Does size matter. Honest answers only please

[Mr****]

7 hours ago, Trinity2025 said:

Just that saying "my family made it hard for me"... please heal your inner child as without it ull find it hard to move on and be happy. And when I say happy I mean u creating happiness yourself for you. Counselling can really help and working on yourself. My ex was an average size and he wasn't good at taking directions. His way of eating pussy made me feel he wasn't that interested in any of it etc. We broke up and I met a guy who was also average in size but my god the way he ate pussy was just on different level plus he made me squirt which I thought I can't do. Having a dick big or small isn't all that. Most guys with big dicks think it's enough but they don't realise uve to work on angles, try positions and have your eating game right. Without it ure just a guy with a big dick. Also personality. Idk if uve the most beautiful dick but if uve personality of a donkey then good luck and thanks

I cackled at "personality of a donkey" but that's the truth.

[Ro****]

Generally, size has nothing to do with it. Are there women who will move on due to it, yes. Does that apply to the majority? No. Every woman his their preference. Me personally, I go more for a well balanced personality over size.

[ca****]

Just be you brother. Remember that this is more of a hook-up app. You're here for fun, you will not find the woman of your dreams here.

[Re****]

Personally 8 inch and up is TOOOOO much. Currently I prefer a smaller dick cause my ass is tight. Idk how that would change the more comfortable bottoming i got. But regardless of my personal physical preference love is love. If you love someone then you love them. Their body is but a material vessel to hold who they are.

[He****]

2 hours ago, jamesdean111 said:

Depending on preferences to be honest some girls see big as a turn on others just find it ***ful i like to think im a happy medium

I have met quite a few ladies who prefer the medium to larger ones, except for when they're doing anal and face fucking especially when they're trying it for the first time.

[le****]

This answer is going to vary greatly because all vaginas are different. As a general rule, yes, being larger especially girth tends to be a net positive for most women. They will say otherwise if they like you enough but when you are well endowed they will talk about it non stop. Some women are obsessed with size, others just really enjoy it. That being said, if you are under 5 or have minimal girth, you’ll just have to try a little harder. I’ve personally found that having 7.5 with significant girth is like playing the game on easy mode, learn to use it and you may acquire stalkers.

Feel free to chime in ladies…

[Deleted Member]

I prefer smaller ones personally, in my opinion, over 7.5 inches is way too much. But I know different people have different preferences

[KI****]

9 incher and I'm quite girthy as well here and I've had girls I've had to really woo simply because they were scared of the d*ck

[Ro****]

15 hours ago, jaxboro58399 said:

But is it pencil d*ck or giant d*ck there's no in between

I don’t aspire a giant dick either. However, I do aspire a fat d*ck.

[Mj****]

Just be good at what your doing and it won't matter bud. Most say they want big things till they're shock and scared.

[Co****]

Read the Kama Sutra. There is a section that discusses size - but not just men, women come in different sizes too. The Kama Sutra suggests that some sizes of men match better with some sizes of women. It may be that you haven’t found the right fit. I am not a porn star, but I have found some women who are smaller and have difficulty with my size. I have also met women who want something much bigger (and some who are very pleased with what I can offer). You just need to find your match.

[La****]

As many ppl already said, everyone is different but you asked for a personal opinion so I’ll tell you my min is 6in. Ik many women who feel 7in is big but I’ve found tht once under 7in more foreplay/ engagement is necessary. There are angles/ positions that are more comfortable with smaller and vice versa but I think if it’s multiple women cheatin and they haven’t outright told u it’s a size issue then ask yourself are you takin the steps to satisfy them cuz motion is just as prevalent as size. Lastly the vag can stretch more than twice its length. I’ve had men (8in+) tell me they have issues datin women if they can feel there cervix an tht just goes to show communication goes a long way. Cuz I’m sure they issue was pleasing there partner an they full heartily believe it’s cuz they dick too big for vags🤦🏽‍♀️

[KattyRina05]

Personally it depends on what you're trying to do if you want a quick fuck then maybe have something average or on the bigger side but if you wanna take your time then size doesn't matter its about the skill you got. just a tongue itself can feel so good or the motion you can make.

