About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
Description
BDSM for me is rooted in love, romance, deep intimacy, and amazing sex. It’s a way to deepen connection, explore vulnerability safely, and create unforgettable experiences together.
I’m a switch — I can lead with confidence or surrender with trust, depending on chemistry. Balance, consent, and connection are everything.
Hobbies & Interests:
🚶 Night walks to reset the mind
💪 Strength training & staying active
🔥 Bonfires, deep talks, 1AM honesty sessions
🍻 Brewery adventures & spontaneous trips
🧠 Math, philosophy, and exploring the “why” behind life
Emotional Wiring:
Fast, deep experiential bonder — rare, selective, intentional, and fiercely loyal. Ambiguity drains me; clarity energizes me. I value honesty, reciprocity, and accountability.
Green Flags in a Partner:
• Personal accountability without excuses
• Honest communication, even when messy
• Empathy without weaponizing vulnerability
• Understanding the difference between feelings and facts
• Organic apologies, not ***d ones
What I’m Looking For:
A connection that’s real and evolving — both in kink and in life. Someone who:
• Can handle intensity without losing themselves
• Communicates clearly and intentionally
• Enjoys adventure, deep conversation, and intimacy
• Can flip dynamics naturally in play and relationship
Fun Fact / Icebreaker:
If you can plan a spontaneous brewery hop or debate morality by a bonfire at 1AM, we’ll probably get along.
Limits
Soft Limits: Water sports, chastity
Hard Limits: Human waste, ***, needles.
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
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I’m a switch — I can lead with confidence or surrender with trust, depending on chemistry. Balance, consent, and Read more… connection are everything.
Hobbies & Interests:
🚶 Night walks to reset the mind
💪 Strength training & staying active
🔥 Bonfires, deep talks, 1AM honesty sessions
🍻 Brewery adventures & spontaneous trips
🧠 Math, philosophy, and exploring the “why” behind life
Emotional Wiring:
Fast, deep experiential bonder — rare, selective, intentional, and fiercely loyal. Ambiguity drains me; clarity energizes me. I value honesty, reciprocity, and accountability.
Green Flags in a Partner:
• Personal accountability without excuses
• Honest communication, even when messy
• Empathy without weaponizing vulnerability
• Understanding the difference between feelings and facts
• Organic apologies, not ***d ones
What I’m Looking For:
A connection that’s real and evolving — both in kink and in life. Someone who:
• Can handle intensity without losing themselves
• Communicates clearly and intentionally
• Enjoys adventure, deep conversation, and intimacy
• Can flip dynamics naturally in play and relationship
Fun Fact / Icebreaker:
If you can plan a spontaneous brewery hop or debate morality by a bonfire at 1AM, we’ll probably get along.
I'm in talks with a switch right now, and she's more submissive and I am more of a dominant. However when life starts going fucky she gets more dominant and I get more submissive. It depends on the dynamic you want to set and what is negotiated.
I say the couple needs to have that discussion amongst themselves. Having a heavy impact scene with no emotional connection can be see as cheating by some. Ethical Non Monogamy is also a thing.
@moray65667 I am a sadist and I enjoy being called Daddy by certain subs. It's because in addition to being a sadist, I also like to encourage my subs to achieve personal growth in areas they wish to grow.
I feel the honorifics come with the individual sub, not the Dom.
The benefit for me being a switch is I can at times when I really am just needing a beating can go to a party and experience what a new toy would feel like on a partner. That's one of the big things I feel helps.
Hard Limits: Human waste, ***, needles.