For a beginner, which sex toy should I get?

[xx****]

The rose. I have given many of these

[Deleted Member]

Wand

[Deleted Member]

What is your budget and what gets you off is the best way to narrow it down. Penitration, stimulation, vibration, sucking, movement, natural, fantasy so much to choose from.

[je****]

Honestly it depends on if you like penetration or more clitoral stimulation. I prefer penetration so I lend towards something about 5inches, and narrow girth.

[Sa****]

My past subs have enjoyed the Lovense Dolci it is both penetrative and clitoral in terms of stimulation.

[co****]

Depends on a few things. Cost, frequency of use and features. Cheap toys are great if you want simple things. Try adam and eve.. or lovense if you want premium stuff you can let people control.

[co****]

Lovense

[co****]

Just now, cornfieldDorc said:

Depends on a few things. Cost, frequency of use and features. Cheap toys are great if you want simple things. Try adam and eve.. or lovense if you want premium stuff you can let people control.

Try adam and eve

[DS****]

Something that stimulates both holes

[co****]

Toys are so much fun. But a partner is amazing.

[Al****]

Go to a store. Most people who work at a sex shops are very personable and helpful and are used to the uncomfortable questions. Or just browse and see if anything tickles your brain. Get a couple of things, experimentation is the best part of this.

[Ki****]

Get a butt plug and a dildo

[ma****]

highly recommend a vibrator!! it's a classic for a reason lol. there's a couple different styles, for example some are meant to be external and others are made to be insertable- that much is up to personal preference and figuring out what you like, but if you do get anything insertable (dildo, butt plug, etc.), I really recommend starting with something smaller than you think you need. it's gonna feel a lot different from a partner, and the smaller the better in the beginning (in my experience!)

[jo****]

Start with a pocket rocket a simple little vibrator

[mo****]

I had a rampant rabbit as my first. It was a clit stimulator and a moving, vibrating vibrator in one.

[Sting-ATL]

1. For the clit, the Womanizer 2pro, trust Kismet. She knows.
2. Also for the clit, the "high frequency clit wand". It looks like a dental tool with small ball, a rubber brush and a ball with squirl ears. 
3. The Njoy is a great g-spot toy, not the $180 version but the cheaper knockoff at Amazon works great for $22. They have a large and small size, the larger one works best. Put the small end inside, the bigger end will point up and be a heavier counterbalance. Bob up and down and go side to side. 

[Sa****]

My first toy was a wand style vibrator

[Henriko]

On 1/4/2026 at 11:37 AM, start2finish said:

I never got a sex toy before.
Can someone recommend a beginner friendly sex toy for women?

Well, no need to buy anything, if you're into DIY or experimentation, like, for example an old worn out exhausted and useless handmixer can do the job heavenly well, just use one whisk only with a sock on. Heard girls love it. Me too.

[DD0001]

41 minutes ago, Emithe_gothwhore said:

Pencil then marker then cucumber then dildo then horse dildo then fuck machine

Hahaha ... I love this!

[Bl****]

53 minutes ago, Emithe_gothwhore said:

Pencil then marker then cucumber then dildo then horse dildo then fuck machine

Quite a progression.

[Bl****]

Just now, Emithe_gothwhore said:

lol forgot fingers then finnaly strap on

Have you done the whole lot?

[TimtheMerciless]

Lelo lemon seems very popular at the moment. Quiet and they say it pretty unique and not too heavy handed feeling.

[To****]

Toys are different for each person's taste or, what you would like to experience and or explore.

[Je****]

A wand that’s rechargeable

[Deleted Member]

Can't go wrong with either a wand or rose. For stimulation. For penteation there are so many. But start with a conservative side maybe just a little bigger than what she is used to