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2 minutes ago, Notti_my_Fault said:
Thank you for sharing

Thank you for reading 🙂

pl****
So jealous would love to feel that!!
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That was inspiring. I had thoughts about what can i tolerate, will it excite me, and how much fun can it really be? But after reading letter, I think that I just might come around.

I agree with your advice. ONE HUNDRED PERCENT. Take time, be patient, ask the questions, BEFORE you even think about meeting.

And ALWAYS have a backup plan. If you get to your destination, and things aren't what you expect or aren't as described, have a safe place to go and regroup. Coffee shop, library, cafe... and a hotel or Airbnb close by. Never leave yourself in a desperate situation.

My baby girl.... I miss your touch and your smile. Our "real life" moments are as connecting as the bracelets you wear for your Daddy. 

You are delightful in your submission. I could see the glow in your eyes, even as you left in the Uber. Our energy created a shine in you... and a warm spot in my soul.

Thank you....

Ha****
22 minutes ago, GreyHog said:

I agree with your advice. ONE HUNDRED PERCENT. Take time, be patient, ask the questions, BEFORE you even think about meeting.

And ALWAYS have a backup plan. If you get to your destination, and things aren't what you expect or aren't as described, have a safe place to go and regroup. Coffee shop, library, cafe... and a hotel or Airbnb close by. Never leave yourself in a desperate situation.

My baby girl.... I miss your touch and your smile. Our "real life" moments are as connecting as the bracelets you wear for your Daddy. 

You are delightful in your submission. I could see the glow in your eyes, even as you left in the Uber. Our energy created a shine in you... and a warm spot in my soul.

Thank you....

Thank you Daddy 😌

  • 2 weeks later...
I totally understand this and respect what you are saying but if you have cancer and you're dying and you want to meet someone then you don't have time for all of the slow moving text messages each day taking forever to meet. My thing is that you will be able to tell within the first 5 minutes of meeting whether or not you're going to be able to stand the person or meet them ever again so why not just save all the damn text messages and tell the person to their face what they want to know because then at least they will know you're not lying or hiding behind a phone. Just different strokes for different folks I guess
9 minutes ago, 843BigBoi said:
I totally understand this and respect what you are saying but if you have cancer and you're dying and you want to meet someone then you don't have time for all of the slow moving text messages each day taking forever to meet. My thing is that you will be able to tell within the first 5 minutes of meeting whether or not you're going to be able to stand the person or meet them ever again so why not just save all the damn text messages and tell the person to their face what they want to know because then at least they will know you're not lying or hiding behind a phone. Just different strokes for different folks I guess

Wait… so if I tell someone it’s the last day of my life and I’m dying, does that mean we have to sleep together now? Is that how this works?! I’ve been doing this all wrong 🫣🤣

All jokes aside, urgency might shifts things but not everyone feels safe jumping straight into a meet-up. For some of us, texting isn’t about dragging it out. It’s about filtering, feeling people out, and seeing if they actually respect how we move. You might be able to tell in five minutes, but not everyone can or wants to take that gamble.

You’re right about one thing though. Different strokes for different folks. Just don’t confuse caution with hiding.

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