Zo**** Posted November 2 Posted November 2 Age is not an issue as long as they are of legal age, but having said that, I am unlikely to hit on a younger person(early 20s)for a number of reasons. One is the power potential. Being that much more mature puts me in a position of responsibility, especially as Domme. Anorher is they may well be one who isn't attracted to mature people and I do not like the rude rejections I have received. Another is their maturity and attitude. Can they converse intellectually on any subject? How attached to their phone are they? Do they respond it every time it trills? Major turnoff. As a Domme, there is another dynamic. I do not seek submissives. In my opinion, it is the first act of a sub to seek a Domme. It is not my place to recruit potential subs or to convert those with no interest. If I do hit on you, regardless of age, it is not neccessarily as a Domme and more likely as a potential equal.
Ta**** Posted November 2 Posted November 2 Age is a number. It is about the chemistry one can have with the other person.
Dr**** Posted November 2 Posted November 2 That is tough....because I have adult kids, it is more difficult to think of a relationship with someone closer to their ages...
lo**** Posted November 3 Posted November 3 I have a ten year rule . If and I have broke it they have to really impress me with maturity. . But if they could be the age of my kids . And I do t have kids. That's too young. The time I broke my rule it was 16yezr difference . And it' was a friend's basis when happened it lasted a few months a d we moved on still friends . But I could never think LTR with that big of a gap
Deleted Member Posted November 6 Posted November 6 Definitely, since i've pretty much just entered adulthood, I still find myself very weary and cautious of those that are much older. I try to keep the range I actually interact with appropriate.
br**** Posted November 7 Posted November 7 Younger, if they have a 1 as the first number of their age, no. 20+. Older, any age is cool, I’ve always wanted to meet an older domme
Re**** Posted November 7 Posted November 7 Prefer 10 years, but lately talking to people a lot younger. That's weird to me because I used to go with women a bit older than I.
Pr**** Posted November 7 Posted November 7 I love older men!!! As much of an age gap as 27 years! With my experience as a Sub and with over 20 years in the lifestyle, I am attracted to older Daddy's who have lots of experience as well
vs**** Posted November 8 Posted November 8 It seems that today, age is not the big hang up it used to be. Seems there is more concern for truth, truth and being honest with people. Of the kink is still just as much there, but too many, both young and old, are fed up with being manipulated and ***d without any possibility of care and love.
Pocket_Sand Posted November 8 Posted November 8 Not really. I'm into ddlg so I would prefer someone younger. But if she's older I don't mind a small age gap.
Pa**** Posted November 9 Posted November 9 Age Gap... There's a lot of differences between ages, the societal expectation of being within 5 to 15 years of the other person versus emotions, nature, desires, and chemistry. The real question I would ask is what age gap is too great for you to think of having a relationship with someone. Yes age is a number, as long as you're legal, these aspects need to be explored. Society frowns on age gaps and we are inundated daily with keeping within a few years our Junior or senior. Just look at the advertisements of people having fun together are within a couple years of each other. and it's embedded in the aspects of our lives from schooling and from everything we see or do everyday. Breaking the norm paramounts to deprogramming social norms.
Re**** Posted November 9 Posted November 9 For me 62 years male, on the one hand, I feel if a person is completely settled and mature, that knows and is comfortable with themselves as a secure individual, then age is no concern after the age 25+ say. But... On the other hand, I have felt 35 would be the low age for me to consider, how we click match up becomes the key issue. My expectations are around 40-50
Tw**** Posted November 9 Posted November 9 For me having an age gap isn't really something that I think/worry too much about. With me being 40 the only thing I care about is if they are at least 21 and no older than 60.
ha**** Posted November 14 Posted November 14 It depends, i try to stay with ones that are older than my kids, my current lady friend is within 25 years. One of my previous ones i dated there was 30years difference, but she was immature at 23
Da**** Posted November 15 Posted November 15 I've gone 10yr older and 29yr younger, so nahhhh. I always just wanted to find fun nervous systems to play with connected to brains that have minimal hangups to get in the way.
Sk**** Posted November 19 Posted November 19 I have been with older and younger lovers. I think we appreciated the advantages of each others respective ages. Younger is smooth, pliable and eager. Mature is softer, confident and determined lol. I prefer a younger lover for a NSA, ONS. I feel more stability with around the 30-40 year range. Not every time but, most times.
Deleted Member Posted November 21 Posted November 21 I like a good personality. Also, someone that is able to keep up with my pop culture knowledge. If you don't know what Rocky or Simple Minds is, we probably wouldn't have much to talk about. Lol
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