[Na****]

If she has an average hole then no. But if she is loose then yes. If she cares about size then she is most likely a woman you should keep your hands far and safely away from

[da****]

It really depends on the woman. If a woman is vanilla only maybe…depending on her size. But only about 20% come from vaginal penetration!! Guys listen up. 1) clit play is essential! 2) women are less visually aroused. You have to get into her head and make her feel, desired in what ever way turns her on. 3) if she is kinky…you’ve got to understand what is in her head there too to get her satisfied. Dick size is a small factor.

[Ly****]

Big d*ck hurts and most people who have them have no skill because they think big d*ck is all they need. Small d*ck doesnt hurt, and the owners typically have more skill because theyve been told that being small is bad their entire lives.

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[pl****]

I would say im average , maybe a little on the girthier size. My wife enjoys it. And the we pull out the toys, ans some of these things are massive, like the size of a my arm, and she enjoys that too. Different sensation, she says she likes the the fullness. But then we finish with my normal sized d*ck and she doesnt fill all stretched out to me and she seems to be enjoying it even more than we started. So I guess for her, she likes variety. For her to squirt, she needs at max like three inches, and it has to be at an angle most d*cks just cant bend.

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[ms****]

I honestly don’t think size matters like I’ve f*cked a guy with a little d*ck before and he fUcked the sh*t out of me. It was honestly fantastic and his d*ck was small as f*ck so to be honest no it really matters if you know how to do it plus chemistry

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[Do****]

On 10/20/2025 at 8:11 PM, DomDaddyJoJo said:

Lemme answer this rq, uhm......No size DOESN'T matter. Even bigger sizes get cheated on my g. It's more of person kind of thing and it's crucial to be able to spot certain...."kinks in the armor" if you will? Cheating has a bunch of sh*t to do with the other person and how THEY react to certain situations. Please do NOT go on thinking that SIZE actually matters when in this reality......it clearly doesn't. Find people that LOVE YOU for YOU and nothing more. Become the best you and in time that amazing individual will manifest. You won't expect and best part they won't be expecting you either. Be the best individual you can with and without them. That's the best way I've found to live life recently and it's a blessing. Long as you do your best......there's never really an issue just room for improvement. Lmao yes ima 90s baby and these are some of the heavy hitting truths I've come to learn in life.

Also please do note D*CK SIZES CHANGE BASED ON ATTRACTION so if you're not sure try to record your mass with different partners you'll be blessedly surprised at what you find out after the 4th person. I've learned my original size is about 7.7 but when im fully erect i can be as long as 10 inches and very girthy. Sh*t changes based on your arousal level same for his or hers. It's been a journey these past 2 years of being poly and I've found that different scenes created are what help your d*ck adjust to the proper size for that partner. Sounds strange till you try out for yourself.

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[Mr****]

@ColoShark has a really good point, not just in reading the KS but that everyone is different in ways we can't exactly see on a date night. Tbh if you're getting enough dates to have that many partners, which already sounds above average, then it sounds like your courtship game is full of BDE and your boyfriend game has LDE... Be confident and keep your partner smiling without sex; I've known a lot of guys who've crashed relationships because they weren't great people, sex completely out of question.

[Je****]

I appreciate all sizes. I'm looking for larger to fulfill something I haven't had. Now IF you are smaller don't worry either. A smaller size just means that if a person enjoys oral they can deep throat much easier and when soft add balls to that.
Your cock is secondary to who you are. And if you're a good nice person that should supersede all else.

[Deleted Member]

Loving that Last philosophy!

[id****]

3 inches and under would be too small personally, but I mean extenders and strapons also exist

[Gr****]

How u connect with each other is key

[Gr****]

Ladies is there a thing about some women say that they get to much cum during sex

I would think that would be a good thing