Kinky Toys and Things to Try Out with Your Partner
Luckily, we no longer live in an age where sex is heavily stigmatized and considered taboo. Nowadays, there’s not only plenty of talk about this life pleasure but there are also plenty of gadgets and contraptions that make it even more fun than it already is. Here are some ideas to hopefully help you spark the bedroom flame once more.
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If you and your partner have reached a point in your relationship where good sex is slowly fading away, don’t just settle. Instead, explore a world of various kinky things and toys you can try out with your partner and spice things up in the bedroom.
From sex swings, vibrators, and a blowjob machine, all the way to whips, day collars, and couple’s bondage gift sets, there are so many options to choose from you may find yourself a bit overwhelmed. But don’t worry, check out some suggestions below.
High-tech sex toys
Since we’re living in the age of technology, there’s really no reason not to invite it to your bedroom. If you and your partner already have some experience with sex toys – and even if you don’t – consider giving them a shot. What’s cool about these is that they all have various features, with some even enabling your partner (or you) to assume full control. Depending on how kinky or vanilla you want to make things, there will be many options to choose from.
Sex swings
Another fun addition to every bedroom is definitely a sex swing. Even though this may sound a bit complicated at first, it’s actually quite easy to get into the swing of things. A great thing about sex swings is that you and your partner can enjoy them. The more creative you get with using them, the more fun both of you can expect to get. Just make sure that the swing is properly fitted and secured, as the last thing you want is to be interrupted by a swing coming loose.
Bondage kits
Bondage kits range widely in “complexity.” So no matter if you’re trying them out for the first time or simply looking for a new version that may feature some other things your kit doesn’t, research your options and find the one that looks most appealing to both you and your partner.
Talk
Yes, talk. You’d be surprised how many couples go through life without ever discussing their wants, needs, and preferences with their partners for whatever reason. So, talk with your partner if you feel like things are hitting a dry patch and want to stir things up. Aside from all the benefits that will come out of such a conversation, simply talking about sex can get you both more than willing and ready to go. Besides, it can also be a great way to explore some of your kinks, if you’ve failed to mention any of them so far.
Outercourse
You don’t always have to have sex to have some fun in the bedroom. Instead, you can get things moving and simply indulge in some outercourse. Depending on the definition you consult – including your own – an outercourse can include sex toy play, hands play, oral sex, or none of the above. It can simply include outer mutual play without any penetration involved. So, try it out and see how things go. But remember, try to steer clear of PIV or PIA sex to make things more fun.
Install a well-positioned mirror
There’s no denying that watching sexual content can really help put you in the right mood. But if the main actors are you and your partner, things can get even more interesting. Therefore, consider installing a well-placed mirror or two in your bedroom and see things from a whole new perspective. For some extra fun, position yourself right in front of it and consciously enjoy the view unapologetically. If possible, you can even move your sex swing closer to the mirror and get the show on the road.
Leave the lights on
While this may not sound too kinky or adventurous, many people do things vanilla and keep the lights off for the most part. But why do such a thing? Turn the lights on or make sure that the room is decently illuminated, so both you and your partner can clearly see what’s going on. If your partner doesn’t feel confident or comfortable enough, you can always suggest blindfolding them, thus taking things to a whole new level.
Depending on just how kinky you and your partner are, there are numerous other things and gadgets you can try out instead. But these will be more than enough to spark the flame and inspire you to try out new things further. There’s no room for taboo when it comes to personal pleasure, so make sure you clearly state what you’re interested in and your limits.
