Do**** Posted September 13 First of all this is not about shaming those who send them, or repeating the gazillion comments made about how many unsolicited d**k pics we receive, how we feel when we receive them or what we then do with them. - What I’d love to understand is why? What is the thought process, what drives blokes to send unsolicited d**k pics to others? When they weren’t asked for, you just sent them. Sometimes early on in the chat with a new person. Via email, text, WhatsApp, in vanilla dating apps and in this app. - There must be something behind it because after all these years, no matter how many people complain about them, after they became illegal, we still continue to receive them. - Don’t bash those who explain please 🙏🏼 - Those who send them, I’d love to understand why. What is your motivation? Please explain🙏🏼
SoftDomD Posted September 13 Never sent one myself and always wondered the same.. the conclusion I have come to is that they believe that what is (in my opinion) potentially the least attractive part of the male body to focus on, is in actual fact, the best feature they have or that it is the most absolutely stunning cock in the world that will make a woman swoon in an instance 😂 Now, don’t get me wrong, if I had a monster that could compete for the world record, ‘maybe’ I’d wanna show that beast off, otherwise, it’s just.. meh 😂 Looking forward to others thoughts lol
va**** Posted September 13 Men who dont understand how womens sexuality works believe they function the same as men. An unsolisited vag pick will stop most mens hearts. Those same men will probably not answers your question.
Deleted Member Posted September 13 Im guessing the feel insecure about themselves so maybe they are looking for approval? That or they just wanted to share with someone lol
ma**** Posted September 13 I’ve always wondered that very thing myself even as a male I also don’t really understand. Very odd behavior by those seeking somekind of weird confirmation stemming from some hidden insecurities perhaps. Could even be a basic Neanderthal attempt to conquer through their genitalia? Ala a Genghis Kahn type of approach?? but mostly I view that behavior as insecurity with repressed homosexual overtones i because very very rarely if ever does it have any kind of positive results in the recipients mind. It’s actually the ying to the yang polar opposite to boob pictures which almost always have a positive effect. Odd how that works. But ladies feel free to send me some as I’m conducting a scientific experiment 😇
Do**** Posted September 13 Author Nice try @majorwood77 😆 I also wondered if it was some form of exhibitionism. I feel like enough people comment about them for all men to know many women don’t enjoy the unsolicited ones. So their motivation might be an exhibitionists’s need to flash themselves at us. Or just an inner belief their c**k is so unbelievably sexy, more than most others, that women would want one regardless of saying they wouldn’t. The rules should be different for one as amazing as theirs. I would honestly love to understand why it happens so much.
su**** Posted September 13 59 minutes ago, DommeDelight said: First of all this is not about shaming those who send them, or repeating the gazillion comments made about how many unsolicited d**k pics we receive, how we feel when we receive them or what we then do with them. - What I’d love to understand is why? What is the thought process, what drives blokes to send unsolicited d**k pics to others? When they weren’t asked for, you just sent them. Sometimes early on in the chat with a new person. Via email, text, WhatsApp, in vanilla dating apps and in this app. - There must be something behind it because after all these years, no matter how many people complain about them, after they became illegal, we still continue to receive them. - Don’t bash those who explain please 🙏🏼 - Those who send them, I’d love to understand why. What is your motivation? Please explain🙏🏼 i cannot for the life of me understand why anyone would send any photo of their junk without being asked to do so, or at the very least ask if the person wants it. do they think theirs is the only D in existance? do they think it will be so impressive that the receiver will beg them for its use? D**ks are not attractive looking things, or impressive (with a few exceptions). if i saw a woman i was attracted to and wanted to perhaps strike up a conversation with, i wouldnt approach her with my c*ck hanging out of my pants! why do it online?
AV**** Posted September 13 Perhaps a sliver of introspective thought that makes them realize they really have nothing else to offer, so they mass send them in hopes someone will like a penis with next to zero brain cells attached to it 🤷🏼♂️ Just a hypothesis, though the introspection makes it a little far fetched.
ma**** Posted September 13 Just theorizing there Domme Delight, for like you I don’t f’ing understand what that dick pick thing all about. And I was surprised to learn how prevalent it is too. But I will freely admit most men are pretty much stupid which makes it tough on us good ones that actually can find the right spots even without directions. I’ll almost venture to say dudes that send such pictures Arent capable of finding a g spot if you pointed it out so chose wisely. I haven’t time to dwell on stupid male behaviors in other’s dreadfully inept existence I have a scientific experiment to run over here ya know. lol.
