What’s my Kink and do you guys have it too?

[sh****]

I’ve got the same kink 👌 Sometimes I prefer only mutual masturbation over straight up sex, because I find with sex it’s over too too soon for me. To watch, control, edge and take our time with each other is hot af! 🥵

[st****]

Teaching self masturbation is hot. I believe it can be done very well and done very poorly. You need to find a person you like but you since you aren’t ready to touch a man, video time is a great way like; snap video, FaceTime and so on. If you have other kinks that can also play into it, it can make it even hotter and more enjoyable.

[Jo****]

I have no idea if it's "normal" but it's definitely fucking HOT. I've never done it in person but I have given instructions by text and by video chat and it was VERY exciting for both of us 😈🥵

[bu****]

Layla. I dont know what the reasons are that make you not want to have PIV sex again, yet. I dont have to know. Its not my business. But... The simple fact you are wanting to masturbate in front of a man is telling me you are healing. Me, myself, would love to watch you masturbate. I think its HOTT. I would sit exact opposite across from you almost feet to feet and masturbate as well where we could look eye to eye if we wanted.. I would also watch and learn how you liked being touched to make yourself orgasm and I would mimic your movements with my, tongue, fingers, and sex toys of your choosing, if and when, you got to that point of wanting oral from me. Any man you choose should be delighted to be a part of your sexual kinks. Your masturbation/exhibitionism/voyeur is a part of your inner sexual lioness and how she feels and when she is getting ready to roar. Dont worry about not being ready. When the time is right, you will let your lioness out of her cage to run wild.
As far as your man (if you have one or when you get one), be up front and honest with him about what makes you the way you are and let him know how special he is to be getting the chance to be getting to know you in this way and if he starts to make you feel like he doesnt appreciate you and your kinky sexual lioness, you will kick him to the curb. Youre going to be alright. Things just take time. Everybody heals in their own time frame and everyone is different. Dont rush it. You will get back there.

[DirtyDaddyx]

Layla - there’s someone out there for everyone! By that I mean have your own expectations and desires and there will be someone who appreciates the same.

You have a great figure - someone (many people I’m sure!) would be very interested in watching and guiding you.

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[Deleted Member]

I would love to explore your body mind and soul lovely and eating you up queen

[SA****]

Ooooh....I have a lot of experience in this kink and I absolutely love it.

[Da****]

Used to do this with a girl I was seeing. Very hot and shoes that you and your partner can explore and cross a boundary or two. I’d love this dynamic again in a heartbeat!

[Vi****]

I love that kink and find extremely hot! I practice it as often as I can, and this usually part of the dynamic, in person or virtual. As a dom, if I see you starting to touch yourself, I will want to take control over and direct you, alternating stimulation, edging and over stimulation.

We are of course all different but I want to assume that most dom will be into it, with various nuances of course.

[Deleted Member]

Anyone who has been in a long distance relationship can agree it is very intimate and given its a boundary of yours, any respectful individual would be happy to engage i'm sure! It can give you and your partner a space to explore other kinks that won't cross your boundary too!

[Da****]

Well I love a woman watching me as I stroke this hard dick

[jo****]

Though this is not something I pursue for my pleasure, I have done this as part of a dynamic with a married sub that wanted to avoid PIV in an agreement with her husband to allow her to have a Dom. We shared the responsibility. Bringing her to orgasm entirely through my efforts or a ***d O with mechanical assistance was great for her, but it started with her showing me what works as I sat and “took notes.”

[C_****]

This is definitely a turn on for me. To watch a girl pleasure herself with or without directions is hot!! 🔥🔥

[Di****]

This is a common activity. As a Dom, Inwould enjoy the sense of power and control while guiding you through this and watching you. There are many ways to work around this and derivatives and offshoots from this. Your concerns about your limits being respected, shouldn't be concerns. Your partner should tak with you about limits and boundaries and respect them before you start a scene, and you should have a safe word. I would be into what you describe. Msg me if you would like to discuss it more.

[st****]

I have always admired and been mesmerized by women who seek to connect more deeply with their sexuality. Layla, I’ve been thrilled to help a woman to expand her fantasies and kinks without feeling a need to physically connect.
While my ultimate preference is women (of all sizes shapes ages etc) it’s amazing to help or champion anyone who likes mutually consenting masturbation. Solo for that matter.
I can weave almost any storyline to help someone, no matter the kink. I’m never going to judge or throw shade at someone’s pervs or taboos. Never.
What’s most important is that you feel comfortable in tapping into your sexuality. Life is too fleeting to reject someone who simply seeks support.
Some people are so swift to condemn and cancel your passions. They can take a powder for all I care.
I’m straight but have helped men get off even as at least two have had fantasies that in real life would have directly disparaged me.
Why did I help? Because as long as no one is being harmed against our wishes, we all need someone who will accept us, even if it’s to achieve release.

[ph****]

Dont do things you dont want to. Expecially for someone else. We are best able to support others when we take care of ourselves. But if you truly have that interist mutual masturbation is something that isnt all that uncommon. Im pretty open and completly non judgemental if youd like to talk more.

[mu****]

I think just pursue this online. In a video chat, the limits are already in place. Find a partner online and go nuts.

[Ba****]

Well this is the community for the deviant/abnormal so it almost doesn’t matter what you think may be how extreme if you gonna ask: have people tried X? It’s usually gonna be a:yes of course
But what you are asking about isn’t really just one thing
The questions you should ask yourself first in this case are: do you want to be on display to feel exposed and humiliated or do you want to feel safe and appreciated?? Do you want him to teach you to follow instructions or is it more about advertising your innocence??
I personally usually do something like this at the start of a relationship/dynamic to learn more about her, you know the whole „show me on this doll(your body) where you want the man to touch you“ type thing and later on for appreciation and/or *** usually involving orgasm control for edging purposes

[No****]

Please don’t do anything you don’t want to do in bed. It’s not important. Your piece of mind is by far the most important thing.

[Fr****]

It's a whole genre of porn. Joi

[Sa****]

Not somthing I personally have a kink for, but I can see and understand your attraction to it.
I'm not overly into being watched to masturbate, tho I of course it it... But I obvs enjoy watching a woman... Telling her how to... Yeah I think that would be appeling.

[Deleted Member]

Personally I think mutual masturbation is hot as fuck.

[ty****]

It’s called mutual masturbation and it’s a great way to connect and have sex. You can also use toys on yourselves and even watch prom together if you’re into that. It’s also great foreplay if you’re eventually going to have sex. If it’s a kink then I definitely have it

[Ja****]

Yes, very hot

[Ki****]

It's very common.
Find yourself a partner that is ok with just that, until you are ready for more, or decide to part ways.