What introduced you to your kinks?

[Deleted Member]

Most of my kinks I realized while hearing others describe their sex lives.

[onishi]

Curiosity and experimentations

[Qu****]

My wife. I was pretty vanilla. Like basically just vanilla. I wasn’t even cool with watching porn with her. She slowly broke me down, and I’m glad she did.

[vi****]

I learned of my biggest one during phone sex with an ex. During one particularly long session, she said she was going to squirt. Me being blurry inexperienced at the time I looked it up after and have been hooked since

[Do****]

My 1st ex introduced me to cuffs, and sex in public places. It was very exciting and I loved it.

[tw****]

Kink is contagious. Be careful spreading it about.

[st****]

Porn introduced it to me. Cream pies 🥧

[Go****]

Writing introduced me to it.
I had been reading some friends stuff and it was not at vanilla. I started to realise I was enjoying the things I was reading so began to research for my own writing, which led me to another fetish type website. I liked it so much I stayed 😄

[AmieJ]

Reflecting back on personal experiences. I have been into kink sense the time I started exploring sexually. But I became repressed due to others miss understandings. I squirted the first time in my 20's, guy thought I had ******** on him..I was devastated and spent the next 18 years hold back

[Deleted Member]

Reading smut, experimenting with my Dom.

[Fi****]

I’d say early on, soft core porn on hbo and showtime. Then my first experience. Huge boobs. After I climaxed she cleaned me off. With her mouth. Never thought a woman would do that. While I was on top, she ran her nails down my back. It excited me. I never knew. After cleaning me she climbed on top until she finished. Wasn’t until a gf after my divorce that I knew. Gf asked “why didn’t you tell me you were a dom”

[wi****]

I got introduced to it from movies when I was younger. Never knew why my heart raced when seeing a guy getting tied/handcuffed/restrained to the the bed. lol do now

[Wi****]

Unfortunately some trauma introduced me //3 lots of years of working through that and practicing self awareness have made me very comfortable with my sexuality

[T1****]

Trauma and unsupervised use of the internet from a young age💪

[Deleted Member]

Seeing someone breastfeeding when I was young. That view stayed with me, and my wondering how it would feel.

[Ki****]

My first partner. Bittersweet thinking about it. Along with the unsupervised use of the internet at a young age that @T1ttyzmentioned. Lol

[NC****]

Boring sex life with my ex

[Da****]

A woman at the bar years ago overheard me telling someone how I stopped a guy from stalking my daughter. And asked me if I’d beat her a**.

[sm****]

Many moons ago, pre mainstream kink Internet sites,  I was browsing topics on builtin boards and alt.news " your are ancient like me" if you remember those haha. Came across a few topics that were in my filters, regarding what turned me on.   Someone from the states kindly put me on the tracks of IRC, and downloading a chat app called "MIRC"   I think @UK_Knight will remember those days well.   Hundreds of servers and even more rooms, the old dalnet server and a certain little room called #UKBDSM. In those early Internet days, most people online were genuinely active in the r/l scene.   There were fewer " fakes" not nill but by far fewer than today.   The main emphasise was communication and firstly meeting up at the emerging munch scene, just in it's infancy.   Once you got trusted enough and not acting like a randy goat, you soon got introduced to a whole new level of kink and information.  35 years later i still religiously stand by the principles and experience from some knowledgeable people in those tentative early days.

[UK****]

I certainly do @smeagol :-)

We may be old but we had a good grounding in the key bdsm principles that are still important today.

To answer the OP; when I was young, I had a book on naval history and kept flicking back to the pages about floggings.

 

[va****]

Yeah my best mate was telling me that his wife pegging him as to be the best thing ever. So now I’m here. 😂