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Odd-1086

By Odd-1086
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9 hours ago, Odd-1086 said:

The patriarchy hasn't been around for 100 years.

it has. you believing it hasn't is another reason why you're failing

9 hours ago, Odd-1086 said:

Women have had equal rights fir at least 50 years,

you're equating a bill which is questionably en***d on society in a whole.  

like, there is an increasing amount of women in the boardroom, but that's still only 43% on FTSE 100 companies. Only 17% chair the board.   There's assorted other things we could deep dive into. Though I probably won't.

9 hours ago, Odd-1086 said:

The ***hood is the most dangerous thing in society and it's destroying it.

if women are so bad and evil, why do you even want one?

Odd-1086

Odd-1086

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Like Jordan peters says. Why are you 9nly talking about positions of power. Why aren't you talking about brick layers, plumbers
, electricians.women.only want positions of power, but when you ask them to be dominant, they say, but I don't want to be seen that way. It's all just shit manipulation of the facts. They want the power, but not yhe responsibility. That's a fact. And they will never admit that it's their fault. They will just degrade the messenger because they know its true. I had a female advercate who I respected greatly, but when another woman made an administrative mistake, and I had detailed proof, I was the psycho. *** is the calling card of a caught woman. The woman I respected turned on me like I had punched her. People like you are the problem. You work off feelings, not facts. If you can't repute them, then you change the English language to be able to justify it and believe your own lies.
Woman are what is wrong with the western world today. Because people like you actually believe their manipulations. But of course I'm crazy. The worse people n the world are the ones who are not happy to be equal, they literally have to be superior at the cost of someone else. Be it women, be it vegans, be it rainbow people, feminists. And yet as a submissive do you think I can find a woman who will admit that they want to be in charge.
Nooooo. Of course not.

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Posted
12 minutes ago, Odd-1086 said:

And yet as a submissive do you think I can find a woman who will admit that they want to be in charge.
Nooooo. Of course not.

The problem is you. Your attitude stinks. Your views are misogynistic and outdated.   You can't find anyone cos you're not worth having.   

Odd-1086

Odd-1086

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Ahh. Personal attack. That's the way. You're the one talking about an outdated patriarchal society that hasn't existed since the 70's. You believe feminist proper gander.
My original title stands.
Choose what you want to be. Be it either all your heart and you will be happy.
MAKE A DECISION
Don't manipulate people just because your concerned about how they see you. Make that decision to be yourself. The true you. Do you think Trump ( like him or not) got to where he is by caring about what other people think of him. I'm not after a woman that is with a sub just to take his ***. It's been said to.me over 3 times now on this site, by admin. My chances of running into a true female dominant are next to zero. So what does that say about all these woman who want to be called Mistress, goddess. What it says is there are a 100 000 chance to one that they are scammers. As I just said to a potential master. You don't respect what a sub has to go through just to get to one potential dom of any gender.

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Posted
9 minutes ago, Odd-1086 said:

Ahh. Personal attack. That's the way.

Actually, I attacked your attitude. Not you.

10 minutes ago, Odd-1086 said:

Choose what you want to be. Be it either all your heart and you will be happy.

They are happy.

Like, ok. The thing is you are clearly the one deeply unhappy.  The Dommes are happy, either in their own solitude or with subs who actually respect them.

If you feel Dommes are all evil, scammers, manipulative, horrible - then... you need to learn to be happy without one.

Odd-1086

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You don't understand me. I will respect a dom. I just haven't met one yet. Not a single on who actually is one. It's easy to tell. The scammers have a script, almost to the letter. Some vary it a little bit, but they always return to the script. And of course, they are happy because as soon as one realises that they are getting scammed, the acammers just move on to the next suckers with no conscience what so ever.

I doubt that even you know one true dom. Even the guy men that I have met here follow the exact same script. It's easy.

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12 minutes ago, Odd-1086 said:

I doubt that even you know one true dom

Oh, this is where you're very wrong

See.

I am very active in the local community. I travel for events..  I speak to a lot of people in person who will tell me their experiences, and their pitfalls. 

I know people are real cos I'm sitting with them.

