Guidance for facesitting

[Oj****]

So to our surprise it has been more difficult to meet women with a general interest in facesitting then we thought, I understand the dynamic of ours is abit different for most but is there a reason why it’s so difficult? No hate please we are just confused.

What are your experiences or tips for finding like-minded people for specific preferences such as facesitting?

[Sp****]

From looking for women with that fetish, it seems more women with interests in contact sports like the fetish for other women it seems that they *** a risk of suffocation or may deem the act too passive.

[Sq****]

Did you make an ad?
It is a bit different. Not impossible. Sometimes it just takes patience, especially when it's nitch.
For a few reasons it's exponentially hard to get a second woman is than it is to get a second male involved. You're already looking for a unicorn.

[Ja****]

I’m in the same boat in trying to find someone to facesit me but in the experience I’ve found it’s best to have a clear understanding of what you’re wanting and what they want with it as well.

[ep****]

Are you clear in what you want? Is it face sitting fun or femdom? I have a switch friend who has this fetish. I’d think a femdom would be harder to find than someone who shares your interests and wants to join. Are you after ongoing? With one or many? Do you know your boundaries? Theirs? Maybe find a club to meet and network a wider group of local kinksters. Places and Events are advertised in here. Being a couple is fine as far as I’m concerned, so others feel the same.
Good luck in your search.

[Tw****]

This isn't meant as a joke. And is useless if you want the same person each time.

Every single time I've had my face sat on. I looked them dead in their eyes. And without emotion just said "sit on my face" and within about an hour they were there... Squatting above me, ready to drop. I would consider face sitting as kind of vanilla unless I just attracted all the kinky ones? Most were girls in clubs and bars if that helps. About a 50/50 success rate and the ones who don't just think you're trying to be funny instead of serious.

[al****]

Join your local Kink Community. You'll meet more people and friends that can help you. Just like vanilla friends who try to hook you up with someone they know. They'll do the same in the community. Remember, it's a Marathon not a race

[ey****]

the answer is the same as in many other scenarios

there is presently no incentive for them.

Like what is in it for you, someone to ultimately help you with a fantasy.  What is in it for them? Being used for someone else's fantasy

 

[je****]

Most just don't know how to ride

[Oj****]

Tried to reply to all in this one comment, hope I didn’t miss anyone ☺️

Would love to go to events and communities but none in our area are any good for our age bracket, all of the ones here are of an older community not suited for us as we are only interested in connecting with people around our age. 😔😘

To another that commented has obviously just assumed we have no interest in doing anything for other people, saying there is no incentive and assuming the other person wouldn’t be getting anything from it is a ridiculous thing to assume. We are going into this wanting everyone to be happy and satisfied with the experience. So this is not an issue so please don’t assume. 😘

We aren’t really interested in just picking someone up at a club or bar as it’s very unlikely to create an ongoing situation that way but appreciate the tip lovely. 😘

We have made an ad but no traction.

As we are still new to this we are still figuring out what we want to experience, hence why we say to chat and let us know what your into as we are open to exploring more obviously, still just learning.

[Sq****]

55 minutes ago, jersey621971 said:

Most just don't know how to ride

Well... One is sitting. One is not. That's comparing two entirely different sports...

[Oj****]

Didn’t realise I could reply directly to each comment 😂😂 see new to this 😂😂