Collar

[TheDeuces]

I have never felt the need to give myself to anyone like I do with my Dom. I decided to ask if they would accept me devoting myself through collaring, they agreed. What do you do though when circumstances mean I'll never have a 24/7 sub/dom dynamic since now they can't live with me and I'll never be his official partner. I desperately want to live a bdsm 24/7 lifestyle and I enjoyed it a great deal when he was living here, daddys subslut and I felt completely owned. I want that again I do, it's the perfect dynamic for me and I see that is how I will live my life but i want to still be in this dom/sub relationship I'm in now. Has anyone been in a position like this? Do you sacrifice that you'll not have the fullfillest bdsm dynamic? Do you leave and hope you'll feel the need to be owned like that by someone else? 

I appreciate that anyone here who is collared knows how important it is, what it really stands for and I honestly would not of given myself to my Dom if I for a second thought I wanted a different Dom. 

I have no bdsm friends to ask about all this tbh and especially no Submissive ones, they don't understand the conflict. 

Please help and share any experiences or what you did. Thankyou. 

[Tightened_Grip]

This is quite a tricky one - it will depend on a few different factors - was this your first dom or did you find them after a few trial and errors with some others?

You either keep what you have and be semi fulfilled - or you take the leap and let go of your current dynamic and start a new search for a dom that will be able to give you everything you need.

It does sound like you need to do the latter as you are needing a 24/7 lifestyle to be completely happy...but its easier said than done when you have such a connection and history with another who provided you everything you wanted previously and is catering for some of your needs presently..

You have to ask yourself is it enough ?

[Deleted Member]

Can I ask how long you’ve been with your Dom? Have you had other doms or is he your first? I was concerned to read that you’ll never be his official partner - what do you mean?

[kree90]

For me personally, if it isn't the whole package, it isn't for me.