Daddy, Sir, Master?

[Da****]

So 3 common titles, all of which needless to say must be earned.

But are they just a name or is it a different dynamic?!

For me, it’s the latter.

Daddy = affection, “soft” domination ( in a kind way.

Sir = attention and a firm hand.

Master = use, with strict and harsh rules and punishments.

Would love to see who agrees or disagrees.

[Deleted Member]

Oh I totally agree! That’s always what I’ve noticed

[DeviantInside]

Tbh… from what I’ve seen over the years whilst that is a common way of seeing them. The answer is yes/no/depends. Everyone brings their own interpretations into the roles, some people have issues or hang ups about one or another, some love one title above the other for various reasons (kink or otherwise). I have been all 3 at various times (and sometimes interchangeably) and while they do have slightly different interpretations in my head depending on the relationship I still Dom in pretty much the same, all be it with the caveat that every relationship is different so the dynamic is never exactly the same.

[Deleted Member]

Anyone who has daddy in their title is a instant no for me. I get some subs want that but then I don’t want a soft dom and I’m not a little so maybe that’s why. Each to their own that’s why the kink world is so good.

[Hexapotamus]

@moray65667 I am a sadist and I enjoy being called Daddy by certain subs. It's because in addition to being a sadist, I also like to encourage my subs to achieve personal growth in areas they wish to grow.
I feel the honorifics come with the individual sub, not the Dom.

[Ro****]

For me, the title comes when it feels right, and I'm stubborn about not using it before because it has to feel natural to me and not ***d. With that said, I have never called anyone master as that to me in a way, giving up autonomy. That is not my comfort zone, independance and the ability to have my own voice is super important. For the right dom, Daddy is the preferred term and will use sir when responding to a directive or question.

[br****]

Daddy is too widely used in my opinion. Being a little, it is very hard to find a true daddy when the pet name is just used for "soft dom" that's NOT the role.

[bo****]

I won't be called master, don't like the word at all. Personally I don't feel it belongs in this scene but nothing against people who use it.

I naturally get called daddy, even with my vanilla profile on tinder. Never seen it as a soft dom term either but rather something used by the other person. One I've met a few times who calls me daddy is a complete *** slut so no soft dom in the dynamic with her.

Also no mention of pappi? I know it's originality isn't from this scene but does get used now and again.

[Da****]

I myself can intermingle all 3 in the same session. First and foremost I wholeheartedly agree these titles are earned. You can not just spank someone then consider yourself a Dom Master or Daddy. How I like to explain it, it's a journey between you and your other. It is living and breathing and yes needs to be fed. It is a fire that comes from the depths of your innermost being. I don't understand how a Dom Master or Daddy can only be that part time. It is 24/7. If you don't have it then you're not true to yourself.

Now back to me. I live it 24/7. I lead by example. We as Doms Masters and Daddy's have a set of rules we need to abide by. If you don't know what those are then google them. It is so much more than just giving someone their rules.

One other thing I have found out. Stop telling subs they are bad subs. There is no such thing as a bad sub. Only bad doms masters and daddy's. ( Notice the lower case vs the upper case). When you tell a sub their bad that is ***. That is gaslighting. It isn't the subs fault. It is the doms fault for a better word lack of leadership.

[Deleted Member]

It's very personal between the individuals. Personally I don't like using the word Daddy, but I love soft domination sometimes. I am overall neutral towards Sir, and in spite of not wanting to be a full time slave, I find Master/slave roleplay super hot, so calling someone Master makes me feral. :3

[Pr****]

Tops are always addressed as "Sir" to begin with out of Respect, Rank and Role.
However being a Babygirl, the Top only becomes "Daddy" once it's an actual dynamic.
I do find DaddyDoms to be more playful and tend to have a little more patience with me.
As far as the title "Master", I was trained old school and "Master" requires years of experience to earn that title.

[Pa****]

sounds pretty good to me

[Su****]

I call him Daddy because sir makes me feel separate and Daddy makes me feel like I belong

[Yi****]

6 hours ago, boring said:

I won't be called master, don't like the word at all. Personally I don't feel it belongs in this scene but nothing against people who use it.

I naturally get called daddy, even with my vanilla profile on tinder. Never seen it as a soft dom term either but rather something used by the other person. One I've met a few times who calls me daddy is a complete *** slut so no soft dom in the dynamic with her.

Also no mention of pappi? I know it's originality isn't from this scene but does get used now and again.

Im sure every culture has different name. Not everyone is a gamer cosplay steampunk role. How do African tribespeople practice bondage? They don't have fetcon.

[BD****]

Netherlands latter

[BD****]

Definitely the latter*

[Deleted Member]

I agree…I don’t count my little side and slave side as being the same. I can’t be a little for a Master in my head a Master should be strict and firm and my little wants nothing to do with that. Titles are part of the dynamic I need them to set in stone my place in a sense.

[El****]

I agree too

[Deleted Member]

Definitely more than just a name. Daddy means affection, teacher, mentor, discipline. Master means a Dom who has way more stricter rules.

[my****]

Different dynamics. I do not want to be called daddy. It makes me uncomfortable. Sir is my preference. I have also been referred to as a girl’s owner. Master is also completely different and M/s is another dynamic entirely.

[T_****]

‘Sir Daddy Master’
is gonna be my new rap name.
My motto is gonna be
“Put that Respect on My Name!”

[Deleted Member]

I need all 3 in 1.

[T_****]

1 minute ago, Dragonheart13 said:

I need all 3 in 1.

That’s called “Air Tight”

[cu****]

I dont think any of us are ever just one thing. Ive used Daddy and Sir for one D type depending on my mood. Daddy feels more natural to me when im craving reassurance or feeling ***. Sir feels more natural when im following orders but also have leeway. Master does feel more formal and definitely more strict with less room for argument

[ey****]

They're interchangeable terms.

It's about which coat you feel looks best on you (or which coat you like to see others wear) but it's all the same coat.