Play With Purpose: How Games on FET Make Kink More Fun

At FET, we believe exploration should be playful. Whether you're here to connect, discover, or dive deeper into your desires, we've built more than just a dating space—we’ve created a kinky playground.

We know that fun sparks connection. That curiosity and chemistry don’t just start with a swipe. That’s why we’ve woven in a series of engaging, cheeky, and totally consensual games that let you explore your kinks while having a damn good time.

Here’s your guide to FET’s top games and challenges—a mix of pleasure, personality, and pure kinky fun.

Photo Challenges: Strike a pose, show some sass

Want to share your vibe, your look, or your latest fantasy without saying a word? That’s where Photo Challenges come in.

Every two weeks, we post a new prompt in the Newsfeed—think mood, theme, or cheeky visual cue—and invite you to get creative. You snap a photo that captures the theme, upload it, and join a visual celebration of self-expression.

It’s both a competition and not (because we’re so not about judgment)—it’s a celebration of authenticity, body confidence, and kinky creativity. Whether you're shy or showy, every image is an invitation to express who you are in your own style.

Follow the photo challenge rules, get points for each photo you submit, and sneek a peak into the creative display of your fellow kinksters. When the challenge ends, the winners get a special gift! 

Treasure Hunts: A kinky quest across FET

Ready to play detective? Meet our Treasure Hunt—a community-wide game of discovery that turns everyday browsing into a thrilling adventure.

Here’s how it works: once every two months, we release 24 hidden icons across the FET Universe. Each icon is tied to a theme (think Carnival, PRIDE, or Spanksgiving). Your mission? Find them all before the final day of the event.

Every time you spot and tap an icon, you:

• Collect it in your Treasure Chest
• Earn 30 points
• Share your progress in the Treasure Hunt Forum

It’s not just about finding all 24 pieces—it’s about playing together. Share clues (no spoilers, please), gift pieces to players who need a boost, and get noticed for your generosity and team spirit.

And yes, there are real rewards:

• Exclusive access to a BDSM Training School course
• 3-month VIP subscriptions
• Points to spend however you like

Our winners aren’t just the fastest—they’re the most playful, generous, and engaged kinksters in the game.

The hunt lasts 24 days. One new icon drops daily. So keep your eyes peeled—you never know where the next clue might pop up.

BDSM Test: Know thy kinky self

Some games aren’t about winning. They’re about discovery. And the BDSM Test is where many FET journeys begin.

Think of it as your kinky personality quiz—a way to map your preferences, roles, limits, and curiosities. The test is short, insightful, and totally private. And once you finish it, you’ll unlock your personal BDSM profile.

You might be:

• A rigger or a rope bunny
• A master/mistress or a slave
• A degrader or a degradee
• A sadist or a masochist
• A caregiver or a little
• A brat tamer or a brat
• A hunter or prey
• A pet owner or a pet

The BDSM Test doesn't put you in a box—it opens a door. It shows you where you are now, while leaving room to grow, adapt, and evolve.

Even better? You can:

• See how your results match with other kinksters
• Add your profile to your public page (if you choose to)
• Use your results to filter compatible partners

And if you’re still figuring yourself out? That’s normal. The test isn’t a final word—it’s a starting point. And retaking it later can be just as revealing.

Why we play: Connection through curiosity

So why do we take games so seriously here at FET?

Because they’re fun, first of all. But also because they:

• Help break the ice in playful, non-awkward ways
• Encourage authentic expression without pressure
• Spark conversations around real preferences and desires
• Promote community engagement, not just private DMs
• Turn discovery into a shared experience

In a world where dating apps can feel like a grind, our games are designed to help you enjoy the journey. They’re a reminder that kink is about connection—not just contact.

And for those who are shy? Games give you a way in. You don’t have to send the perfect message or have a 10/10 profile pic. Just participate. Post a photo. Hunt an icon. Take the test. Every tap counts.

Ready to Play?

The next challenge could start tomorrow. Your next match might be waiting in a forum thread. And your next self-discovery moment? It could be one tap away.

Get curious. Get cheeky. Get involved.

Keep it kinky,
Your FET Team