Do**** Posted September 13 Author 2 minutes ago, majorwood77 said: Just theorizing there Domme Delight, for like you I don’t f’ing understand what that dick pick thing all about. And I was surprised to learn how prevalent it is too. But I will freely admit most men are pretty much stupid which makes it tough on us good ones that actually can find the right spots even without directions. I’ll almost venture to say dudes that send such pictures Arent capable of finding a g spot if you pointed it out so chose wisely. I haven’t time to dwell on stupid male behaviors in other’s dreadfully inept existence I have a scientific experiment to run over here ya know. lol. That’s what made me wonder. It’s easy to assumed it’s just the stupid ones. But what if there was a clear motivation to it such as exhibitionism. What if those who send it have a need / reason / motivation that we all just don’t know about or haven’t heard about.
Ro**** Posted September 13 It's even more simple. A big majority of men just have the intelligence enough to reach the end of the day. Dick picks are just another expression of what we see every single day on the streets or through our TV screen.
Ea**** Posted September 13 Sounds nutz but I have received unsolicited pussy and boob picks.... It depends on what type of platform they are sent in.
Do**** Posted September 13 Author Just now, EastSideknox said: Sounds nutz but I have received unsolicited pussy and boob picks.... It depends on what type of platform they are sent in. @subbie00 there’s your answer!
ma**** Posted September 13 36 minutes ago, DommeDelight said: That’s what made me wonder. It’s easy to assumed it’s just the stupid ones. But what if there was a clear motivation to it such as exhibitionism. What if those who send it have a need / reason / motivation that we all just don’t know about or haven’t heard about. Yeah you probably don’t really want to know I thinks it’s totally creeper unsolicited, It’s well beyond exhibitionism I’m sure in some circles it could be seen as a form of *** . And I don’t understand that either🤷🏻♂️
GB**** Posted September 13 Because men and women think about sex differently. Men are more turned on by the physical than the mental (in most cases). Men typically tie their masculinity to their “little John” and in a man’s head will think a woman will see that and be turned on. Many men also feel the bigger the ”Johnson” the more he is “king shit”, literally a dick measuring contest where the biggest impressses the woman and she will drool with desire. I’m not saying that a woman cannot appreciate the physical male, but rather that is not what most women desire. Usually you “win” a woman over by connecting on a mental level before a physical one…at least as far as long term. Something else that just occurred to me and I write this out, is that they could be just “casting” it out there for a “quick hit”, surely you get told no a million times, but there’s bound to eventually be one who drools and “jumps” on it. No of what I’ve said was meant to be offensive, nor am I implying that all women and all men are this way, I’m talking purely in very general terms.
Ch**** Posted September 13 Unsolicited d**k pics are a modern day form of flashing. Like back when guys were running around with trench coat with nothing else on, and expose themselves to others (usually woman). Recently a guy told me he just thought his d**k was so impressive that women needed to see it. It was NOT impressive.
ma**** Posted September 13 11 minutes ago, ChocolateGonache73 said: Unsolicited d**k pics are a modern day form of flashing. Like back when guys were running around with trench coat with nothing else on, and expose themselves to others (usually woman). Recently a guy told me he just thought his d**k was so impressive that women needed to see it. It was NOT impressive. Beauty is always in the eye of the beholder 😂. Not all can see the impressiveness of their mighty 2” punisher perhaps
Dr**** Posted September 13 I'm sorry, but I am packing and I have never sent an unsolicited d.pic to anyone. It is an ***ive impulse!
ey**** Posted September 13 so, I've never sent - will never send and there's some stuff on a forum like this we'll probably not get some of the actual truth there are studies and articles people have done (some with an agenda, some through a general curiousity) and they did get a range of reasons (and I suspect there's a few more that weren't revealed) so here goes... Some said they claimed it was an attempt to impress. That they didn't really care about anyone who didn't like it - but that it was an effort to flirt "I got this, do you want it?" Though some admitted it was to humiliate, or repulse the receiver. I suspect in some fetish circles some send hoping for any response, because there was a period where some would try not to let it upset them and instead go with a "Is that all you got?" which, ha, guess what - some guys are into it and it's a reaction Some also kinda felt that even an angry reaction was a reaction and I have suspicious that the response to someone replying and getting angry would be to give some form of apology and play dumb cos as long as there's engagement it's a chance. So in short the reasons that men send unsolicited dick pics is a mix of: They are stupid They are pretending to be stupid They are so desperate for a reaction that a bad reaction is enough They are sex offenders (even if it is difficult to prove) They are inconsiderate in the sense that even if there is someone who would like it - they don't care enough about the feelings who don't
Ro**** Posted September 13 It's even more stupid knowing woman don't like it and still doing it. Does someone ever get something good like a date or a ONS out of an unsolicited dick pic?
cl**** Posted September 13 I have always assumed they’re getting off on a woman not consenting and being ***d to look at them
Ch**** Posted September 13 Based on the guys I know who have done it it's a form of peacocking and the ever growing trend of objectifying both men and women we see in consumed media. They tend to view women less as people and more as a sexual object so in thier mind women view them as a sexual object so they "strut thier stuff". It's no different then the mindset of men who assume all women are only after *** going out and flashing large amounts of cash to get attention or dressing to show off how muscular they are.
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