Opinions needed

[me****]

If you meet someone and at first they seem great but then you realize they are the most boring person, how do you kindly say “ you are boring and I get bored after 2 minutes of hearing you talk?” Without sounding like a rude Aries (which I am haha)

[Deleted Member]

You say it with honesty

[CJ****]

I feel like a simple “I’m no longer interested in exploring further with you is fine” or a after talking with them being like “after getting to know you a little more I don’t think we’d go well together but thanks for letting me get to know you”

[Fi****]

I’d say “It’s been great, but I just don’t feel a connection. “. Simple and easy.

[Am****]

Simple, ask them what they do for fun in free time. If theirs any relatble activity then do it. I prefer going to zoo or somewhere instead for lunch. You can judge the person better there 🥸

[me****]

Thank you guys! A lot of men gave massive ego problems and what I’ve realized is when I try to be nice they act a fool and then come back at me “ well your fat anyway” lol

[St****]

Lol sometimes probably no connections

[ey****]

27 minutes ago, mermaidkat1990 said:

If you meet someone and at first they seem great but then you realize they are the most boring person, how do you kindly say “ you are boring and I get bored after 2 minutes of hearing you talk?” Without sounding like a rude Aries (which I am haha)

just hit the ignore button

they won't like - but it solves your problem 

[Do****]

Tell them you're a leper.

[Ac****]

It's just not going to work out you feel like your just not compatible as a couple or whatever

[Deleted Member]

"I appreciate your time, but I don't feel the connection that I am looking for. I wish you the best!" Is a good way. Be polite, be thankful, but most importantly, be final.

[DG****]

Just be honest? No one and I mean Noone wants lingering ( why they block me ) concerns.
Especially after they thoguht things were going good.

So tell them you just don't find them interesting.

But I can tell by the way you blame the stars and for your attitude that you're probably better off just helping him dodge a bullet and block the guy.

[Deleted Member]

You shut up and politely end the night. Being rude definitely isn't how to do it.

[Je****]

Just say sorry this isn’t going to work.

[ey****]

32 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

ust hit the ignore button

they won't like - but it solves your problem 

the other alternative, of course - is to tell him the truth.  He is boring. 

Most men say they want the truth - but, in reality, cannot handle it.  You don't owe a let-him-down-gently, that's extra labour on you.    But, at least he's not left "wondering why" 

[La****]

Honesty is #1. You have to practice it when it's difficult too, not just when it's easy or convenient. "I don't feel thenconnection I thought we might havr had"... and be done.

[Hi****]

From one Aries to another you simply say hey guy you know you're a good person with a good soul however me I personally seek out more adventure and thrill in my day today I hope you find what you're looking for but it ain't me have a wonderful night

[ba****]

Have public sex first and then after that tell them you need stimulation and watch how exciting they become with full of surprises. All for that quickie in a random spot.

[do****]

Just tell them I'm sorry the feelings aren't there I just don't see this going anywhere

[ea****]

Being Aries is hard to not be sarcastic not trying to be I try saying I think better as friends for now and see what happens when they are more comfortable

[so****]

2 hours ago, mermaidkat1990 said:

Thank you guys! A lot of men gave massive ego problems and what I’ve realized is when I try to be nice they act a fool and then come back at me “ well your fat anyway” lol

Your not fat

[cr****]

You can always say you dont think its the right fit or you arent compatible. If they ask why you can just say that its a gut feeling and that you think they deserve to be with someone whose gut feeling for them is certainty.

[do****]

Depends really on what you're looking for. If you look for someone for long term then you must understand that nothing will ever be perfect and if it looks perfect then probably you're about to be a victim of a narcissist since they fake very well in beginning then go twisting your mind.

If you think the person is great for some reason, try to speak to them what you honestly think about them in a constructive way first, like saying "i think you're great in this and this points but after some minutes of talking i think you get boring because of this this and that and just telling you to see if we could improve this somehow" or something like that.

If you looking for something perfect in a partner or relationship, then at some point all relationships you get will ruin.

Good connection or love is not about finding your soulmate, this is fairy tale. Good connection or love is about finding someone with whom both can be themselves and that accept the responsibility and commitment to build something together.

[do****]

If that approach is not received with maturity by them, then really just go away and ignore. You did your best

[LthrDom]

Be honest, ...a simple I am not feeling the connection I was looking for...is enough if they have an issue it's on them