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We like to meet in a public place for the first time, it’s safer that way. If it feels good after a coffee and some chitchat, then we decide where to go next. Once we’re in private, a little cuddle and a blowjob is a good starting point.
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He****

He****

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Maybe try the direct approach, grab him by the balls, look him in the eyes and say... Hope you brought your boner pills, you're going to Need them
He****

He****

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Had an x girlfriend greet me at the airport like that once
Stuck in my head for almost 20 years now.
He****

He****

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BTW the OP is a woman who is into men so I assume she is looking for ways to approach men
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