wo**** Posted December 24, 2025 Author 7 hours ago, AlexVega150 said: Dude you’re definitely not a looker no disrespect, and should already know this app is fake: they took the name from an app already created Fetlife, which is a legit app, and paved way for a fake app for whatever the reading is, for desperate people to pay to subscribe to contact people. Not a looker, huh? Well I have a few things to say about that! First of all that’s just some crazy new age 21st century thinking. That’s what that is. You wouldn’t be so quick to say that if we were back in the last century! Back then a lot of the girls thought I was the bees knees. And another thing, a couple of the gals down at the nursing home smile at me when I walk by, almost every time too! One even said I’m “a darling”, so I’m still getting attention from the ladies bro.
GH**** Posted December 24, 2025 its all a grift. Unless your extremely good looking (chad) or in a giant city well over 4 million, 80 percent of men will get 0 from any website minus where hookers advertise, and many of them are bad at their jobs these days.
Ti**** Posted December 24, 2025 14 hours ago, sardonicus87 said: They're all fake bots/scammers/cont3nt s3llers. The only ones that aren't, are the ones that haven't been booted yet or are couples/dudes who never read my profile. . Every literally single one, click, even the ones who aren't "hot"... it "sorry, this user was removed for violating ToS". . And it's not the site doing that either, pretty sure they aren't paying fake women to like men to get them on... that happens everywhere because too many men are desperate af and stupid and easily taken advantage of because they can't think at all with the head on their shoulders. . I think either real women don't use the match game, or if they do, I am just way too ugly for them to want match. Real women use it as well. With similar issues. But as someone else wrote, if we (all genders) find someone, we will no longer use the/any site.
FE**** Posted December 24, 2025 15 hours ago, kinkgent666 said: Yep, 99% are fake profiles. And those that are genuine and close by, I'm blocked from, presumably because the app business model doesn't want you to actually meet up and leave the site. After all its all about profits. This is my last few days of paying for a very unsatisfactory time. Good luck with your search. What you will be falling foul of are the filters that are applied to users' accounts. Just because you've paid doesn't lift those filters. IF the app did what you suggested, it would be a very short-term gain. What gains in the long term are people happy that they are meeting or at least talking to similar kinky people.
FE**** Posted December 24, 2025 15 hours ago, Milesh said: Mine are all from people thousands of miles away the algorithm if the site is jank. fake profiles and bots are used to generate fake traffic which is used to entice advertisers to pay to put ads on the site. The site also does popup redirects to sites to *** traffic to said advertisers. Categorically not true, hence why those fake profiles are removed once we find them.
NickFromCenla Posted December 24, 2025 Ive get those regularly as well and I still dont know wtf it means on here for 'crush' because they are almost always from profiles ive not seen. On other apps, a crush would mean I "liked" them and they subsequently also "liked" me - but that is not what happens here. But what's more ridiculous is these females that you try to give heart to or send message and the damned "send a gift" pops up - and then if you DO send a stupid 'gift' you still are ***d to [X] them out because you still cant even send a like. Wtf!?
NickFromCenla Posted December 24, 2025 And NOONE should be able to create an account and only upload one picture. Screaming scam flag for the single pics of some lady (usually in front of a frickin castle or eifel tower or some majestic background)
Da**** Posted December 25, 2025 2 weeks into 4 weeks of paid subscription. So far people just want to take you to other platforms or charge for services. Not real even decent conversations. I think I’m going to stick with Fetlife
kinkymasterandrew Posted December 25, 2025 I believe people under the "crushes" tab spanked you, if you spanked them too their image would say "crush". I get one every few weeks and they're almost always fake accounts that get blocked from the site soon after. Regarding fakes, they exist, but they get taken down too. We just see more fakes because fakes interact with more people than real women. I have written to lots of women here and most 3 out of 4 of them are real because they turn me down. LOL Sad, but true, fakes have no standards, so why turn a guy down right away. The best we can do is report the fakes, but the site may want to use a captcha when signing up...if they don't already. But you can only put up so many walls since a faker can do everything a real person can.
