Big guys

[Bi****]

So a genuine question, is there a demographic that actually like big guys? Over the past few years I’ve been trying dating and hook ups but always found that my size is always the problem based on conversations except a few times where I jumped the gun on asking the person out a bit too early lol

But seriously is there a demographic that actually likes big guys?

[Sh****]

So I used to be 400lbs and I found as long as I was confident and wasn’t downing myself someone will find you attractive! Confidence is key! If you use your size in a negative way they will see it in a negative way. Just my opinion! I wish you the best of luck brother!

[mr****]

I’m not sure cuz I’m not big, but that too is the exact reason why I’m not and having a nice body is almost an instant win. The praise is also great for confidence and ego. I’ll cut to the point, if you’d like to change that I have a nutrition and muscle building program that works. It’s simple and straight forward but is difficult because it requires discipline. I suggest not doing it if you do not think you are ready to change your life. It is a life style and you change not just a change in your weight. 

[Deleted Member]

I am team big boy.

[Im****]

If you're asking if there are people with tastes specific to larger men and women then the answer is yes. It is all up to the person you are speaking with. Confidence is also key. I'm a bigger man and have been my whole life, but I've been with skinny, athletic, curvy, bbw, etc. I'm 5'6 amd 245 pounds, but my wife is 5'2 and 112 pounds. It's all about you and the person you are speaking with.

[Ba****]

There definitely are. It's a preference even for some. You may have to get or be creative and adventurous to connect with and find them though. They are definitely out there.

[de****]

You not ugly bro, like previously stated confidence is key. Be yourself, you’ll find the right one for you. If weight is an issue for you remember half the solución is identifying the problem. I float around 300 so keep your head up

[Am****]

I’m 6’3 310 pounds decent build but not fit. Girls never come up to you if your that kinda of man. Your no one first chose to you flip them over in the middle of sex and start slapping their ass or something like that. They be like wow you have power. But will they come up to you and ask you out no. They do to that 210 hockey guy. But yes woman like to feel safe and like her man could stop anything that Come her way yes

[lo****]

I love big guys. Strong and cuddly is hot.

[ti****]

Im in a Facebook group for big guys and the women that love them. I like guys that are a little bigger but they have to be able to be active.

[in****]

Not anything you can really point out. The demographic that likes big guys is just… people who like big guys. Different people have different preferences and some are just more common than others. You just gotta keep searching and do your best to not let it defeat you. :\

[Mo****]

Big boys forever. 🤍

[dustinsogood]

I'm sure there is a demographic, as there is one for any type of person. Sadly, the demographic is going to be a small subset of the overall population, increasing the difficulty of finding someone. This effect is probably exacerbated on a dating app.

I used to have the opposite problem of being skin and bones (I was 5'9" and 118lbs). Took years to figure out my diet and gain weight, but it was worth it for me. Perhaps the reciprocal will be true for you.

[DP****]

Nah bro we’re cooked. When I was in shape I got the attention I needed. Now I’m invisible. But that’s just reality

[se****]

funnily enough, there has been a lot of visibility regarding the feederism community recently especially in fandom spaces. on Twitter, there are many women who have been talking about how attracted they are to Charlie from Smiling Friends. within queer spaces, there’s a pretty big love for bears in particular as well especially from trans women

[Sq****]

You get what you put into this. Take that however you want, but it's no less true however you choose to look at it.

[Jo****]

☝️ this, ladies and gentlemen is why it's so important to get out of your own narcissism bubble and stop self-jerking lols. These insecurities ain't gonna protect themselves!

[jo****]

Some people have a shorter length, but they have more thickness and vice versa. if someone is really gonna make a huge problem about your size then u shouldn’t bother wasting your time on them. sex is not the only important thing unless that’s only what you’re looking for.

[Lo****]

I love chubby guys 🤷‍♀️

[St****]

I like bigger guys 💖
But I like them confident!
I once dated a really big guy who I thought was very hot, but he wouldn't take off his clothes in front of me. I'd be naked and he'd suck me, finger me... And that was that. He was good at it, but his insecurities were too much for me. It made me sad for him.

[Lu****]

You may be able to find it easier and better if you went the irl route. Apps and online dating people have an endless selection of options and unfortunately people are somewhat objectified so your question is valid, but short answer is yes people are into bigger people however you may have more grace in real life if you went to munches or events on FetL, or to kink spaces. People who are in athletic shape may be getting more clicks and messages but doesnt mean they are constantly vibing and connecting with and playing and hooking up left and right. As people have said above, they'd prefer a confident big guy who owns it, but if you see it as a problem then you could take the steps to address it, maybe literally even, just walking and or jogging being active outside and you may "run" into a potential somebody outside or in your community that you end up may vibing with and connect with. Instead of coming from a place of "I am a big guy, this is the end all, is there anyone out there into guys like me?" you could switch the script real quick and step forward, get active, and while doing that you'll feel good and more confident and ppl will notice and before you know it you'll have options coming to you, and that point you may not even want to go on a date or hang out with any of them lol. Good luck

[Co****]

As a big dude I get it, best thing you can do is be confident in who you're bare and not wonder if they want you. If they talk to you, generally they took the time to actually look.

That being said, you should be upfront and post pictures of yourself that are more than headshots and selfies. You need full body pics with clothes on, even half body shots are good. If you have one with other people or where you are doing something to show your size comparison.

Trust in that there are plenty who enjoy bigger dudes ( and ladies for that matter) just be you. Be aware and considerate of your size but in general just make it easier for them to know what you look like and let your personality shine through.

[Ki****]

Any time I've actually whet after a guy they've always been bigger. I love a fuller sized body ^^ especially with cuddling cus there warm and soft and it's harder for me to poke them with my joints by mistake since I'm vary skinny.

[ChocolateRopeBunny]

Yes. There are lots of us who love big men

[in****]

Definitely 💯