:1778665943,7404205, They don't go together because you're right. A true D/s relationship requires trust, and trust and authority is earned. You don't earn that without at least a few strings. Boundaries, communication, hard stops, etc all of those equate to strings. Nobody Read more… wants to share toys with someone else unless they enjoy bladder infections and inhaling antibiotics all the time, so that alone requires strings.

But that excludes major portions of the question... Can NSA be compatible with kink (certainly) and Kink/bdsm, which can include both and be NSA for sessions of bdsm play rather the. Living the lifestyle 24)7, which is agree isn't compatible with NsA . But NSA is not ONS

You can connect and be no strings attached. You can repeat with someone and still be NSA. You can become fantastic sexual buddies with someone and still be NSA.

There's always one beta alpha per thread playing tough guy. Not understanding we all know someone with true control and power doesn't worry about saying so

Like everything related to communication, it totally depends on the communicator and the receiver

It's my favorite thing to do. I prefer it to even having oral performed on me. It's somethibg I can stand out with from other lovers. I have largely average looks, body. I am confident in mind and personality and those are great enhancers. But it helps to have something physical that surprises Read more… your lovee the first time, the confide in friends skilk. Plus, and really shrinks the gap of becoming comfortable with somebody newer when you they to you or you to them are able to reduce the other two a kind of mess if you will. It's a great way to tear down the walls and become more intimate. My route there would be looked down upon as a power inequality, grooming, and workplace ***...my much older general manager of the restaurant I worked at in college, at this point 19, seduced me after considerable time of behind the scenes flirting. And by seduced I guess I mean she in the door Iabd got in the car. I marriage to maintain my employment and when things got back to super busy for me with school this is over a summer If we just fell out of it. But summer was a couple minutes a week and I was taught that I didn't know s*** about what I was doing. All the automatic judgments that come from that scenario, and I get it between age and power dynamics and work power mt dynamics... The flat out that was one of the best things ever happened for itme or to me. And from that I gained an anchor confidence that a young age in that particular act. I llove the challenge. It never fails to be the best moment when you provided that over the top moment of pleasure

a true switch impact play session. Sub for 30 minutes, Dom for 30 minutes. It's embracing the modalities without having the lifestyle D/s be the driver, necessarily. Turns out I entered as a sub, exited a Dom after the pro domnia I saw pointed out where I was really quite dominant in Read more… interactions and then as a friend taught me some tricks of the modalities of impact, but having a more D personality doesn't mean I didn't 100% love diving into subspace and reconciling the *** with the pleasure adn submitting (water sports, electro, and sounding too). I didn't lose my love of those feelings when I started D, and I did find that fit my personality far more, but in a session only environment. Some people are lifestyle 24/7...I really am about the actual kink of the play, and I think there has to be a woman who is the same. But it seems forbidden to say that, like it's an affront to the lifestyle, so it's been impossible to find..

i'm shocked at how little most guys take the time to develop their bio and infuse it with a tone that might draw someone, not demand it. Most have very little. Then you get the creative writing major guy who has waaayyy too much information and then you realize it isn;t a bio...it's an attempt to Read more… turn the reader into what they want. A great bio, quick response, friendly and flirly but PG compliments (that you mean) and why you are drawn to them (their profile, perhaps?)...gets you a long way in this world. Be a man, not a guy. If you are a Dom, you exude that...the BS beat their chest and tell you how alpha they are doms are all insecure messes. Try to avoid the topic of the room for a little bit in the communication. And be funny and inviting and human in your bio and interactions.
So many women crave just one guy who gets this...It really is the basis for almost all of the wonderful people I've met IRL from here. And alcohol has never ....once I met at a bar, but other than that alcohol has not been a part of any other meetings.

staged or role played intimacy. Where you are seeing someone very rarely or even just the once, but you each sell out and devote heart and mind to each other like long time lovers. Of course there needs to be some real connection, but this is for like a FWB or semi regular hook up on the Read more… DL...create those butterfllies like a first love...

:1776463441,7199398, I love the lemonheads Evan dando made me a believer in music. Lagwagon are probably my all time favorite. Joey Cape for life

i just without reading the comments said that Lagwagon has to be included given his likes. Read more… May 16 was my most played song on my music app...IN 2025! Absolute gem of 2nd wave US hardcore. Joey Raposo's bass is so vital to them keeping it fresh since he joined, and it's a natural trip then to head over to listen to some 1st wave RKL for his earlier band.

yes...I was working in Studant Radio when Nevermind dropped. I knew Bleach pretty well and played About a Girl on my show pretty often. On a Plain is also one of my favorites, along with Lounge Act and Territorial ***ings.
My background was 1st wave US hardcore, like Black Flag, Circle Jerks, Read more… DK, 7 Seconds...the Descendents, and then later 2nd wave stuff like Lagwagon, Dag Nasty (saw Field Day the last show before Covid, on leap year Feb 29...Field Day being what Dag calls themselves without Brian Baker) . I also came up with metal and pop metal, and it just seemed like Nirvana took the Beatles and Black Sabbath and crammed them together.

It was a crazy year, 1991. Go check how many diamond (10 million sold) US albums were released in that year.

Based on your songs there, I'd say if you aren't already knee deep in Lagwagon, you should be. And 7 Seconds, the other 1st wave melodic hardcore...

i've been both a gym bro and chubby at various times, and I've always liked a larger woman. It really doesn't have anything to do with my body, and I'm confident in being able to attract a fit body type if I want. I just don't always want. Bigger women always seem to have had to develop their Read more… personality more for sad reasons that are an indictment of our society. But it's real, and I love an outsized personality along with extra body. Both when I was ripped and less than.

when I stopped actively plotting what was next.

a storage unit set up for it. A couch in the middle of a NYE party that was not any kind of sexual theme.

yes. And no kink to it or ***. It was just new. Im 5'8" and most tall women won't consider a man who is shorter. I encouraged her to wear heels, boots, whatever. I[m with her...what do I care what someone else thinks