jo**** Posted December 25, 2025 12 minutes ago, kinkymasterandrew said: I believe people under the "crushes" tab spanked you, if you spanked them too their image would say "crush". I get one every few weeks and they're almost always fake accounts that get blocked from the site soon after. Regarding fakes, they exist, but they get taken down too. We just see more fakes because fakes interact with more people than real women. I have written to lots of women here and most 3 out of 4 of them are real because they turn me down. LOL Sad, but true, fakes have no standards, so why turn a guy down right away. The best we can do is report the fakes, but the site may want to use a captcha when signing up...if they don't already. But you can only put up so many walls since a faker can do everything a real person can. The “fakes have no standards” is absolutely right. If something seems too good to be true…
NickFromCenla Posted December 25, 2025 Well 'crushes' 'spanks' and 'likes me' is convoluted, confusing and annoying as hell. And as far as fakes, often a first hint will be them using 'hun' and another word i can't think of. But I have started pranking the scammers just for fun. But one thing I often do is say "what country are you ORIGINALLY from?" which seems to get me much more honestly and them stating some other country. Because asking "are you really in US (or whatever state)?" They always stay on script. And if you ask what city theyre in, they wont answer. But will always ask 'well what city you in hun?" (Or similar) and they do that so when you say "im in Cactus Crotch" they'll say "well thats where i am as well - visiting my ***"
wo**** Posted December 25, 2025 Author 12 hours ago, kinkymasterandrew said: I believe people under the "crushes" tab spanked you, if you spanked them too their image would say "crush". I get one every few weeks and they're almost always fake accounts that get blocked from the site soon after. Regarding fakes, they exist, but they get taken down too. We just see more fakes because fakes interact with more people than real women. I have written to lots of women here and most 3 out of 4 of them are real because they turn me down. LOL Sad, but true, fakes have no standards, so why turn a guy down right away. The best we can do is report the fakes, but the site may want to use a captcha when signing up...if they don't already. But you can only put up so many walls since a faker can do everything a real person can. I fully agree fakes are an issue and connected to what I was talking about. Regarding spanks, I think I did that once, months ago. If I remember correctly I did it as a second option when I was trying to send a message but couldn’t, later learning about people setting up parameters as to who can and can’t send messages. I learned about that later and figured me not being able to message was probably related to the parameters that they set, which didn’t include me. What happens in my account is that it shows I have x number of crushes and when I click that tab it almost always shows the people as “New”. Since they are very often very beautiful women I just assume it’s the site doing it. I never message them. It makes sense they are bots as you say. I sought others experience to get a better perspective, and thanks to you and others I have.
wo**** Posted December 25, 2025 Author Yesterday at 11:32 AM, NickFromCenla said: And NOONE should be able to create an account and only upload one picture. Screaming scam flag for the single pics of some lady (usually in front of a frickin castle or eifel tower or some majestic background) Sometimes I get a message from a woman and when I try to reply a pop up says the site is seeking verification from them. It usually shows their name with a line through it after that in my message box. Yesterday I flagged one who sent me messages but didn’t acknowledge or include what was in my reply. Their message was essentially the same each time
kinkymasterandrew Posted December 25, 2025 The verification hold is common, but removed once they jump through a few hoops. Some people are blocked by the site and that's permanent. The crushes aren't picked by the site, they liked you. But the matches are the site automatically suggesting people based on compatible BDSM personality test results.
NickFromCenla Posted December 26, 2025 @woburn169344 Beware of any profile with only one photo. Beware of any female profile that has some bizarre ht/wt data , like 2'9" 290lbs or something OBVIOUSLY false- because NO legit female i know of would ignore ht/wt false default info. Beware of the 'close, but not quite right' grammar. They'll forget certain words or they'll call you 'hun' or 'babe' immediately. If you really want to get an idea of the fakes on here, go to your inbox and scroll through prior profiles you orbited around few weeks ago or whatever and click on their name and see how many [this user account has been blocked ...] or whatever it says. Its SHOCKING how many snakes were in the water you were swimming around in and didn't know it
NickFromCenla Posted December 26, 2025 Also, pay attention to photos. I often look in background, for example, Europe has different wall outlets, and often wall mounted heaters etc - different things can definitely be a clue. Especially license plates or street signs
wo**** Posted December 26, 2025 Author I just saw that a very attractive young lady , age 18, has a crush on me. If only it were true, what a fortunate man I would be. p.s. Does anyone have one of those magic lamps that you rub and your wishes come true?
Da**** Posted December 26, 2025 I’m 57 and had a 19 old adorable girlfriend for a few months earlier in the year. It only ended because her old man found out. These things DO happen.
wo**** Posted December 26, 2025 Author I know they happen. I had a very attractive much younger girlfriend not too many years age. Not with that age gap, but I was still more than twice her age. Attention, all very attractive young ladies of the world- I am perfect for you. Come to me naked, with open arms, and experience the magic. Your eyes will open, angels will sing, you will know bliss.
Chloebear Posted December 31, 2025 If it seems too good to be true, it probably is. But there are many very attractive people on here, the proximity is sometimes moreso a red flag for a scammer as they might change proximity to appear local.
wo**** Posted January 1 Author More beautiful women crushing on me guys. They never text me though lol. I must be crazy for not texting them. I could have a harem of beautiful women as easy as pie it seems. Rudolph Valentino eat your heart out.
Sl**** Posted January 16 One popped in to like me just now. The pattern I see is that I (still) welcome them to FET and send a message that thanks her, and says how it could be a swipe thing that’s built here - X for pass and 👏 for like. Rare does an account even say thanks good luck.
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