NSA Sounds dirty!?!?

[Mr****]

Do NSA encounters just sound dirty? Are people actually interested in spontaneous and almost random sexual activity? I'm not saying that the idea is wholesome, but isn't that one of the kinks that people broadcast? I myself would amend it to: very limited strings attached. I would like to feel comfortable with the other person, and I would like to be attracted to them, but I am absolutely intrigued by the idea of meeting up and having an amazing night and then just parting ways. And, I'm also aware that if it's that great, it could and would probably happen again. Is that a string? Whatever happened to the idea of free love?

[Qu****]

NSA isn't really a kink in my opinion. Unless you have a strict job you're not going to get fired for having random sex, while not wholesome, society is somewhat open to the fact that it occurs, especially for men. If I show up with teeth marks on me, or rope marks it isn't socially acceptable which makes it kinky.

Of course you're going to want to feel attracted & comfortable with someone before you engage in sex. How long that comfort takes to gain is a variable depending on the person. Some can do it over the course of a few hours others it takes several dates.

[ey****]

I mean; it's one of the most common forms of sexual encounter, if not the most common, outside of committed relationships

Having to be attracted and comfortable with someone isn't a string.  Nor is that it might happen again.  An expectancy that it *will* happen again is a string.  But aside from any boundaries in sex (i.e. wear a condom, you can/can't do x, y, z, etc) the lack of strings is around any other commitment before or after.