Rhuie Posted November 8, 2025 Some profiles I can spank while others require me to pay for a gift? What about the account determines whether its a gift or not?
Deleted Member Posted November 8, 2025 I didn’t know you had to pay to send a gift. I’ve had notifications that people have sent me “kinky gifts” and such but I just thought they were stickers or something?
Rhuie Posted November 8, 2025 Author 2 minutes ago, DYSY25 said: I didn’t know you had to pay to send a gift. I’ve had notifications that people have sent me “kinky gifts” and such but I just thought they were stickers or something? Hi, Thanks for your post. Sometimes they have free gifts to send but most cost points which are either earned by liking photos, etc OR paying for bulk points. Even with a paid subscription you sometimes need to spend points when spanking someone. In the browse section some profiles let you send a spank while others require you to send a "paid" gift. So it's either pay or "x" the profile. That is where my question came from. Why do some profiles require a paid spank while others do not?
ey**** Posted November 8, 2025 it's a feature which should be done away with basically if you fall outside of their filters, you require a 'gift' (which you pay for, with points or cash) and if you send that it bypasses their filter. Of course, I'm not sure how well received it'd be - given that you already fall out of their filters
Rhuie Posted November 8, 2025 Author 3 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said: it's a feature which should be done away with basically if you fall outside of their filters, you require a 'gift' (which you pay for, with points or cash) and if you send that it bypasses their filter. Of course, I'm not sure how well received it'd be - given that you already fall out of their filters Okay got it. Thanks for the explanation. So basically it is telling you the person you are thinking about sending it too is not looking for someone like you. Well, I'm glad that I chose the "X" on out of those people and moved on without burning points or cash.
Rhuie Posted November 10, 2025 Author So now the thing is, they like a photo of mine and give me a spank. I try to spank them back but I have to pay because "I'm not in their filters" except apparently I am because I got a like and a spank from them. The system should allow the return spank if they initiated. This site ....
ey**** Posted November 10, 2025 4 hours ago, Rhuie said: The system should allow the return spank if they initiated. yep, or perhaps if someone spanks you, that can permit you to message them.
su**** Posted January 31 Where does one set the "requirements' for what determines who needs to send a gift? It must be more than the roles you pick and what you’re looking for…. Because I’m a submissive man and have said I’m looking for a dominant woman for everything from kinky dates to LTR, and yet I’ve clicked the “spank” button on a profile that seems to match, and I get back that I have to send a gift. Which is fine - that’s their right. But now I’m wondering if anyone is trying to “spank” me and gets turned away because of something I’ve not set properly.
ey**** Posted January 31 3 hours ago, subonthebeach said: Where does one set the "requirements' for what determines who needs to send a gift? It must be more than the roles you pick and what you’re looking for…. Because I’m a submissive man and have said I’m looking for a dominant woman for everything from kinky dates to LTR, and yet I’ve clicked the “spank” button on a profile that seems to match, and I get back that I have to send a gift. Which is fine - that’s their right. But now I’m wondering if anyone is trying to “spank” me and gets turned away because of something I’ve not set properly. filter is here https://www.fetish.com/settings/notification/filter They can spank regardless.
su**** Posted February 1 Oh, thanks... and I see this is the switch I specifically was looking for! https://www.fetish.com/settings/poke
Kf**** Posted February 1 I actually feel so bad if a man spends his points on sending me gift. A lot of times I don’t get a notification that I’ve been sent one and to be honest it does not affect if I’ll send that person a message or not. I wish there was a way to turn off receiving them. I’d rather guys save their point to get an upgraded account.
Le**** Posted April 3 The longer I use this app the more I feel I’m being taken for a ride. It’s not only feeling like a built in scam when it won’t let you contact a lot of the profiles you like without paying in some way, I’ve found the vast, vast majority of my messages are never even read let alone replied to. I’m not convinced lots of profiles are even real. Almost like they’re fake and designed just to get you to pay to try to contact them. I’ve tried every which way; being polite/funny/chill. Literally none replies and it’s making me feel like I’m going insane.
Deleted Member Posted April 6 I am getting more of send a gift now. To not even verified accounts. Wth was the point in paying for yet another *** grabbing app. Sigh
jo**** Posted April 9 Yeah agreed, my girl and I have met up with 1 person, and it was a great time but ever since barely get a response, if I can like or message an acct to begin with. Seems like >75% will not allow comments, mailbox messages, can’t see likes so like you all have said what is the point. I have always done well with women, still do, wife is hot and gets plenty of offers in person, but not on this app, we get nothing unless the person is asking for $$$, or two days after being messaged their account has been suspended or on hold pending verification
Deleted Member Posted April 9 Well I am glad it's not just me then. I won't be renewing, then will abandon the app after. It's not worth it. I am finding all these apps are $ grabs.
Stallingfoot Posted Thursday at 02:06 AM (edited) fuck, I forgot I cant delete messages Edited Thursday at 02:07 AM by Stallingfoot
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