All relationships need honest two-way communication. I'd just tell her, maybe she'll love the idea, or maybe there'll be a compromise that fits you both. You can talk now, let it build up and talk later, or let it build up forever....I think the first option is what anyone who cares about you Read more… would want.

Interests change but I haven't noticed exposure leading to a marked decrease in interest.

I was replying to this statement, not the other quoted, not sure how that happened.

I didn't mean that for all information, I just used that wording to avoid ambiguity. Words like victim or trauma suffered seemed more limited than the original poster was intending since they talked about it as "important stuff". The question also implies that the important stuff is in the past. Read more… If this was a dangerous ex or medical diagnosis who posed a danger today, that would warrant increased urgency.

To the original question, I think the person with the story should bring it up, the other person(s) may not want to *** the discussion or know how to bring it up with sensitivity. As such, it's a decision of the one with the story to decide what and when they're comfortable sharing. This is all Read more… based on the idea that the person with the story is likely the one more likely to be upset about the story.

Emotional responsibility is when a person, regardless of role, honestly shares their feelings and takes responsibility for their impact on the feelings of their partner(s). It's part of every healthy relationship and takes communication and work.

I believe every thing has a person who is really into it; especially something like squirting. And every thing has people who dislike it. Don't let the previous bad experiences hamper your future joy. Just mention it in your profile and let the fans come to you.

Lust usually comes first because it's easiest to feel, friendship and love take more familiarity.

You could embrace it, many kinky humans pretend to be naughty and need punishment for reasonable actions that actually aren't bad at all.

Traditional is subjective, but I would say kids aren't necessarily.

Yes, legal blindness is my condition; I understand the hesitancy, but it's depressing. I just mention it in my profile to filter out the people who aren't ok with it. Not much else to be done with honesty, dishonesty would just make more trouble.

The idea of the dynamic may have changed his expectations, and his behavior with it. If this is punishment, I would advise caution; I can't really think of any reasonable explanation for not talking, only various shades of distasteful.

Your best bet is to ask him what the issue is. It may be completely unrelated to you, like work stress, health issues, or exhaustion.

First I've heard of it, all your roles are dominant. (I've seen some dominants pick "brat" but you didn't) so I have no idea what they are doing.