How do we set up a Loving FLR?

[At****]

Has anybody here been in a situation where you want to make your female partner feel pampered and valued, even worshipped? Not in a FemDom/slave-dynamics, but in a ‘Loving FLR’. A dynamic where She has the final say, where She will dish out chores and assignments for him to fulfill, where She may bloom in Her divine femininity, and he will support Her all the way.
If you have. How did you get started?

[Lu****]

So.
You want your girl to feel like a goddess. And you want to serve her yourself.
This is definitely a femdom relationship. At least from my perspective.
Finding an attractive woman who wants this is not easy.
Sponsorship usually comes into play.
One way or another.
Things may change a bit over time, but they don't have to. It's your risk.

And now the answer to your question:
The process is spread over several months.

You can start calling her your Mistress, Goddess. Gently.

In my opinion, and I've been down this road many times.
Hand her flowers and gifts on your knees.
The next step is to create a situation where you leave her decisions: for example, where to go on vacation. Etc.
During sex, have her sit on you: say, "I belong to you."
Little by little.
When she starts to suspect, I tell her I'm a bit perverted and finally, I send her a message with my favorite website. I now is hard.

Now the decision is made.
Accept or not...

But always remember:
She's doing this for you, if is not natural dominant.

Don't even try to *** anything on her!!!! This is definitieve way to lose everything.

It might be a sacrifice on her part. And it might take her a while to fully adjust to the new lifestyle.
And, Pretty quickly, you could start spending time in a dog crate, or occasionally sleeping on the floor next to bed.
Give her time to accept your needs.
Offer her ideas, photos.
But soft ,Neither you or she dont knows her limits.
Tell her that's how you see her. As your owner. Smile and show your submissiveness with those glazed eyes. Mayby one day, like she send her feet close to your face, to kiss.
I don't know difrent way. You can live a lie and become increasingly unhappy. Or open up and accept her decision...
Please don't treat this as a formula. Every woman is different. Personally, I'm tired of introducing new women's to the world of BDSM.
And self, now try, relationship with the addition of sponsorship with natural dominant women.
I wish you success.

I'd also love to read other comments. How others approach this.

[Lu****]

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[subjoe101]

This approach I took was to just start doing things for her that she likes. My wife loves pampering so I started offering to give her massages and baths. After a few weeks of this I talked to her about wanting to serve her and explained  how it would benefit her. I also gave her a book about FLR to read. That was 20+ years ago and we are still in a FLR .  I took it very slow in the beginning to allow he to learn and enjoy the experience. I think too many guys rush to all he kink and hardcore stuff, which often turns off women