Confession

[Th****]

I've been a Dom since I was young. Been considering exploring my...softer side.. advice in this department?

[St****]

^^ well that’s not helpful. I do agree that the whole point of the life style is to safely explore all aspects of yourself and your partner. I’m a Dom as well but sometimes submit to my Domme. It’s a fun game we play where we constantly try to out each other into subspace.

The point I am trying to make is. There is nothing wrong with exploring. As a long term Dom you should be comfortable with this idea. Find a partner that makes you feel safe and want to be soft.

Not sure if you meant softer side as sub or soft Dom but either path requires good communication of expectations and a partner that will help you navigate it.

[Ey****]

Try anything really that your not the one in power, only when you feel safe of course.

[Sq****]

That's incredibly vague and without context.

[al****]

Well, to be public is to allow everyone to comment on this. You got people who don't sugarcoat things and others that will. Just read everything and take what you want from it.

At the end of the day it's your lifestyle and kink

[de****]

Just go for it, preferably with someone you can trust. Have fun while your at it. What I would recommend is carefully considering what youd like to experience and vocalize it to any potential partners. Reaching out to the community can be scary at first for the above situation. So take it all with a Crain of salt amd hopefully you come back with a kinky tale.

[ey****]

I was going to make a suggest, but it was based on an assumption - and that is if you'd been involved in a local community that there was every chance of there being someone you can discuss with who knows you

but then this brings me to another assumption - when you say "softer side" do you mean a softer Domination style... or... exploring activities associated with submission?

[Th****]

Find someone whom you trust and who will be patient while you explore this side of you. Just go for it.

[BD****]

Within limits, discussed between the two of you, your Sub and you should just discuss what you’d like to try. Safe words. Safe words for up, down, harder, faster, deeper, less deep, and so on. This will ultimately strengthen your bond but also unlock new kinks for the both of you as well. Be safe and stay kinky.

[BD****]

I was just giving some general input. Not trying to guess your kinks. There’s rarely I a kink I’m not into. I’d be happy to discuss this as a fellow Dom, never really had a friend to talk to about these things. New here. Etc. I’m respectful and honest. That’s all I can offer.

[CaraVirt]

I have removed several posts due to personal attacks and inappropriate language, as well as related responses.
You are welcome to discuss different points of view—even controversial ones. But please always remain objective and respectful.

Greetings, Carmen - FET Team