Are Switch Relationships Good?

[Mr****]

I've been wanting to get into a switch relationship for a while, has anyone had good experiences?

[wh****]

What is a switch ? Serious question.

[Sweetestsadist]

I had a sub who was a switch. It was a good thing, because he knew what I put into it. He decided he wanted to go onto more in the Dom leaning side (not with me, because I'm not a switch) No harm. He's my best friend now. He's practiced rope skills on me for his other relationships. When we talk kink, it's nice, because we both know where each other are coming from.

[Deleted Member]

23 minutes ago, whyte4bbc said:

What is a switch ? Serious question.

You want/can take both roles, dominant and submissive

[ey****]

it depends - what you now need is not only someone that, as a top, likes the activities you do as a bottom - who - also - as a bottom likes the same things you do as a top. 

[We****]

Like any relationship it depends on who is in the relationship.

[lg****]

Hard to say but really depends on the partner. I experimented a little bit with an ex but she was definitely more of a submissive. She humored me but I could tell she wasn’t really into it.

[Hexapotamus]

I'm in talks with a switch right now, and she's more submissive and I am more of a dominant. However when life starts going fucky she gets more dominant and I get more submissive. It depends on the dynamic you want to set and what is negotiated.

[Deleted Member]

Yes. Switch is literally just a regular sex life where you have control sometimes and give up control sometimes. Makes things well rounded. I find it more fulfilling than being in charge 100% of the time.

[wh****]

Thanks everybody. I had a feeling I knew approximately, and my kinks being with a woman are different than with a man . And now - back to our regularly scheduled program, already in progress.

[Deleted Member]

As a switch who has, basically only had relationships with subs... When you're a switch they're pretty boring eventually. Switches need switches to dynamically enjoy the sex or just be dating.

[Tw****]

Being a switch is a very powerful tool. In its simplest form it's the best of both worlds. As with any dynamic it will take properly communicating wants, needs and desires. If you are leaning more Dom aim to play with switches who lean more sub that way there is still a balance of power to found the relationship around.