Aftercare as a sub

[Ga****]

I like taking care of others and it brings me joy to be there for someone, so i suppose in these situations i may take solace and joy in the care i give

[le****]

Whitelie is so correct tapping into trust is key but also clarifying and using action to bolster that connection of trust can be a way to stregthen that bond.an example of which is if one is feeling depresive after a scene about ones self worth a dom can give care with hugs and to help them see that what they give is valuable to the dom and show how symbiotic that connection is often after a scene clearly bye knkwing your sub properly littke things of bringing them a reward for there openness.*** or humilation are things where this can be key i have used a sub as a footstool and so they understand that what they do brings value afterwards i told them there a good footstool that my legs are now well rested thanks to them.and then give them a hug and sometimes a food reward or an item of comfort to show care and that what they are is valuble and that what they do indeed has lots of worth