 

Odd-1086

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Well here for me to go to a munch will cost me $150 to get in the door because im a single male if i had a partner i would get in fir nothing. They are only in the capital cities of each state. Normally for me that's a 4 hr drive each way plus an overnight stay. All because I'm a single male. Not very inviting is it. I have seven potential Mistresses that are actually in australia that I have messaged. Not a dingle one gas seen my message over the two weeks or so that i have seen them.
Your community is effectively closed to single straight men. Women font have to pay at all. Where's the responsibility for that. No wonder they are sll scammers. In australia there are only 25 million people in a country almost the same dize of the USA. How many people in the USA. Yet I get more mail from Americans that have no intention of having a relationship with me unless I pay for it all. Flights, accommodation, travel expenses. I even had one that wanted cab fare. When I say I'll re enbuse you when you get here or I say I'll buy the tickets. I get called everything under the sun. I bet you don't suffer that. But you call me sad.
I'm still hopeful that one day I'll find what I'm looking for, but if you ask me to go to another platform I'm gone. If you ask for compromising pictures, I'm gone. You ask me to be obedient from 16 000klms away, I'm gone. These are all red flags of scammers. Yet it's my fault that you have no idea what we go through over and over and over again.
I call bullshit. You might live in a bubble, but by your attitude of following the fem8nist narration. It tells me that your life us not reality. It's how you think of your life and the rest of us pay for your delusion.

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By the way, I have many female friends, but they are all vanilla and wouldn't understand why I would want this life style. But they are better then scammers or wanna bes who can't decide what they want. Stop perpetuating a false narrative that men are a problem at all. Get out of your bubble, go explore and see what reality is. Women are the threat especially the ones who portray themselves as something they aren't, just so they feel better about themselves. This site has only made doubt myself. Made me feel bad about myself. I've found several female friends that are real, tell it how it is and don't pull any punches. This is preferable to the make believe people OM this site. Read my profile. I want a 24/7 lifestyle. All you people seem to.only want games. And yes that makes me sad.
I don't need this site for vanilla game players

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Posted
14 hours ago, Odd-1086 said:

The patriarchy hasn't been around for 100 years. Get 9ver it. Women have had equal rights fir at least 50 years, get over it. 8n fact the opposite is true. Woman no.longer have to.provide anywhere near the physical evidence in court yhat a wan has to. Stop quoting literature that is made by women with a distinct female bias to get sympathy for more stricter laws directed specifically at men. Start looking at attitudes of both men and women on social media. You'll find men aren't engaging with women. You'll find berth rates falling below replacement numbers. Men no longer trust women, and thud I'd all around the world. Women are abusing men on social media because having **** between their legs is no longer enough, and their angry because men are demanding more honesty loyalty, support. Thus is in the vanilla world. And you say, the literature say men arre untrustworthy. The ***hood is the most dangerous thing in society and it's destroying it.

Now I'm starting to think you're just a troll.  This post is absolutely stuffed with spurious, ignorant, false points.  I'll take in order.  The patriarchy in western culture has been around since our white ancestors arrived on this continent.  Many Native American tribes were matriarchal, the most noted being the Navajo.

The American civil legal system, which is what it sounds like you're referencing, doesn't have that much of an impact on BDSM and TPE male-female relations.

I have not seen anyone "quoting literature that is made by women with a distinct female bias to get sympathy for more stricter laws directed specifically at men."  Maybe I missed it though.  Sounds like you may have made that up.  Show me what you're referencing.

Social Media isn't reliable at all.  There's bot farms, liars, etc.  It's not wise to make decisions based on what people WANT you to see from their social media accounts.

"Berth" rates or "birth rates" could be dropping for myriad reasons and rationale.  Trying to link causation from your claims is absolutely laughable.  Any high school teacher would tell you that is, yet another, spurious claim.  This is so simple it's not worth even continuing to discuss.  Unfortunately you did carry this point forward, adding more dubious claims.  LOL.

You're in the wrong place, I'm afraid.   You are so far away from seeing the light I don't even know what literature to recommend.  Maybe others here have some more constructive feedback for you.  Good luck, you're gonna need it.

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Posted
3 hours ago, Odd-1086 said:

Well here for me to go to a munch will cost me $150 to get in the door because im a single male if i had a partner i would get in fir nothing.

That's not how munches work at all.

