Sex Drive Bar

[Ko****]

We all have it. It controls our thoughts, our day, and our mood. If there was a bar that measures on average from 1-10, your need for release, where would it be?

Mine is somewhere between 7-8, but I'm in a setting that provides a 3 if im lucky, so am I judging my level wrong?

When you crave something, it builds up so some days I can say I'm a 10 on others I can say I'm happy at a 2.

On any profile you might read "I'm a cum slut" or "looking to bang" but reality is that was that moment, day, week. How do you judge how much the right amount is with a partner or partners if you don't crave it every day?

This is cumming from a guy's perspective and men by nature have a higher sex drive but is it the same for women?

If there was an accurate way to measure sex drive, what would it look like?

What is yours at?

And where would you want your partners to be at?

[Scientist19]

I can't tell, really. And pinning some numbers to it is even harder.
It always ranges between "bearable" and "almost uncontrollable" except when stress at the job hits. Then my libido drops to "why not". 😅

Looking at my female associates I would say they are even more demanding at times. Astonishing.

[id****]

I guess a 7 on average

[BB****]

I’m 20/10 always ready to go

[Se****]

6 or 7 on average. Never below like 4,and sometimes immeasurable.

[Sa****]

I'm on 10, always. My partner would need to be an 8 at least.

[Mr****]

Would this indicate "Post-Nut-Clarity" to be a 0/10?

[ey****]

changeable.

I do sometimes feel it a bit worry on the "need" for release - like what then happens if you're at a 12/10 and then with someone who then says no to sex?

 

[PL****]

So first of all, I would say that making the generalization that men have a higher sex drive than women is an overgeneralization and that many women I know have very high sex drives to include myself. However, we deal with it differently and we don't have a penis that gets hard when we feel that way so we can hide it better and because of society most do hide it. However for me I'm almost always between a 8 - 10 if I were to put a number on it.

[AKA_Copper]

Question.
What makes you believe that women have a lower sex drive than men by "nature"?

[Th****]

You really shouldn't speak to anyone's sex drive other than your own.

There are more than a few inaccuracies in the sweeping generalizations and assumptions you've made. 

Edited August 6, 2025 by ThaliaV

[ey****]

ooh, arguably also in terms of who has bigger sex drive

men are certainly slightly more limited to how many times they can in a day.  if you've never been in a situation where a woman wants sex and you're struggling for a decent erection, or it hurts, because you've not long came - then, I dunno, probably haven't met many women 

[Th****]

10 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

ooh, arguably also in terms of who has bigger sex drive

men are certainly slightly more limited to how many times they can in a day.  if you've never been in a situation where a woman wants sex and you're struggling for a decent erection, or it hurts, because you've not long came - then, I dunno, probably haven't met many women 

It can be quite a lot of fun when one has consent to make them push through that overly sensitive hurting and keep going. 😈

[ey****]

4 minutes ago, ThaliaV said:

It can be quite a lot of fun when one has consent to make them push through that overly sensitive hurting and keep going. 😈

I... I won't say messed up, but messed up... and I accidentally came an hour before I'd promised someone a cum shot.  And yeah, I got hard but it hurt.  Luckily I was blindfolded so no one could see me crying. 

[Th****]

33 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

I... I won't say messed up, but messed up... and I accidentally came an hour before I'd promised someone a cum shot.  And yeah, I got hard but it hurt.  Luckily I was blindfolded so no one could see me crying. 

Sometimes the crying makes it even better. 😂

[Ka****]

IMO and my experience, women are more sexually driven than men. You can’t rate men and women on the same scale because most women our driven by the need for intimate experiences more than the need for sexual release. The need for intimate experiences is a continuous process for women throughout the day. It isn’t that they hide it either it is just much more subtle than how men experience or express it. If a woman’s intimate experiences are satisfied the need for se becomes insatiable. So in reality, if you perhaps rate it along the same scale as a man would rate theirs. The drive for sex would be infinitely larger, because you can not just define sex by the need to release.

[ey****]

I mean I feel you can't rate men and women because women are women and men are men - but, honestly - I mean, I've been a 10 to 2 guy before. 

[Th****]

7 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

I mean I feel you can't rate men and women because women are women and men are men - but, honestly - I mean, I've been a 10 to 2 guy before. 

So much is just the difference between individual people and not even necessarily the differences between genders. 

[Mr****]

Unless I’m in a funk in a 9 daily. I appreciate a woman at least close to my level becuase I like for them to initiate some of the time. However, as long as they aren’t so cold it that they are unable to be turned on a lot of the time it can work.

[ba****]

Now I'm getting older mine's finally mellowed out to a 10 and that's where I like my partners to be also

[oc****]

I think I’m just as bad as a guy. I always think about sex and my pussy is always wet. I wish I could a guy to keep up with me. Is there any out there

[Ba****]

Yeah I don’t think I have ever been like please stop or no more. Maybe let me grab some water and breath for a second but I wanna keep going alll the time soo….. was married and almost never could get him to go more than once or even keep pleasing me…. It would be great to find someone that could keep up with my demands

[ba****]

Me I'll wear you out

[ba****]

25 minutes ago, Battygoblinbrat said:

Yeah I don’t think I have ever been like please stop or no more. Maybe let me grab some water and breath for a second but I wanna keep going alll the time soo….. was married and almost never could get him to go more than once or even keep pleasing me…. It would be great to find someone that could keep up with my demands

I will wear you out to

[Vi****]

Wow that's an interesting perspective.
I love intelligence 😍 😈
Personality I've always had a higher drive than men.
They actually roll 🙄 their 👀
😐🧐🙄😅
I also agree with the 2 & 10 days of our lives 🌻😈