It's not about the number of conversations it's about the willingness of others to include new people I went for months to the munches had some great kink and vanilla conversations with folks and was still not welcomed one word from a dom ended the conversation mid sentence with the person I was Read more… talking with and suddenly everyone forgets who I am. Without advocates encouraging inclusion of new couples or male singles it's next to impossible to join a play group , as I said doms are only interested in collecting new subs especially if they identify as women . That's just what I have seen.

Its full on High school social rules and they suck My advice is to find some folks outside those groups and make friends with them cause those groups don't include new people, only new subs for the dom.

These are casual munches, and I dressed up just fine it was a choice to exclude me, not how i was dressed, while there was one person who was advocating for the inclusion of new people to the group while she was active it was fine had plenty of conversations with folks but the min she left do to Read more… having her consent Violated I ceased to exisist and no one could remember my name that had nothing to do with confidence or charisma or dress.

Fetlife will be no better. Outsiders are not welcome, more so single guys. There is a code munches are play circle groups who converse with each other if you are not apart of any groups they will ignore you and even pretend not to remember who you are. good luck the doms on there Don't share one Read more… word and you might as well be sitting with your partner by yourselves.