I should first explain I am legally blind; that means I can see some things but not small or distant stuff. It's not a major issue for me, but I want to make sure it's not an issue for you. I have a lifetime of adapting to it, but you may need some time. Because of that I may miss some body language and facial expressions, so communicating clearly is key. It also prevents me from driving, but beyond those two issues, I can do most things.
At heart, I'm a nice guy who enjoys many things, both vanilla and spicy. Communication is the cornerstone of any functional relationship, that goes double for fetishes; consent is another major component of a successful fetish relationship. I'm eager to work to ensure we always have safe fun and I'm willing to take my time to get things right. I'm a retired government accountant so you know I'm trustworthy, patient and careful.
Ideally, I'd like a long-term relationship, but I'm open to other experiences in my search for someone. I enjoy the intellectual and emotional aspects of the lifestyle most. I'm willing and able to host once we know each other well enough.
Some of my vanilla interests include technology, politics, economics, science fiction, fantasy, horror, and videogames. I also frequently go to the gym and would love to have someone to exercise with, at least a little.
I'm up for trying anything safe as long as we know what we're doing, research is part of the fun. It also can't hurt anyone else.
17 clue, seeing all modern events is like drinking from a firehose, you need to pick what you want or you'll drown.
:1772637865,4766526, Even if you only collect the icons, you won 720 points (30 for each icon). If you are VIP or premium, you get even more.
It's 760 points total for standard users, the pair of gold icons are worth 50 points each.
Secrets like that are poison to a relationship. If you feel you need to hide it, you should not do it or tell them and let them and have a discussion as to why.
:1772057521,6903378, I gave away one in the beginning, but I don’t know which one 🤷🏻♀️ I have spot 4 & 11 empty. Can anyone tell me how to know which one I still need to look for?
If the spot is empty, you don't have it. You Read more… either gave it away or never found it.
Cravings happen, so it may be temporary and based on something/someone you saw. It may also be a new fetish awakening in you and be rather permanent. The important thing is not to judge yourself or your desires. Try watching some videos or fantasizing about different aspects and see what gets Read more… you most excited. Maybe you'll act on the new interests or maybe not, either way is fine.
It's not based on points, it's based on icons given to other users.
I think part of the issue is different views of blocking itself. I view it as the method of last resort to deal with unacceptable behavior from someone, but others seem to view it as more casual, like hiding someone from searches. I don't know the real reason the casual blockers do it, but I've Read more… been blocked by people after just looking at their profile and maybe liking a picture. I don't like ghosting or blocking, I haven't done either but have suffered both, but who am I to judge.
Being bratty is fine if it's discussed first. It's like a dom ordering you around without discussing it first. From the dominant's perspective, since nothing was discussed, the dom doesn't have permission to do anything except take it like anyone else would in any context. That's how I see Read more… things.
About those hints for premium users, I only got one and it was in German...I don't speak German. 😂
I agree with your view of the procedure on youngsters unless they need it for medical reasons. That being said, you are a consenting adult, so don't let that stop you. Many people are opposed to spanking youngsters but have no issue with consenting adults getting it. I was circumcised at 8 for Read more… medical reasons and it was very unpleasant (be careful using the bathroom after, that hurts too and I wasn't expecting it. Just wear lots of soft sweatpants after.) but if that's what you want there's no reason not to do it. Many adults get it done for religious reasons, so it's not that unusual.
I haven't heard of it specifically, but I don't see anything wrong with that kink. Mutual masterbation is very common, so if you don't mind the man also doing stuff to themselves at the same time, you'll probably find many with experience. Submissive men would also be into just watching you get Read more… pleasure, but directing you may not scratch their itch much. The voyeurism aspect is also very common. You could also do that virtually with someone and have no pressure to engage with them physically. But you're a lovely woman who wants to do sexy stuff with a guy watching, that'll be fun for most men, so don't worry.
Commenting on images is only for paid members, and only if there's no filter stopping them; so most probably don't comment. When I do comment, it's positive. I do think of semi-negative comments, like "which of these people are you?" But I only think those things, I don't post them since it Read more… wouldn't make anything better.
All relationships need honest two-way communication. I'd just tell her, maybe she'll love the idea, or maybe there'll be a compromise that fits you both. You can talk now, let it build up and talk later, or let it build up forever....I think the first option is what anyone who cares about you Read more… would want.