Paddywack-3112 Posted August 14, 2020 Posted August 14, 2020 So just inquiring on how far you are willing to go for your fetishes and desires. I am at a stage In my life requires happiness ,and that happiness is Involving a Fetish ,Desire and sexual appetite, that can not be suppressed by my long term partner. I have always believed that personal happiness is desirable, but it can cause havoc along the way. So what do you do
Deleted Member Posted August 15, 2020 Posted August 15, 2020 Personally, my real exploration began after I made an improvements to my depression through 3 years of therapy. Realized I've wasted so much time in isolation, I decided I won't let anything hold me back from my interests. It is more than just a fetish, it now becomes a lifestyle that I constantly experience the next new kink I find. After so long holding myself back from life, I am unphased by any "obstacle" that holds me back.
Deleted Member Posted August 15, 2020 Posted August 15, 2020 Personally, my real exploration began after I made an improvements to my depression through 3 years of therapy. Realized I've wasted so much time in isolation, I decided I won't let anything hold me back from my interests. It is more than just a fetish, it now becomes a lifestyle that I constantly experience the next new kink I find. After so long holding myself back from life, I am unphased by any "obstacle" that holds me back.
Deleted Member Posted August 15, 2020 Posted August 15, 2020 To be fair id go a long way to find my fetishes and fantasys i am even considering paying a lady to help with some fetishes also i would go as fae as hiring a sex worker
hollyass Posted August 15, 2020 Posted August 15, 2020 How far would i go?To hell and back!Dont attach yourself to things that are not important to you.Be what you are.If you dont seek you will never find.If you fail try again!
hollyass Posted August 15, 2020 Posted August 15, 2020 If you find your kink mate on another part of the world and you both wanna meet and you can afford it.Would you go or would you continue to jerk on phantasy,or do you value your *** more then your kinks?Fuck that i would go and what hapens hapens.
ey**** Posted August 15, 2020 Posted August 15, 2020 geographically, the furthest I've been for fetish is Romania
ey**** Posted August 15, 2020 Posted August 15, 2020 In seriousness. You have to decide what is important in your life and that is something that can be changeable. Obviously of course, legalitiy is important - but it's important to look at your life and what is or isn't more important than fetish - whether that is other hobbies or expenses - or, well, yes - relationships.
Wo**** Posted August 15, 2020 Posted August 15, 2020 How far would I go? I've already travelled quite a distance for my need for fetish and kink. It cost me everything I had. My , my family, my relationship with my daughter (which are now being rekindled, thankfully). It was hell, absolute hell, to get where I am now but I had no choice, not once I started to be really honest about what I wanted and who I was. I think living a vanilla life when you're a kinky soul, it's a slow death.
Deleted Member Posted August 15, 2020 Posted August 15, 2020 2 minutes ago, Bounty said: How far would I go? I've already travelled quite a distance for my need for fetish and kink. It cost me everything I had. My , my family, my relationship with my daughter (which are now being rekindled, thankfully). It was hell, absolute hell, to get where I am now but I had no choice, not once I started to be really honest about what I wanted and who I was. I think living a vanilla life when you're a kinky soul, it's a slow death. Absolutly agree im dying to do some of my fetishes i would travel and sacrifice *** to pay for the fetishes
Th**** Posted August 15, 2020 Posted August 15, 2020 I personally have put my lifestyle as a priority. Like Bounty said I have travelled thousands of miles, I have been very lucky with my family and over time they have returned. I am not focused on kink though, I need to be my authentic self with the person I love. I have no interest in pretending to be someone I am not. I just want to be myself, naturally I am happy to accept my partner on the same basis. What would I sacrifice... Everything.
LazyPirate Posted August 16, 2020 Posted August 16, 2020 Geographically was to Thailand, and will be going there again, but as I’m open with what I’m after I’m not going to be looking to change that for anyone and my personal needs are going to be at the forefront of any personal relationships (within reason as I’m look into get as much out of a relationship as the other person/people)
Kinkyman67 Posted August 18, 2020 Posted August 18, 2020 Looking for a definition of cuckold. Looking for a Bull for my wife 🙂 On 8/16/2020 at 10:08 AM, LazyPirate said: Geographically was to Thailand, and will be going there again, but as I’m open with what I’m after I’m not going to be looking to change that for anyone and my personal needs are going to be at the forefront of any personal relationships (within reason as I’m look into get as much out of a relationship as the other person/people)
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