traditional housewife

[De****]

Background/Context: So Daddy and I have been together for quite some time and now we are venturing towards collaring. I asked Daddy if he would train me to be his "good little house slut" (on top of being a traditional housewife) and to serve him in any way he wants. He agreed but he we es the thing. I get confused easily and making changes is hard for me. So we are starting small amd implementing changes a little at a time until they stick, right? The new thing we are working on is what he would like to see done before he wakes up each morning.

Discussion: If your submissive, traditional housewife approached you with this question...what would you're response be? What are some other rules would you implement? What would that role look like to you?

[co****]

If he's still asleep and your awake wake him up with a blow job

[Ri****]

If you all sleep naked you could wake him up with a morning bj the cook breakfast

[my****]

My answer,”I’ve been training you the whole time.”

Things I like done in the morning? My lunch packed for work. The shower free, and laundry in my closet or drawers. The bed is made everyday, unless we’re in it.

For your confusion problem I’d have a dry erase board on a string. If you forgot something you’d have to write it on the board and would wear the board around your neck on a string for up to a week at a time while at home.

Hope this helps.

[Da****]

The first thing I would do is sit down and put together a daily routine set of expectations based on day of the week and the rhythm of your lives. Then put a simple chart together on the wall that summarizes them. 

Reminders and rein***ment are the MOST important thing you can do when establishing a new routine. I tend to function in a DDlg dynamic, so it's stickers and simple rewards and punishment for failure. 

My first expectation would be ONE kinky thing for each phase of the day - Start / Middle / End. Mostly because doing ONLY one thing a day makes it too easy to not be paying enough attention without overdoing it.

An example would be:

Morning - Start the day with his cock in your mouth
Afternoon - A dirty text message/pic/vid while he is at work
Night - Rub yourself on the couch or in bed telling him all the dirty thoughts you had during the day

Best of luck

[Deleted Member]

I prefer written rules in a contract. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Mine are the basics of cooking, cleaning, looking good (having *** to pamper self), be able to wear outfits that make me feel good around the house after cleaning and such, keeping things organized, and noticing if things need his attention. But, I’m also a goofball and like to make/have my own ***, so there’s details like that which would have to be in place.

[Ch****]

44 minutes ago, mythicalman said:

My answer,”I’ve been training you the whole time.”

Things I like done in the morning? My lunch packed for work. The shower free, and laundry in my closet or drawers. The bed is made everyday, unless we’re in it.

For your confusion problem I’d have a dry erase board on a string. If you forgot something you’d have to write it on the board and would wear the board around your neck on a string for up to a week at a time while at home.

Hope this helps.

This is helpful.

Lists are great. Start with the thing you really want to do. I understand that you'll likely want to do anything asked of you but I mean something that sparks joy for you. Add to it something you like less and/or might forget. By bonding the 2 tasks together you may be more likely to remember the second one. Do them in whatever order you 2 decide on. Try to keep the next tasks you add in order after the first.
If praise helps you remember/be more comfortable/etc and your Daddy likes to give praise then build it in and lean into it heavily at the start and when more are added. This gives a dopamine hit to thw brain and rein***s learning.
Naturally, adapt the advice for what works for you.
Hooe this helps.

[Mr****]

All great questions and answers. It's totally based on each guy.

Does he drink coffee in the morning?
Does he like to have sausages, eggs and toast for breakfast?
Does he have time or care for a BJ in the morning?

Maybe he just wants his work clothes laid out for him so he can kick ass the next day.

[va****]

Every Hard working daddy appreciates a packed lunch with drinks and snacks. Not everyone likes to have fast food for lunch. We appreciate the thoughtfulness and hard work our little puts into packing a lunch. It doesn’t have to be anything extravagant. Simple sandwich, chips, maybe some fruit. And I promise you. He’ll love it.

[th****]

3 hours ago, RigelVenus said:

If you all sleep naked you could wake him up with a morning bj the cook breakfast

lunch prepared, then rubbing yourself up against me so that I can fill you up in the morning and stay there for a little bit. And breakfast anything while I take a shower

[de****]

Maybe try a no clothes apron only greeting after he comes back, get him to sit, relax and service him, ie, blowjob, foot rub, beer and sit where he wants you to😏etc. Something that makes him feel like a dom in full.🤷🏽‍♂️

[No****]

Good suggestions. Also super jelly but i also love my job. I would make lists, put things in google calendar that are his needs at times almost like alarms, … definately feed him good food and keep the vegetable warm lol. If he needs his alone man time let him even if it feels lonely. I would use any extra time walking, working out .. making sure u feel and look sexy ;)

[DarkArts1066]

There are some really thoughtful ideas coming through here.

My personal thoughts are these:

If you know your Daddy well, you’ll know the things he likes, and the things that are important to him.

So, for example, the ‘stand outs’ from comments above would be simple things which make His life easier and more pleasant.

Having work clothes laid out for the following day. (You may have to consult with him about what is acceptable for that particular day.

Is he a ‘Morning’ or ‘Evening’ person when it comes to sex ?
I would find a morning BJ frustrating, because afterwards, I would want to stay in bed and enjoy the moment !

However, when I come home at night, an “assisted” shower, with a sensual HJ between your soapy breasts - or that BJ, would be heavenly… followed later in the evening -after dinner, by you dressing in something you know I like, and touching yourself, whilst telling me about all the naughty thoughts you’ve had, while I was out at work.

That would then help me decide how the evenings carnal pleasures would manifest themselves… and I would be able to give you the attention that you crave.

Other things like making our shared bed everyday would also be -and are important to me.

Most importantly though, give thought to His needs and desires, and He will, no doubt, return that attention.

[Pa****]

I've been looking for a sub to make a house wife as well. I would definitely have a schedule with directions. Either on paper, digital, you could do a chalk board wall with the chalk board ***t stuff. White board etc. I would want my sub to be my alarm clock, wake me up giving me a bj and then I would have tasks for her afterwards like make coffee and breakfast etc.

[Tr****]

Well since you're already mommy daddy and connected for 15 years why not just find maybe one hour to live out the DS and make that like the best hour ever because I'm pretty sure as a mother you have very little time for the DS part so just try to find one good hour everyday or several times a week to fulfill your needs with the DS part of your life.
See if you can find a babysitter or someone to take over the mommy daddy part of the responsibilities just for that one hour so you can really enjoy yourself and yourselves.
Because I'm pretty sure you're an awesome and amazing lady and mother You just need that one hour to be that totally subservient person and allow him to be that dominating person you need as your duo.
So maybe just trying to schedule in some you and Daddy time 🎉❤️‍🔥🎊