Crushes

[wo****]

I’m curious to know if this happens universally, just to some, etc. This has been ongoing. Every time a new very beautiful woman joins the site the site indicates she has a crush on me. Any time any new woman within a reasonable distance from me they also all have crushes on me. Since only like rockstars and A list celebrities would (maybe) get that kind of interest from the start I assumed it was the app being programmed to do this as part of their business model.

Does this happen to all hetro guys? Does it happen to people who are in different categories as well? I am assuming that it doesn’t happen to hetro women because they are already getting lots of attention from lots of guys and it would just be redundant but that’s just an educated guess, so I am not sure

[FE****]

It's certainly not being instigated by the site, however if the crush is likely to be too good to be true, you know what they say!

Sadly, scammers do join the site and try it on, if their actions solicit immediately moving to another site or any form of currency exchange, please use the site's reporting tools to flag it so the person can be removed.

[Wh****]

Never happened to me. I think I'm invisible. Sometimes I smack myself just to see if I'm real.

[Wh****]

Woburn you must be a rockstar.

[Lo****]

You’re clearly a very popular person. Enjoy it. Some of us out here aren’t so lucky 😂

[JackJonesHull]

No. Not to me at least.
Crushes are very few and far between.
Of course I shall now doubt even those.

[jo****]

I only get crushes from women with stupid name combinations that say things like “what for you are seeking here?”

[Deleted Member]

There seems to be a number of fake accounts. I have had few interact as well. Not sure you can combat it. Just be careful.

[jo****]

2 minutes ago, rougefivepdx said:

There seems to be a number of fake accounts. I have had few interact as well. Not sure you can combat it. Just be careful.

I do my best to report the obvious ones, as should we all

[cr****]

I definitely got more connections week one. Also I’m 95% certain more than half the women on the site are bots.

[ch****]

Fake accounts for sure. I get em too. I only interact with verified accounts

[jo****]

I have one in conversation right now that wants to meet for lunch and is about 100 miles from me. I am still wondering when the other shoe will drop

[Ol****]

90% of females on here are always fake accounts on every dating site or site like this. Makes it pretty much not worth the time but yet here we are lol

[GH****]

in 2015 i had alot of luck, then in 2017...all fake

[ki****]

Yep, 99% are fake profiles. And those that are genuine and close by, I'm blocked from, presumably because the app business model doesn't want you to actually meet up and leave the site. After all its all about profits.

This is my last few days of paying for a very unsatisfactory time.

Good luck with your search.

[Milesh]

Mine are all from people thousands of miles away the algorithm if the site is jank. fake profiles and bots are used to generate fake traffic which is used to entice advertisers to pay to put ads on the site. The site also does popup redirects to sites to *** traffic to said advertisers.

[sardonicus87]

They're all fake bots/scammers/cont3nt s3llers. The only ones that aren't, are the ones that haven't been booted yet or are couples/dudes who never read my profile.
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Every literally single one, click, even the ones who aren't "hot"... it "sorry, this user was removed for violating ToS".
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And it's not the site doing that either, pretty sure they aren't paying fake women to like men to get them on... that happens everywhere because too many men are desperate af and stupid and easily taken advantage of because they can't think at all with the head on their shoulders.
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I think either real women don't use the match game, or if they do, I am just way too ugly for them to want match.

[wo****]

Well damn, maybe I fucked up and let lots of great opportunities blow right past me. That sucks lol

[Al****]

Dude you’re definitely not a looker no disrespect, and should already know this app is fake: they took the name from an app already created Fetlife, which is a legit app, and paved way for a fake app for whatever the reading is, for desperate people to pay to subscribe to contact people.

[wo****]

I did exaggerate by saying EVERY Time… but it happens a lot, at least a few times a week. I do remember reading at one point a woman telling some guy something like “I never sent something saying I had a crush on you so I don’t know where that’s coming from” in the app which rein***d my assumptions. Maybe I fucked up. I should have taken the advice that I tell others.
* Never assume, because it makes an ass out of you and me.
Assume ass/u/me

[wo****]

16 minutes ago, AlexVega150 said:

Dude you’re definitely not a looker no disrespect, and should already know this app is fake: they took the name from an app already created Fetlife, which is a legit app, and paved way for a fake app for whatever the reading is, for desperate people to pay to subscribe to contact people.

This is much more along the lines that I was thinking. And no dis taken, I have a pretty realistic idea regarding where I fall on the looks hierarchy which factored into my assumptions as well

[Sl****]

An algorithm might be at work pulling this because I get the same business.

[ne****]

I just know only a few even read messages so I think it's 60/40 bot to human ratio

[ey****]

I seldom check the whole crushes on pretty much any site.  I wouldn't say they're meaningless, but y'know. Low meaning.

I think it feels like conspiracy cos you have to pay to see who spanked you and you'll check them out and, well, it might be someone inappropriate. I guess a work around is to see who checked you out which you can for free - and then with their pic and location you can see if you'd even want to click their profile 

[mr****]

I have actually met two women and a couple from here and I only been on for 2 months I paid for but I’m dissatisfied too everyone I know uses Fet life but I just don’t like how that one’s set up