Munches are free for everyone.

 

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Not here. There are only three here that rotate between them. So only one at time a month. And they are all the same $150 for a single male. Nobody else has to pay, just single men. Do you think I'm making this all up. Do.you think that I haven't rung the venues directly. As for everything else that I have said , its either direct experience or statistical information directly from admin here on this site or information from the bureau of statistics here in Australia.

 

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Odd-1086

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I haven't become submissive be assertive of this, but bring submissive is what put me here. Staring over my goal was to live the way I have always wanted, only to find a while bunch of hypocritical women that use bdsm to make *** and scamm men like me. They are no kinky people. They'd are people who have learned that there is *** in kink and use to be able to work from home. Because they have found a man, punched out a couple of ***, divorced them and now can5 keep a normal job. So they do what they have always done. Scamm men for ***.

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So if you look at this in a philosophical way. It's the women who are maintaining the patriarchy because they still expect men to supply their financial well-being. And as before, use manipulate them to get it.
You are so miss informed it's incredible.
I'm starting tibyhink that your guy and have no idea how abusive women are.

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Posted
6 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said:

Munches are free for everyone.

So. I went. I looked.

I found a whole bunch of munches in New South Wales.  Every single one free. For everyone.   So, yes. There's something wrong in how you're looking.

Now sure, of course it may be some swing clubs and fetish clubs operate tiered pricing (an issue in itself) but these are not munches / social events.  

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43 minutes ago, Odd-1086 said:

Not here. There are only three here that rotate between them. So only one at time a month. And they are all the same $150 for a single male

Frankly, that's not my experience of munches in Australia.  When I was working over there, I went to a fair few and none charged!  Sounds lke you aren't talking about munches but about fetish play events.

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Posted
1 hour ago, Odd-1086 said:

An 800 klm round trip and accommodation isn't expensive enough for you. But , by all means Google it.

I did. I found some for free. In Australia. In NSW.

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12 minutes ago, Odd-1086 said:

Oh, I forgot to ask, how many of them were in gay clubs. Last time I looked, most of them. But I didn't know better back then.

A lot of times "gay clubs" as you call them, or LGBTQ friendly clubs as they're better known, have events during the day or on off nights that are not inherently "gay."  These venues are often the center of contact for many smaller, less represented, sub groups of regular people.  In my city, I think munches used to be held once a week during the day time at the local LGBTQ club.  The venue looked just like a normal club except it has a few rainbow flags.  Point is, if you're just assuming, a munch cannot be helpful because it's at a "gay" club then you're already losing.  This post is yet again, a history you've already shown to not be open minded enough to embrace solutions.  Your brain is so fixed on labels, stereotypes, and ignorance that you can't find the solution, even when others walk you to it.

Lastly, this whole ordeal is so ironic it's amazing I have to point this out...  YOU ARE NO LONGER PURSUING NORMAL RELATIONSHIPS.  YOU ARE A SEXUAL DEVIANT!  Meaning, because you are pursuing a D/s dynamic, you are now more akin and simpatico with your local LGBTQIA+ club than your local cisgender sports bar.  That's what is so stunning with your posts...  You are pursuing an alternative lifestyle while being wholly ignorant and even insulting of alternative lifestyles.  Hahahahaha     Side note- this whole time I just assumed you were a fellow American.  Usually, my country takes the cake on this kind of closed-minded ignorance.  It's so refreshing to see other developed countries matching our ignorance out here in America.

Viking3742

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1 hour ago, Odd-1086 said:

That's 1500klms away. Thanks that helps

A quick look found some free or pay for what you eat / drink in Bendigo, Ballarat, Melton, Melbourne CDB , West Footscray, a few others in Sandown the other side of Melbourne CBD to you ).
Yes there is some travel involved in those , max 900 ish Km round trip. Bendigo is only 180 km round trip.
The joys of living outside a metro city in AUS. 🤪
Even most play parties in Brisbane and surrounds don’t cost $150 for guys. Some do but not the majority. Not sure about prices in Victoria have not lived there for over 30 years

Odd-1086

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I'll look , brndigo is doable.it wasn't there 18 months to 3 years ago when I was looking. Certainly not outside if Melbourne.
I'd like to know where in bendigo

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