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The art of ropeplay!?


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So rope play has always felt like an art form to me, let me know if I’m not the only one. Especially when it’s done with intention and patience. Idk man there’s something about restraint in a doggystyle presentation that hits different for me than any other. The posture itself is ***, open, and powerful, and the rope just elevates it. I love how the lines of the cord follow the body, how a clean harness doesn’t hide anything but instead frames it. The rope enhances the body just as much as the body gives the rope meaning. When it’s done right, it’s pure eye candy in opinion. Best way to describe it. The balanced tension, symmetry, and control all working together makes it so sexy to me…

My first time trying it was around 2022. I practiced before but not on real person. So long story short I first started by setting her into position and building a waist harness, anchoring it cleanly so it stayed supportive without restricting her breathing. From there, I used single column ties to secure her wrists and connected everything with a hands-free doggy restraint, finishing it off with a smooth futomomo to keep her posture exactly where I wanted it. Once the tension was right and the lines were clean, I stepped back instead of touching her right away. I just wanted to admire my work. So I stood there for a few minutes, taking it in watching her breathe. This is when I could see how turned on she was without a word being said, or me using any toys. I could visibly see her getting super wet to the point she started dripping a little. I guess the anticipation building just from being displayed and held does that.

I’d love to learn how to I’m just stupid all I know at functional knots that don’t look good at all

And invest in some good quality jute rope in a color she loves and it kicks it up a notch 🔥

Rope is a lot of things. The first of these: rope is potentially lethal edge play. Once you have that part down and know how to not end people with rope, you can make it: ***ful, humiliating, artistic, practical, sexy, energetic, switchy, immobilizing, load-bearing, or whatever else you train on.

The rope that you find artistic could be Japanese-inspired shibari / kinbaku / hojojutsu, or it could be cotton clothesline true crime bondage, or something else.

The effect it has on the bottom could be about restraint, or smell, or texture, or touch, or surrender, or safety.

But first: don’t kill or cripple anyone with it.

I would love to find someone close to my location to be tied by that understands the art of it. I personally have heard it can help with fibromyalgia and I love being bound; so the idea of sharbari being used on me, exhilarates me.

I took a shibri class recently and loved it. If anyone in the sd area needs a rope bunny, hit me up. I also want to learn to tie so gusse I'm a switch in this

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