Sq**** Posted yesterday at 07:34 PM A reoccurring theme we encounter on newer individuals approaching us is being unsure of what they should actually put on their bio or limits or why their not getting any desired results delving into kink. Obviously everything is open to interpretation and subjective. But, I feel there's some basic standards that can be addressed to present yourself to be more appealing to whatever it is you're seeking. It would probably be beneficial for veteran members to drop some feedback on what they find appealing when browsing individual or some smaller things they see just being curious that could put them off from engaging with that user. Things I'll frequently address when someone ask for feedback or critique of their profile: • Having a profile picture relevant to what you're seeking or something more telling of your personality, it's the first thing people will notice. • Being verified is ideal. A lot of people will instinctively pass on unverified accounts, especially unverified couples. • "No limits" is a massive red flag to us, I've had this expressed in conversation with other members as well. It most certainly leaves a void on emphasis of safety. I always recommend that and at the very least acknowledge limitations on illegal activities if your open to most experiences • Being very detailed on your interest, in kink or hobbies about yourself. It shows you're applying yourself and it also helps you vet individuals on if they're even paying attention to you as a person over what they see. • Avoid wording things for expectations of instant gratification unless you want to be exactly that. Anything safe and worthwhile in this realm usually takes time and patience to build. • Spelling mistakes, one letter shortcuts. It happens, but your bio defines you and it is your first impression that will define you to anyone looking. Those are just examples for newbies to consider that may significantly help them stand out if they want to take their journey into this a little more seriously. I'm very curious to hear from other experienced members on what they feel is important to them on presentation!
Da**** Posted 19 hours ago Honestly being straightforward about what you’re looking for what your current dynamic is but i also feel like it’s practically useless because i’ve gotten people who have “viewed” my profile and send me a message we talk then they ask about my limits or if i’m married and that right there tells me they didn’t even care to actually read anything they more than likely to just see my pictures. So you definitely have to vet people but definitely put what you’re looking for even if just to explore
Sq**** Posted 19 hours ago Author 4 minutes ago, DarkCherry28 said: Honestly being straightforward about what you’re looking for what your current dynamic is but i also feel like it’s practically useless because i’ve gotten people who have “viewed” my profile and send me a message we talk then they ask about my limits or if i’m married and that right there tells me they didn’t even care to actually read anything they more than likely to just see my pictures. So you definitely have to vet people but definitely put what you’re looking for even if just to explore You're not wrong. The bulk of traffic is just blindly shooting their shot and looking for instant gratification. Unfortunately that factor will always remain, with experience comes more smoothly navigating and disregarding those people.
Da**** Posted 19 hours ago 1 minute ago, SquirrelandWrangler said: You're not wrong. The bulk of traffic is just blindly shooting their shot and looking for instant gratification. Unfortunately that factor will always remain, with experience comes more smoothly navigating and disregarding those people. I agree 100%
ey**** Posted 14 hours ago I feel one of the general issues... there's never a magic wand, but there are a lot of pitfalls. But yeah, have some form of profile pic (and not something stolen from web) and... don't write a profile off as a bucketlist or shopping list having something about non-kink interests is always kinda good as well as you need something to talk about and in common when not tying each other up and spanking I actually kinda hate the push to include limits - cos they're not exhaustive anyway and do get some people go ummmmmmm.... or feel they should be open minded.
Sq**** Posted 3 hours ago Author Apologies. App is giving issues on not posting, carrying on, then posting it anyway when it changes its mind. 😂
PresentisPeculiar Posted 2 hours ago 2 hours ago, SquirrelandWrangler said: 🤠 elaborate Elaborate... I wish I had more of an explanation. It showed up like a phrase at the bottom of the screen like when you're doing predictive text or it gives you automated responses and I guess my finger clipped it it came back and saw it and I couldn't delete it but I've never seen that here...again like a already pre-determined response. A delete button would have been nice
Sq**** Posted 2 hours ago Author 5 minutes ago, PresentisPeculiar said: Elaborate... I wish I had more of an explanation. It showed up like a phrase at the bottom of the screen like when you're doing predictive text or it gives you automated responses and I guess my finger clipped it it came back and saw it and I couldn't delete it but I've never seen that here...again like a already pre-determined response. A delete button would have been nice Fair enough. That's going around. A delete button would be great. 😂
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