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Elaborate... I wish I had more of an explanation. It showed up like a phrase at the bottom of the screen like when you're doing predictive text or it gives you automated Read more… responses and I guess my finger clipped it it came back and saw it and I couldn't delete it but I've never seen that here...again like a already pre-determined response. A delete button would have been nice

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And I've been told my growl or rumble, best heard in the morning, is sexy so I try to send vms when I can

Yes. And I have made small voice files of the sexiest vms and voices that reside I my secured filesfit moments when I could use a lift. It's an elite voice that makes that mixtape!

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I'll clear up your questions since I was the one who suggested the story idea in the first place. As you said, no two in any dynamic will do anything the same, but in THIS instance, it is representing a dynamic me and my Dom Read more… maintain in and out of the home. Conversation is whatever we want it to be, even non-verbal. I'm not afraid of ruining the night because the whole thing is meant to strengthen our connection and get us tuned in to each other's needs on a deeper level. You are right- the author did a phenomenal job of showing that delicious tension. It's very refreshing to read something written by a man, from a female POV, and written well. I'm looking forward to the next installment

Thank you. I can see how, on certain occasions, that could be delicious but also does me good to hear it switches up to conversational sonitncan endure , as i imagine no sub would want to be mute (or few... not yucking someone else's yum).

I guess I ask the others in the D/s full lifestyle since the author takes offense when his writing stirs up interest and curiosity...when out to, say dinner, is there a maintaining of discipline and most notably in examples like his where the date is also doubling as a lesson in desire and an Read more… active sexual play? Would nights like that result in a kind of speak when spoken to dynamic, and I my in these more overtime sexual night adventures or whenever in public? I know no 2 will be the same, but is it common that those dynamics don't follow as public displays in vanillaville, or are you maintaining home dynamics at the restaurant?

Genuinenly curious , and in part because the writing was so vivid I could feel that tension. Don't let the author know that, though ...oddest exchange I've had here. But genuinely, is there a most common practice for outings into the world, or is it generally but carried that far. You could feel her breathe in that story and the tension was palpable.

I'll think when I want. I make it clear your writing stirred up a question I had for those in that lifestyle. Curiosity. I don't apologize for that , especially when i go to great lengths to make it clear I'm not criticizing the writing. Maybe dont immediately get riled up by anything beyond Read more… "that's great".bid think you'd take it as a compliment...I mean beside the actual compliments I meant but wish now I'd swallowed..that your work ushers lifestyle questions

Jeez..I actually said "mines more jumping off of this well written story into that real world .."

How could you take offense at that? I knew I made the distinction but I all but slobbered over the writing. Jesus ..

:1782905314,7599746, Well obviously its a shorty story not a novel so dialog is a distraction and not needed for the essence of the story. If u noticed they only began to eat their dinner after he pleased her. So obvious lly there is more. Also sometimes silence can add to Read more… the intrigue because I allows the subs mind to go into overdrive. but hey go on critiquing a fake fantasy a even bad criticism is still helpful when deciding how im going to write the next one.

I took great care to separate that , to praise the wilting and talk that it is not possible to cover in a snapshot. Did I not?

:1782905314,7599746, Well obviously its a shorty story not a novel so dialog is a distraction and not needed for the essence of the story. If u noticed they only began to eat their dinner after he pleased her. So obvious lly there is more. Also sometimes silence can add to Read more… the intrigue because I allows the subs mind to go into overdrive. but hey go on critiquing a fake fantasy a even bad criticism is still helpful when deciding how im going to write the next one.

Please don't take it as a knock on your writing. You are providing a snapshot. It just opens other questions I have

Well written but this is where my brain always short circuits in these lifestyle D/s stories...it is clear the dynamic here carries into public , where she is ***ful of breaking a rule and "ruining" the night, and the only interaction provided are growling affirmations from him. S nervous utterance Read more… from her, and an internal dialogue we read that shows she is nervous and also in a constant state of submissiveness and thinking of whether he is pleased. Ok, In snapshots. I follow. But from car entry to end of dinner and return, they have been together for, what, 2 hours? What the hell do they talk about? It's certainly not offered in this snapshot. But mine's more jumping more literal off of this well written story into that real world ...what sustains this relationship? In this dynamic, is this not really accurate or the regular equal exchange of ideas on the news of the day or their upcoming plans just removed for the purpose of the entertaining storyline? How does that work in real life, if there is not more?

Always wake up, be woke. The alternative is being asleep, never changing, nor paying attention. Dom, sub...whatever. constantly be woke, questioning norms, seeing if there is a better way, all while respecting the autonomy of others. The definition of woke

:1781376367,7556557, All due respect thus question makes no sense. Have you ever been in love? If you truly love someone you wouldn't even think about it. People throw around the word love entirely too much if you've ever loved you know what I mean. It's not even a thought. Read more…
disagree. There are people who can compartmentalize and truly love someone to the core but have capacity for some surface level of intimacy for others. SImilarly, you can, as I mentioned above, enter into your life with someone both solidly vanilla but over 20 or 30 years, one or the other finds a real interest in fetish/BDSM and the other has not grown that way. You don't stop loving that person. You just realize you can't do the things you really want to experience with them because to leverage your love to get them to do something they do not enjoy is manipulative, but you have to find out what it is all about. I think there is a form of ethical cheating in this scenario...but the ethical lies largely on the person to not expose their mate to the *** and embarassment of finding out...so no affairs, no emotional ties. You can revel in the physical discovery without losing love for someone else. I don't advocate that path, but I understand there is somewhere between monogomy and affaris of intimacy/heart where it is reduced to sex only that might be the release for someone in that situation who has no desire to leave their mate but is becoming consumed with this other form of sexuality that they simply cannot get at home. It might be better to run a closed shop/loop search for that experience, maybe even professional only, than to come blow up your marriage AND your spouses marriage and life for being incompatible. Think of the damage you are causing there for "honesty".
Love and sex go hand in hand, but love and interest in forms of sex don't necessarily meet. There's no one way to approach it. I know what i would and would not do. But more importantly, I'm not going to judge someone who takes those steps. If they fail to execute properly, they will suffer the consequences. It's not up to me to offer more.