Being a Middle

[xm****]

I am a collared babygirl and although I may act cute and childlike at times, I never identified as a little. I do sometimes feel like a much younger age and now I'm considering if that is really me entering middle space.

How did you come to realize you were a little/middle and how did you begin nurturing that side of yourself? How do you see that as differing from the babygirl role or would you consider those terms mutually inclusive?

[Sa****]

I found the most non-kink related activities I liked at that age range to see if being childlike still excited me

[an****]

I realized I was into dllg because I liked daddies and I am playful and like fun activities + being babied haha. For realizing I was a middle was when I did research online to figure out what I would classify as. Evie lupine did a good video on YouTube about different subs and little sans what I felt like for me mode was middle. I like more what middles like with tv shows and how I behave more than a little I figured. I don’t really assign myself an age I kind of just play and be free and I would say o probably would be from 10-13. I think the difference is that a middle can have a little more independence than a little like maybe using the bathroom or finding a snack to eat where a little needs a diaper or might ask daddy for a snack. I usually approach it as what do I like and who am I and go from there to decide what I am but I think most people will be slightly different even if they are the same category of submissive

[He****]

Being AUDHD I always felt younger than my physical age but this year I found out about middle space and littlespace and I was like oh I love sitting and colouring and gaming and just all of this as well as being looked after and taking on that middle role. It was a big awakening to be that actually I really liked ddlg within our dynamic and when we started to incorporate it I felt like before something had been missing and this was it. I felt safe and whole. Still finding out what exactly I enjoy and need but so far it's changed so much for me and I can feel parts of me slowly healing. I definitely identify as a little, pacifiers and stuff like that are too young for me, but I definitely think I'm in that upper middle range ❤️ Have fun exploring!

[He****]

There's some really good sources of information on Instagram and podcasts Littlespaces on Instagram do a podcast that's really helpful and good!

[li****]

It's definitely different for everyone, personally I know im slipping into little space when I start sucking my thumb. I can also slip in just by putting on a diaper, curling up in my blankets and watching TV. Since I dont have a cg rn I have to be more of a toddler little, getting my own milk and stuff but when I do have a cg I get very cuddly. There is no right answer though, as being little or middle is a deeply personal experience.