For anyone in a power-exchange dynamic

[te****]

Dom, sub, switch, caregiver, brat, rope bottom, rigger, whatever your lane….what’s one need, boundary, or intention you wish more people in the kink community talked about openly…
but rarely gets brought up?

[Ki****]

I love pregnant women, but knowing the dynamics of a pregnancy, its obviously something thats super rare. I even believe the women that are open to it, Steve to cautious to even post it. Whether for shaming reason from others or maybe insecurity? IDK just throwing it out there because when I do mention this fetish of mine to friends lots of them hate their body unfortunately or there male partner won't sleep with them neither while pregnant. 

[Mi****]

Nobody should take any role before talking clearly and openly about them

[submissiveVIKING]

Support & self discipline when a dynamic ends abruptly..... Going from the discipline & CG to doing it yourself.... Aimed at submissives, but not exclusively

[Se****]

The fact that everybody’s gotta start somewhere but even just tying somebody up, you really have to know where to do it or not to do it for how long to do it, etc. etc. Most people think oh you’re just tying people up and whipping them there’s a lot more involved than that, including a lot of knowledge about the body.

[Qu****]

Training is something that isn't discussed nearly enough. People should take classes even something fairly simple as impact. Knowing where to hit, how to identify how much is to much, and safety concerns should come before picking up a toy. Then there's the people who think they can light someone on fire or choking because they've seen it done before... no you really need to understand why & how before you step into the deep end.

[Si****]

Some have no sense of nuance & poorly understand anticipation. The link between the strike & the pleasure lies in the anticipation between the moment from strike to pleasure. It takes time to rewire the mind to transfer the P@in of the strike to pleasure, the varied cadence & rhythm of the strike is crucial. 

[Deleted Member]

How blindly and openly subs are willing to submit to a Dom(me) before any dynamics are discussed or consent is even given as well as the reversed. Dom(me)s willingness to engage or entertain these dynamics are predatory at best.