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Im confused...you said, all the old people are just rude and wanna sit in their caves and kepping their secrets. Sooo, do you want to play with us, or not? If we are not what you are looking for, whats the problem? Read more…
This is a text book example of what so many have said...people take awful approaches, think lashing out is alpha or something, apply anecdotal evidence to conclude everyone else either agrees or is causing the problem despite plenty of evidence offered to the contrary, silos those that disagree into an age band to discount, then gets feelz when that group doesn't feel the need to olay nice anymore. Never once gazing upon a mirror and asking "do i have recurring issues with both personal and societal relationships where I find others to blame for myriad reasons for lack of connection, then lash out when it's pointed out to me?'

I'm also curious why a straight vanilla profile is ever on here, but most of those are bots .

As to the criticism of the women on this app has been great for me. I've met some great people . Telling a new person you are going to brutalize them, regardless of their kinks, without them even Read more… knowing your name, is a non starter. A friend I met early here was having some health problems and wasn't thrilled with the site, either. But that's because her message box was Superfund toxic. She gave me her login and said "have fun.". I knew it'd be bad, but I had no idea how deluded many guys are in this kind that can jump into the box of someone identifying as sub and just start threatening brutal *** *** or *** without knowing their name or anything .

Guys, the bar is set low. If you are a decent person with something to offer, just be honest and act like you care about something other than getting laid or finding someone to hit, then actually feel that way. You'll find being a person goes a long way. Ive had some failures , too, but I'm pretty sure none would characterize me as being rude or diminishing of others...some things just aren't right. There are a lot of bots, but if you arent expecting beyond your capability, you can find plenty of people . Just talk for a while. Just because the site is if a sexual nature doesn't mean the kickoff has to be explicit in nature

Not lifestyle related but yes, a horrible break up led to a 25+year marriage. It is possible. But you'll know early on

First time finally with a girl from a summer photography class I was taking for art credit in college. Skin was the photo topic and she believed in maximizing the potential. After a steamy photo shoot in her shower where she went farther than she initially indicated dropping her towel. She then Read more… gave me her camera and took down my pants and told me to take pics of her giving oral as it was really hard back then (that's what she said) to get dirty photos of yourself. And since we had nearly unlimited dark room time bc it was summer, and we developed our own, she saw an opportunity. Camera eventually down, we are fucking missionary and kissing and I felt the slip...slide .. and my three tooth cap (my front 6 are capped 3 and 3 from taking a ball in the mouth while pitching in baseball) that runs from my eye toot to front tooth had slipped off into her mouth

Horrified. She took it well and I got return visits. But it was over that day and I thought I gonna die of embarrassment.

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🤠 elaborate

Elaborate... I wish I had more of an explanation. It showed up like a phrase at the bottom of the screen like when you're doing predictive text or it gives you automated Read more… responses and I guess my finger clipped it it came back and saw it and I couldn't delete it but I've never seen that here...again like a already pre-determined response. A delete button would have been nice

The tub

And I've been told my growl or rumble, best heard in the morning, is sexy so I try to send vms when I can

Yes. And I have made small voice files of the sexiest vms and voices that reside I my secured filesfit moments when I could use a lift. It's an elite voice that makes that mixtape!

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I'll clear up your questions since I was the one who suggested the story idea in the first place. As you said, no two in any dynamic will do anything the same, but in THIS instance, it is representing a dynamic me and my Dom Read more… maintain in and out of the home. Conversation is whatever we want it to be, even non-verbal. I'm not afraid of ruining the night because the whole thing is meant to strengthen our connection and get us tuned in to each other's needs on a deeper level. You are right- the author did a phenomenal job of showing that delicious tension. It's very refreshing to read something written by a man, from a female POV, and written well. I'm looking forward to the next installment

Thank you. I can see how, on certain occasions, that could be delicious but also does me good to hear it switches up to conversational sonitncan endure , as i imagine no sub would want to be mute (or few... not yucking someone else's yum).

I guess I ask the others in the D/s full lifestyle since the author takes offense when his writing stirs up interest and curiosity...when out to, say dinner, is there a maintaining of discipline and most notably in examples like his where the date is also doubling as a lesson in desire and an Read more… active sexual play? Would nights like that result in a kind of speak when spoken to dynamic, and I my in these more overtime sexual night adventures or whenever in public? I know no 2 will be the same, but is it common that those dynamics don't follow as public displays in vanillaville, or are you maintaining home dynamics at the restaurant?

Genuinenly curious , and in part because the writing was so vivid I could feel that tension. Don't let the author know that, though ...oddest exchange I've had here. But genuinely, is there a most common practice for outings into the world, or is it generally but carried that far. You could feel her breathe in that story and the tension was palpable.

I'll think when I want. I make it clear your writing stirred up a question I had for those in that lifestyle. Curiosity. I don't apologize for that , especially when i go to great lengths to make it clear I'm not criticizing the writing. Maybe dont immediately get riled up by anything beyond Read more… "that's great".bid think you'd take it as a compliment...I mean beside the actual compliments I meant but wish now I'd swallowed..that your work ushers lifestyle questions

Jeez..I actually said "mines more jumping off of this well written story into that real world .."

How could you take offense at that? I knew I made the distinction but I all but slobbered over the writing. Jesus ..

:1782905314,7599746, Well obviously its a shorty story not a novel so dialog is a distraction and not needed for the essence of the story. If u noticed they only began to eat their dinner after he pleased her. So obvious lly there is more. Also sometimes silence can add to Read more… the intrigue because I allows the subs mind to go into overdrive. but hey go on critiquing a fake fantasy a even bad criticism is still helpful when deciding how im going to write the next one.

I took great care to separate that , to praise the wilting and talk that it is not possible to cover in a snapshot. Did I not?

:1782905314,7599746, Well obviously its a shorty story not a novel so dialog is a distraction and not needed for the essence of the story. If u noticed they only began to eat their dinner after he pleased her. So obvious lly there is more. Also sometimes silence can add to Read more… the intrigue because I allows the subs mind to go into overdrive. but hey go on critiquing a fake fantasy a even bad criticism is still helpful when deciding how im going to write the next one.

Please don't take it as a knock on your writing. You are providing a snapshot. It just opens other questions I have