For a beginner, which sex toy should I get?

[Deleted Member]

I never got a sex toy before.
Can someone recommend a beginner friendly sex toy for women?

[FETMOD-TF]

Please feel free to make recommendations but no external links thanks 

[Se****]

Lelo Sona Cruise 👍

[Bracken]

Any sort of wand vibrator

[Wa****]

You can just use my tongue

[Ha****]

Yep start with wand vib

[Deleted Member]

Go online and look up hot octopus. Check out the KURVE. There shit is cutting edge and has Trebble and Bass technology. They’re ahead of the game. Promise you won’t be disappointed

[Do****]

Has completely got to be the clit sucker. The one by love honey in purple. Start there!

[Bl****]

A good quality vibrator from a reputable brand, don’t buy made in china crap

[DD0001]

This all depends on what gets you off.
Different women orgasm from different stimuli. Some of the different stimuli together with an associated recommended toy are -

A. Clitoral stimulation - look at clit suckers (the Lelo and the Rose have really good feedback)

B. G-spot stimulation - most vibrators, especially something that has an upward curve should do the trick

C. Dual clitoral/g-spot - this is where the best toys are as it stimulates both the clit and the g-spot (even if you only orgasm from one or the other, this is still a good option as long as stimulation of the other doesnt distract you from an orgasm). Some recommendations here are toys like the womaniser duo, womaniser blend, a womaniser X, the rabbit and if you dont mind the louder noise, the good old magic wand with attachments (they are like little cups at the end of the wand with bits on it).

D. This is more mental stimuli than physical, if our enjoy couples play, or having someone else having control , the we-vibe range is pretty good and so is the lovense range

E. Nipple stimuli - nipple clamps with built in vibrators (lovense range for couple or distance play also)

F. Anal stimuli - A simple button plug or a vibrating button plug does the trick!


There are obviously other stimulations (both phyyscial and mental) that can trigger orgasms, but you asked about beginner toys. If you want specific toys, let me know and I will try to link them for you.

Please note that these are not from personal use experience but are from my experience organising fantasy sessions for women and couples. As part of it, I sometimes also include toys as part of the session and it is from these sessions that I put together the list above.

[Mi****]

The Magic Wand - https://hitachimagic.com/

[kk****]

Womanizer makes a better air pulse toy than most....the rose and others that use suction can cause damage and have warnings in their instructions not to use for longer than 15 minutes...if it suctions onto your arm and leave a mark think what it can do to more sensitive areas....

A wand is easy for a first toy but may be too much....I dont use mine....I have 4 womanizer toys that I prefer to anything else...they have a 100% orgasm rate from the studies they have done to improve their toys....

[do****]

One of those rose things

[Je****]

A magic wand is by far the best choice for a first toy

[bi****]

Magic wand and butt plugs

[Deleted Member]

The Womanizer is a great first toy 👌🏻

[co****]

For a beginner just get a cheap "personal massager" from Walgreens, Walmart, temu or wish.

[Va****]

Get some but plugs to stretch your asshole

[ar****]

Isn't a "satisfier" the go-to toy these days? 🤔

[SE****]

The rose 🌹

[Deleted Member]

Depends on what your trying to achieve. Obviously a nut but but past that

[Fu****]

Get yourself a rose 🌹

[RL****]

I recommend is a lovense. More on the pricey side but they have a remote controlled one. Anywhere anyone can control it.

[tr****]

I mean I'm willing to be used as your toy baby

[la****]

Look into vibration suction wands or roses, I give away about 6-10 just for Christmas presents, another 4-6 for birthday presents. It's never a wrong choice.