What Subs Have to Deal With...

[Phoenyx]

A certain humorous "meme" was recently brought to my attention.  Though it was intended to be amusing, it also hit a little too close to reality.  Here then, is the text from that meme.  It involves an exchange of chat messages.  I thought that it would make a good topic for discussion:

 

Dom:  "Hey Sexy!"

sub:   "Hey IMAO."

Dom:  "Don't talk to me like that!"

Dom:  "Very disrespectful."

Dom:  "You say, 'Hello'."

Dom:  "And, only address me as 'Sir'."

Dom:  "Nudes?"

 

Of course, there are also a few Lady Dommes, who act that way toward prospective male subs.  Not to leave the same-sex couples out, this happens there, as well.

Edited September 18, 2020 by Phoenyx

[Pl****]

Here's my three-panel text meme response:

"Dom"
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"Dom" (except the quotation marks are bigger)
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"Dom" ("Dom" is tiny and the quotation marks are huge)

[Deleted Member]

The level of seriousness that some take themselves can go quite far. I chalk it up respectfully to various cups of tea... When people get righteous, indignant and offended, well then game on my friend, game on... lol

[Deleted Member]

If I received a message exchange like that I’d block immediately. I might be a sub but I’m not their sub until I’ve agreed to be. Until then, I’m their equal, and deserve respect.

[Deleted Member]

20 minutes ago, Kinky_kat said:

If I received a message exchange like that I’d block immediately. I might be a sub but I’m not their sub until I’ve agreed to be. Until then, I’m their equal, and deserve respect.

I just reply with "You are not attractive enough" before I block them. It is quite satisfying.

Jokes aside, they are probably newbies acting like pros or fakes so it is better to avoid them.

[Deleted Member]

So since I started exploring switching and made that public (at least on here) I've started to receive a but more attention than normal. Mainly from female dommes (let's be fair so no one has the wool pulled over their eyes: they're all opportunists, scammers and catfish).

 I mean apart from the obvious red flags: insisting on the use of honorifics, wanting to chat on or elsewhere, the persistant kink talk, and despite my insistence I've no interest in subbing to a domme, the unrelenting offers to make me submit.

 

So some advice for the lurkers: if you're interested in someone, get to actually know them first before you start making indecent proposals. Otherwise get ramiliar with the "no thanks message or even being blocked. Some of us have no interest in being your bitch, slave or submissive. Some of us wouldn't even consider submitting to anyone else but their current partner(s), and some of us aren't looking for NSA, relationships or anything other than friends and networking. If you say you've read their profile and you try and coax me into something that wasn't on the menu, you're either getting trolled or you're getting blocked, especially if you picked on me😁

Edited September 20, 2020 by Deleted Member