It's not based on points, it's based on icons given to other users.

I think part of the issue is different views of blocking itself. I view it as the method of last resort to deal with unacceptable behavior from someone, but others seem to view it as more casual, like hiding someone from searches. I don't know the real reason the casual blockers do it, but I've Read more… been blocked by people after just looking at their profile and maybe liking a picture. I don't like ghosting or blocking, I haven't done either but have suffered both, but who am I to judge.

Being bratty is fine if it's discussed first. It's like a dom ordering you around without discussing it first. From the dominant's perspective, since nothing was discussed, the dom doesn't have permission to do anything except take it like anyone else would in any context. That's how I see Read more… things.

About those hints for premium users, I only got one and it was in German...I don't speak German. 😂

I agree with your view of the procedure on youngsters unless they need it for medical reasons. That being said, you are a consenting adult, so don't let that stop you. Many people are opposed to spanking youngsters but have no issue with consenting adults getting it. I was circumcised at 8 for Read more… medical reasons and it was very unpleasant (be careful using the bathroom after, that hurts too and I wasn't expecting it. Just wear lots of soft sweatpants after.) but if that's what you want there's no reason not to do it. Many adults get it done for religious reasons, so it's not that unusual.

I haven't heard of it specifically, but I don't see anything wrong with that kink. Mutual masterbation is very common, so if you don't mind the man also doing stuff to themselves at the same time, you'll probably find many with experience. Submissive men would also be into just watching you get Read more… pleasure, but directing you may not scratch their itch much. The voyeurism aspect is also very common. You could also do that virtually with someone and have no pressure to engage with them physically. But you're a lovely woman who wants to do sexy stuff with a guy watching, that'll be fun for most men, so don't worry.

Commenting on images is only for paid members, and only if there's no filter stopping them; so most probably don't comment. When I do comment, it's positive. I do think of semi-negative comments, like "which of these people are you?" But I only think those things, I don't post them since it Read more… wouldn't make anything better.

All relationships need honest two-way communication. I'd just tell her, maybe she'll love the idea, or maybe there'll be a compromise that fits you both. You can talk now, let it build up and talk later, or let it build up forever....I think the first option is what anyone who cares about you Read more… would want.

Interests change but I haven't noticed exposure leading to a marked decrease in interest.

I was replying to this statement, not the other quoted, not sure how that happened.

I didn't mean that for all information, I just used that wording to avoid ambiguity. Words like victim or trauma suffered seemed more limited than the original poster was intending since they talked about it as "important stuff". The question also implies that the important stuff is in the past. Read more… If this was a dangerous ex or medical diagnosis who posed a danger today, that would warrant increased urgency.

To the original question, I think the person with the story should bring it up, the other person(s) may not want to *** the discussion or know how to bring it up with sensitivity. As such, it's a decision of the one with the story to decide what and when they're comfortable sharing. This is all Read more… based on the idea that the person with the story is likely the one more likely to be upset about the story.

Emotional responsibility is when a person, regardless of role, honestly shares their feelings and takes responsibility for their impact on the feelings of their partner(s). It's part of every healthy relationship and takes communication and work.