What did I do wrong?

[sa****]

If he cant communicate with you then he's not mature enough to be a proper dome it sound like he was just living out a high school fantasy but like most if those tgay dont live up to the hipe you bild in your mind over it

[su****]

If he was kind & respectful of your boundaries before you told him, he should also have been afterwards.... He isn't entitled to push for what he wants..... Then manipulate by ghosting.... Submission is always earnt & given NOT taken for granted 💯💯🎯👌

[Do****]

Sounds like someone who says he is a Dom but doesn't understand how the world works yet. Trust like you talked about it's the foundation for everything else that happens. How can you trust somebody who didn't want to respect simple boundaries? Doms get their power from the subs. Simple as that. You can do better, find a Dom that's worthy of you.

[ab****]

19 hours ago, litsfits said:

UPDATE‼️
Firstly, thank you to everyone for your input, advice, pov, 2 cents, etc. After much thought and consideration, I firmly believe he has been pouting, as one person suggested, and that he is less experienced in the life than i am. I texted him a book last night asking him directly if he was ghosting or punishing me, more or less explaining how a true d/s dynamic is supposed to be prior to engaging, and the importance of him earning my trust as my life could literally be in his hands. He replied with an excuse of he's been sick 🙄 and asked if we are still on to hang out this weekend. I don't mind teaching a new Dom the ways so we shall see how this goes. If it doesn't work out maybe at least he'll be better prepared for his next sub. Thanks again all!

Most of this message is assumptions.
Dong let arrogance blind your "guessing"

[Ro****]

Don’t know the whole story but in my experience it seems like he was wearing a mask for the first half. Blatantly trying to push your clearly laid out boundary and then stone walling is pretty lame. I’d like to give the benefit of the doubt that MAYBE something came up. But I think it’s important that you take a step back and maybe put your energy into yourself until you either get an answer that satisfies you, or you consider yourself grateful you dodged a bullet. Good luck

[li****]

5 hours ago, absurdist said:

Most of this message is assumptions.
Dong let arrogance blind your "guessing"

You're absolutely right. It is all assumptions as communication has been lacking on his side. I have no desire or intention of being arrogant on the matter. I'm leaving things open until there is confirmation one way or the other.

[fl****]

You did fine, you spiraled a bit on his disappearance. Work on your negative core beliefs, you are enough. Don’t sweat the ghosts.